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Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 9:33am On Sep 06
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by dingbang(m): 9:43am On Sep 06
Must you marry Nigerian? There are several other races in america to marry from.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by sherylbakky: 9:46am On Sep 06
The way we Africans carry marriage matter for head ehn

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 9:51am On Sep 06
dingbang:
Must you marry Nigerian? There are several other races in america to marry from.
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 9:51am On Sep 06
sherylbakky:
The way we Africans carry marriage matter for head ehn
It's important though.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:54am On Sep 06
Must they marry? If they stay single will they die?

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 10:02am On Sep 06
tensazangetsu20:
Must they marry? If they stay single will they die?
There must not. But it's not a bad thing if they do

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by dingbang(m): 10:03am On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though
why so? Your will is not good to you, the lord's will is.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by cruxgemmata(m): 10:03am On Sep 06
Its just a MYTH

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Ahmed0336(m): 10:09am On Sep 06
If husband no come go hustle baby daddy.

for dis life, no be everybody go marry.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Barbsamiin: 10:36am On Sep 06
OP, Finding nigerian is a good idea as oneday matters may likely arise, so these are the places with the large number of nigerians in CA if you want to find one.

Ontario- 29,600 nigerians

Alberta- 13,000 nigerians

Manitoba- 3,900 nigerians

British Columbia- 3,100 nigerians

Good Luck.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 10:54am On Sep 06
Barbsamiin:
OP, Finding nigerian is a good idea as oneday matters may likely arise, so these are the places with the large number of nigerians in CA if you want to find one.

Ontario- 29,600 nigerians

Alberta- 13,000 nigerians

Manitoba- 3,900 nigerians

British Columbia- 3,100 nigerians

Good Luck.
Thank you. Nice contributions

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 10:54am On Sep 06
cruxgemmata:
Its just a MYTH
Ok
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by 79733139(m): 10:54am On Sep 06
A lot of single Nigerian men in Canada are NOT going out of their way to look for Nigerian women to marry (or even Nigerians to become friends with). Those Nigerian men have friends of other races and girlfriends (and wives) of other races.

EDITED: There are a lot of wonderful Nigerian women abroad, my point is that they are far apart and surrounded by a lot more equally wonderful non-Nigerian women.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 10:57am On Sep 06
79733139:
A lot of single Nigerian in Canada are NOT going out of their way to look for Nigerian women to marry (or even Nigerians to become friends with). Those Nigerian men have friends of other races and girlfriends (and wives) of other races.
You mean they don't prefer marry Nigerian's single women who based there? But why?

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 10:59am On Sep 06
Ahmed0336:
If husband no come go hustle baby daddy.

for dis life, no be everybody go marry.
Not an option pls.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by 79733139(m): 11:12am On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
You mean they don't prefer marry Nigerian's single women who based there? But why?

They prefer good women who come in all races. If they meet a good woman (of another race), they would grab her instead of putting a lot of effort to track down a good Nigerian woman (my cousin is an example).

EDITED: There are a lot of wonderful Nigerian women abroad, my point is that they are far apart and surrounded by a lot more equally wonderful non-Nigerian women.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Oracleforce: 12:01pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.


Marrying an African ladies abroad is like signing your death.warrant....i prefer white ladies...
Najja guys, run for Naija ladies abroad except if you have spent more time with yourself in Naija and the lady has proved her faithfulness over and over again....some guys are crying abroad now because they marry to an African ladies.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by coronavirus19: 12:03pm On Sep 06
sherylbakky:
The way we Africans carry marriage matter for head ehn
Make trailer just pass beside this one. You know the rest

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Ahmed0336(m): 12:18pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
Not an option pls.
It's always an option.

when menopause came knocking you will understand.
peace!!!

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Ikjosh04: 12:21pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

Hmmmmm, you should be focus on a more herculean task which is to migrate to the countries you mentioned successfully than focusing on marriage.

For your question. A lady with good attributes and not parasitic in nature will be loveable and if you are loveable, you won't have problem getting suitors.

So focus on building or improving those attributes.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Adex2442: 12:32pm On Sep 06
Nice topic

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 12:58pm On Sep 06
79733139:


They prefer good women who come in all races. If they meet a good woman (of another race), they would grab her instead of putting a lot of effort to track down a good Nigerian woman (my cousin is an example).
But being in a strange country, seeing your fellow Nigerian to love and marry is beautiful. My thought though

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by 79733139(m): 1:29pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
But being in a strange country, seeing your fellow Nigerian to love and marry is beautiful. My thought though

Once a man learns the local language (or can speak with the local accent), gets a job and integrates into the society, it is no longer a strange country, it starts to feel a lot like home.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Adex2442: 1:52pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
But being in a strange country, seeing your fellow Nigerian to love and marry is beautiful. My thought though

As the president of National and international union of Nigerian men, we cannot accommodate yr pride and arrogancy in naija and also accommodate u in a sane country where there are tons of thousands of good beautiful women

Sorry to break yr heart dear..

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 2:06pm On Sep 06
Adex2442:


As the president of National and international union of Nigerian men, we cannot accommodate yr pride and arrogancy in naija and also accommodate u in a sane country where there are tons of thousands of good beautiful women

Sorry to break yr heart dear..
Lol. As if members of your union don't have flaws.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Goddys(m): 3:32pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.


let's get married and migrate together smiley

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Kekereekun123: 3:34pm On Sep 06
Nigerian are getting married to each other and some other races. And yes there are a lot a single ladies and guys too. Over here dating apps or match making are your best bet. I have related with foreigners and Nigerian on dating apps and singles group. The younger Nigerian ladies seems to all have the same thing in common they want a financially stable guy ( typical Goldding trait from 9ja). if you tell foreign gals you just landed and still settling they wont stop talking to you, one came all the way to take me out with her car just to chill tho as a friend. If you tell a Nigerian lady that they would like stop talking to you and cant waste her fuel to come see you. Also the culture here is different unlike in Africa where different men will chase and toast you daily. majority of men here wont do that so woman has to make the move ( our 9ja sisters will say over my dead body). Some will marry, those married ones too some will divorce, some too will be single for a long time. In the West marriage and relationship is not a must. A man can lose his house, pay mortgage, child support and spousal support. many have turned gay or avoided marriage completely. it does not favour men. Everything marriage brings can be gotten while being unmarried. so why marry in the west men are last in the pyramid and have no say during divorce and custody.

Hierarchy of importance in the west

kids
Seniors/oldies
women
pets
wood/stone/plant
man

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Adex2442: 3:36pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
Lol. As if members of your union that have flaws.

Nigerian women are flaws on their own.

They are pain in the ass

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Kekereekun123: 6:09pm On Sep 06
Mbdovey:
It's important though.
in those places it is not important. When in Rome behave like roman. Marriage is not a trophy
https://www.regain.us/advice/marriage/why-are-men-not-marrying-these-days/

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Mbdovey(f): 6:36pm On Sep 06
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by tonyson010(m): 6:36pm On Sep 06
Oracleforce:


Marrying an African ladies abroad is like signing your death.warrant....i prefer white ladies...
Najja guys, run for Naija ladies abroad except if you have spent more time with yourself in Naija and the lady has proved her faithfulness over and over again....some guys are crying abroad now because they marry to an African ladies.

Now u made me curious on this. Y are some guys regretting marrying African ladies abroad?

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