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Jerkbaba:
my friend shut up ur mouth!

wpadmin:
Apart from giving birth, what does nature demand of women?

Norman4real:
very stupid comment.

djon78:
You are a very negative person
And negative people can't even see when good is coming there way
Having a negative mindset
Is the worst thing
An individual can do to himself
It drives away good thing
Better change your way
Or you will be never amount to anything
In this life



Life ain't easy
But with positive attitude
You can still enjoy life

Most of these women
You guys call evil
Have there good side
But it's what you put in a woman
You get out
See
This thing we call love
Is not all those feelings and butterflies in my stomach
Love is being patient, kind, humble, not being rude or selfish to your partner
For things to walk out
You must learn patience
I am talking from experience
You can turn the worst woman around


A generation of men
Are being raised
That talk evil of women

Many of our mothers
We're not enterprising
Like today's women
They solely relied on our fathers
A lot of today's women
Are very enterprising
I have associates I know that supported
There husbands
In fact some where carrying there homes
But you won't know


But it's the way there men treated them
That' brought out the best in them
Many men really need to get humble
You get the best from a woman like that


I have an elder cousin
Rich, has a factory
With over 50 employees
But his madam can send him on an errand
And he will go
That's humility
A woman nurturing his four kids
Quite a handful
Why won't he be supportive of that woman


I believe you have not seen
Anything in this life
Woman get power oo
Especially where her children dey
I have seen bigmen confess
That na woman get children oo
In fact I Don see a multi billionaire
With all his money
His grown up children
Turned there backs on him
Because of the way he treated there mother
If you have children
And see how attached to there motgers
You will understand

djon78:
It may be stupid to you based on your reasoning, understanding capacity and also when you lack wisdom

Jerkbaba:
*yawns*. Is that it?

Norman4real:
where's the wisdom in saying that "drama makes relationship interesting". That's the kind of nonsense you hear from people that grew up in dysfunctional homes where u think it's normal for husband and wife to be arguing all the time.
The only reasonable thing you said was that nature placed on us the burden of providing for our families coz that's a fact, but you follow that up with something as stupid as saying that someone without a family can't be successful financially.
I think it's you that needs to grow up a bit.

djon78:
And you think nurturing children
Is an easy work
Or running a home
Is an easy job

Oga you are not the same thing with a woman
A woman has the children, the home and for those that work her job.

While a man has only his job
A lot of men have no clue about rearing children, or running a home

wpadmin:
Women work these days and children spend more time with Nannys, daycares before graduating into real schools.

A group of women are also pushing a notion that men should also do house chores and take care of kids too. With time, it would be normal.

I guess you are a very matured man who got married early 2000’s.

djon78:
Even with the nannies
A working woman still looks into what they do
If you leave your kids completely to the nannies
Don't be surprise they turn into something else

djon78:
So husbands and wives don't argue or have disagreements or issues to settle sometimes?

Everything is rosy all the time
Abi

And where did I say someone without a family can't be successful
Seems your comprehension is suspect

wpadmin:
You surely check up on your kids too sir and you are working too.

Marriage for new age females are;

1. Husband and Wife both working.
2. Children with Nannies.
3. House help keeps the house clean.
4. Husbands money is Family money, my money is my money.

If the husband is super rich, he can foot all the bills of Nannies, house helps etc without the wife contributing.

What is the wife still nurturing?

Then when the kids mature, they sing praises, honor and adoration to mama like the Dad didn’t spend all his life working.

Modern marriage favors only women

Jerkbaba:
a big stupid one infact!

Norman4real:
I'm not saying that there's no arguments and misunderstandings in relationships. My issue is with you saying that these misunderstandings make the relationship interesting. That's bullshit.

And ohhh, here's a screenshot of you saying that people who don't believe in having marriage and families can't be successful.

Munirboss:
Abeg who dey supply u weed?

djon78:
I said people with his mindset
A man that comes online
To complain about men doing all those things he was rambling
A rearly successful economically
I used the word his mindset
Condition of his reasoning and mentality

Norman4real:
And which mindset is this The whole point of this thread was him saying that men should not get married or start families with the women today. So my point stands, you're saying that men who don't subscribe to your view of settling down to get married can't be successful.

Jerkbaba:
na ur papa na.

djon78:
It's weak men that come online rambling thrash
Calling people simp
An economically successful man is not a cry baby
He has his time for other things
It's the op that's a simp From his cry baby
Or you want to join him in his cry?

I have told you what I said
But if you can't comprehend it
Then excuse me
I can't help you

Munirboss:
Childish

Norman4real:
Spoken like a true simp. Have a good night sir. I have nothing to add to you either.

Jerkbaba:

djon78:
And you think nurturing children
Is an easy work
Or running a home
Is an easy job

Oga you are not the same thing with a woman
A woman has the children, the home and for those that work her job

While a man has only his job
A lot of men have no clue about rearing children, or running a home

Kekereekun123:
Nigerian are getting married to each other and some other races. And yes there are a lot a single ladies and guys too. Over here dating apps or match making are your best bet. I have related with foreigners and Nigerian on dating apps and singles group. The younger Nigerian ladies seems to all have the same thing in common they want a financially stable guy ( typical Goldding trait from 9ja). if you tell foreign gals you just landed and still settling they wont stop talking to you, one came all the way to take me out with her car just to chill tho as a friend. If you tell a Nigerian lady that they would like stop talking to you and cant waste her fuel to come see you. Also the culture here is different unlike in Africa where different men will chase and toast you daily. majority of men here wont do that so woman has to make the move ( our 9ja sisters will say over my dead body). Some will marry, those married ones too some will divorce, some too will be single for a long time. In the West marriage and relationship is not a must. A man can lose his house, pay mortgage, child support and spousal support. many have turned gay or avoided marriage completely. it does not favour men. Everything marriage brings can be gotten while being unmarried. so why marry in the west men are last in the pyramid and have no say during divorce and custody.

Hierarchy of importance in the west

kids
Seniors/oldies
women
pets
wood/stone/plant
man