Hey y'all Good Evening or whatever it is in your perspective nations, I'm a Nigerian Immigrant here in the 6ix,been up here for a while now .Next month makes it a year.

I'M not the juiciest writer,what I say here wouldn't be so eye catching or fun but its honest pure fact.

I work for a IT firm and money has not been my worry for two years now (Glory to God) but I've not been really chanced to look for a partner cos of d nature of my Job,But for these pasts fouro months I've been a little bit more loose innit.

So to d topic, I've been searching for a partner to be with here in the 6ix,I've been with White girls,A Korean Chick but not a black Canadian or AA.

And we went along quite right but cultural differences played a huge role in undermining d relationship (the last one was d final straw). I got to decipher that maybe Nigerian Girls are the best for me and las las I got to settle down with one.

So therefore , I started hanging around Nigerians churches,Weddings yunno places where we can easily be ID. Gotten my few share of Nigerians Chicks here, They tend not to be the most beautiful girls a round here(But this is a thread for another nigga),but the issue I have with them is the attitude problem.

Yes I said it,NGA Chicks have terrible atitide here and I don't figure,there's this sense of high self esteem they have cos some of em where born in Canada or somewhat, or they live here now/or other reasons barely know to me .

Huge altitude Problem,and even if you're doing well there ,there's always this something extra they'll need,you can't satisfy them.and they hang around AAs a lot so they threaten to call police on you or Advance Divorce Threats (even when you're not married lol)

They tend to be bossy,Unnecessarily rude and manipulative, Very self centered and to crown it all .Always angry .

Don't know where we got it all wrong. I tell you .We should be doing this to ourselves in a foreign Land. The Biggest Problem here I've come to note is the Baby /Child Support stuff they do here. its real and although I know White people Started It but the way Nigerian women abuse the privelidge (I haven't experienced the trauma of this personally and don't wish to).

I shouldnt deviate but theres a big problem I tell you mate. Our sisters are always perturbed, I don't if I should use d word depressed or something but there's this thing always biting them Emotional or psychological that they refuse to share with their partner.

I had d roughest 2 months of my stay here in 6ix these last 2 Monthly cause of Nigerian chick,For d first time in my life I got arrested and Put in Cell.(Don't think I need to explain why to anybody)

So OGs in d house. Pls whats d move? , What Should I do . My Yoruba Co-worker suggested an East African Chick or some thing but I Havent really seen many of them here. I still believe I can get a level Headed Naija Chick but maybe not here, I thought about going back to Nigeria to find a gurl but ive heard and see stories. lol No no .

So pls any suggestions for a G.I'm 24 BTW.thanks in advanced God bless Y'all

Because better leave is no where to be found there

You know the funny thing, it is always Nigerian men who left to live in western countries that complain about our women and not those born there. The problem is that Nigerian men expect to treat Nigerian women the same way you treat them back at home and you guys are usually surprised when that doesn't fly over there.

Can you honestly tell yourself that the behaviour, the treatment, the same mannerisms you showed your foreign girlfriends was what you showed the Nigerian girls? Did you have the same expectations of them that you had of the foreign girls?

Anyway, you're still young and except you're looking to get married real soon, you have enough time to find yourself a spouse. If Nigerian girls are not for you, stick to other nationalities, after all everyone has their type.

FlackoJodye:
Hey y'all Good Evening or whatever it is in your perspective nations, I'm a Nigerian Immigrant here in the 6ix,been up here for a while now .Next month makes it a year.

So to d topic, I've been searching for a partner to be with here in the 6ix,I've been with White girls,A Korean Chick but not a black Canadian or AA.

And we went along quite right but cultural differences played a huge role in undermining d relationship (the last one was d final straw).

So pls any suggestions for a G.I'm 24 BTW.thanks in advanced God bless Y'all

My advice for you: integrate into Canadian culture properly, then the rest will fall into place.
Otherwise go to Nigeria and marry what you are familiar with, don't forcefeed yourself food you don't understand.

optimusprime2:


My advice for you: integrate into Canadian culture properly, then the rest will fall into place.
Otherwise go to Nigeria and marry what you are familiar with, don't forcefeed yourself food you don't understand.

Thanks Sir,But the latter ideas seem not to work out these days ,So many sad stories all d time

PLS,IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A GIRL YOU HAD SEX WITH 14TH OF FEBRUARY TO PUT TO BIRTH 7TH OF SEPTEMBER.

FlackoJodye:
Thanks Sir,But the latter ideas seem not to work out these days ,So many sad stories all d time

As much as there are sad stories about that, there are also happy stories about marrying from Nigeria.

But for real if that's not your cup of tea, then immerse yourself in the culture and get to understand how to get along with the ladyfolk there. Because I can easily tell you haven't culturally integrated there, You are still using a "Naija mindset" to socialize and that's not going to get you far.

Here we go again

[quote author=youngsahito post=93769651]PLS,IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A GIRL YOU HAD SEX WITH 14TH OF FEBRUARY TO PUT TO BIRTH 7TH OF SEPTEMBER.[/quoe


Not possible na d girl dy lie

Not again abeg. Not all of them are rude and bitter.

Like the other guy said "integrate properly into Canadian society" and your dating pool will become considerably larger.

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FlackoJodye:
Hey y'all Good Evening or whatever it is in your perspective nations, I'm a Nigerian Immigrant here in the 6ix,been up here for a while now .Next month makes it a year.

Op you no try o, so after succeeding to escape you still went there to mingle with Nigerian girls and their problems? Find another African chick at least the cultural difference won't be much....

Out of curiosity, I learnt that the term - 6ix - is a nickname for Toronto.

FlackoJodye:
Hey y'all Good Evening or whatever it is in your perspective nations, I'm a Nigerian Immigrant here in the 6ix,been up here for a while now .Next month makes it a year.

I had d roughest 2 months of my stay here in 6ix these last 2 Monthly cause of Nigerian chick,For d first time in my life I got arrested and Put in Cell.(Don't think I need to explain why to anybody)

That is serious esp for job prospects.

The Biggest Problem here I've come to note is the Baby /Child Support stuff they do here. its real and although I know White people Started It but the way Nigerian women abuse the privelidge (I haven't experienced the trauma of this personally and don't wish to).

But but but....ignorant Nairalanders claim it is the best lifestyle since sliced bread without factoring in that the best way to raise children is in a two parent-household not babymamaism. Wait for it, someone will mention Obama who is an exception not the norm,

I wish you the best sha.

Immunity04:
Op you no try o, so after succeeding to escape you still went there to mingle with Nigerian girls and their problems? Find another African chick at least the cultural difference won't be much....

OK.thanks

youngsahito:
PLS,IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A GIRL YOU HAD SEX WITH 14TH OF FEBRUARY TO PUT TO BIRTH 7TH OF SEPTEMBER.

Capital No

youngsahito:
PLS,IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A GIRL YOU HAD SEX WITH 14TH OF FEBRUARY TO PUT TO BIRTH 7TH OF SEPTEMBER.

That would be premature birth... But if the birth is not premature at the time then ....

There is Yoruba lady that her/her children do video call, she ain't bitter.

[quote author=FlackoJodye post=93768883]Hey y'all Good Evening or whatever it is in your perspective nations, I'm a Nigerian Immigrant here in the 6ix,been up here for a while now .Next month makes it a year.

I'M not the juiciest writer,what I say here wouldn't be so eye catching or fun but its honest pure fact.

I work for a IT firm and money has not been my worry for two years now (Glory to God) but I've not been really chanced to look for a partner cos of d nature of my Job,But for these pasts fouro months I've been a little bit more loose innit.

So to d topic, I've been searching for a partner to be with here in the 6ix,I've been with White girls,A Korean Chick but not a black Canadian or AA.

And we went along quite right but cultural differences played a huge role in undermining d relationship (the last one was d final straw). I got to decipher that maybe Nigerian Girls are the best for me and las las I got to settle down with one.

So therefore , I started hanging around Nigerians churches,Weddings yunno places where we can easily be ID. Gotten my few share of Nigerians Chicks here, They tend not to be the most beautiful girls a round here(But this is a thread for another nigga),but the issue I have with them is the attitude problem.

Yes I said it,NGA Chicks have terrible atitide here and I don't figure,there's this sense of high self esteem they have cos some of em where born in Canada or somewhat, or they live here now/or other reasons barely know to me .

Huge altitude Problem,and even if you're doing well there ,there's always this something extra they'll need,you can't satisfy them.and they hang around AAs a lot so they threaten to call police on you or Advance Divorce Threats (even when you're not married lol)

They tend to be bossy,Unnecessarily rude and manipulative, Very self centered and to crown it all .Always angry .

Don't know where we got it all wrong. I tell you .We should be doing this to ourselves in a foreign Land. The Biggest Problem here I've come to note is the Baby /Child Support stuff they do here. its real and although I know White people Started It but the way Nigerian women abuse the privelidge (I haven't experienced the trauma of this personally and don't wish to).

I shouldnt deviate but theres a big problem I tell you mate. Our sisters are always perturbed, I don't if I should use d word depressed or something but there's this thing always biting them Emotional or psychological that they refuse to share with their partner.

I had d roughest 2 months of my stay here in 6ix these last 2 Monthly cause of Nigerian chick,For d first time in my life I got arrested and Put in Cell.(Don't think I need to explain why to anybody)

So OGs in d house. Pls whats d move? , What Should I do . My Yoruba Co-worker suggested an East African Chick or some thing but I Havent really seen many of them here. I still believe I can get a level Headed Naija Chick but maybe not here, I thought about going back to Nigeria to find a gurl but ive heard and see stories. lol No no .

So pls any suggestions for a G.I'm 24 BTW.thanks in advanced God bless Y'all[/quote pls bro can you help me with childcare provider/home support worker job over there ?]

Don't you have a loyal gf while in Nigeria? Bring her over. Leave all these entitled naija women in Canada, menopause will catch up with them while single.


If you are planning to travel, nurture your girl while in Nigeria. You will know a girl that will become domineering if you date her for 2 years except you are blinded by lust.

A woman that respects you will keep respecting you even if she relocates to heaven. It's all attitude problem and inability to curtail absorption of western feminist cultures

Must you marry a Nigerian Lady? Don't kee yaself, cool down and look for a lady that's cool headed over there, stop looking for naija if you can't find any one of your taste.


Good luck

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Try another african

ojun50:
Because better leave is no where to be found there

you mean love

Op if I will be very honest with you, women tend to be generally manipulative and bossy except you have the masculine charisma. You may need to be very rude too when dealing with Nigeria ladies abroad ( I read this in an article written by a Nigerian lady but can recall the name)
Goodluck in your quest

youngsahito:
PLS,IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A GIRL YOU HAD SEX WITH 14TH OF FEBRUARY TO PUT TO BIRTH 7TH OF SEPTEMBER.

YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER

[quote author=FlackoJodye post=93768883]Nigeria girls this, Nigeria girls that, women this, women that, leave them alone and stay on your own if you can't reach an understanding with them.

You are the one with the 'huge altitude problem' .. the fact that you can't make your point without generalising things is BAD!

24years old and you sound desperate already, what do you want exactly? You want to play around or you want to commit to something? Maybe you are not approaching them the right way or maybe it's your attitude.. the problem mustn't always be from one gender you know.

Clicked:
You know the funny thing, it is always Nigerian men who left to live in western countries that complain about our women and not those born there. The problem is that Nigerian men expect to treat Nigerian women the same way you treat them back at home and you guys are usually surprised when that doesn't fly over there.

Can you honestly tell yourself that the behaviour, the treatment, the same mannerisms you showed your foreign girlfriends was what you showed the Nigerian girls? Did you have the same expectations of them that you had of the foreign girls?

Anyway, you're still young and except you're looking to get married real soon, you have enough time to find yourself a spouse. If Nigerian girls are not for you, stick to other nationalities, after all everyone has their type.

Lmao, big joke. Seems you have not had discussions with people other than Nigerians that are abroad. Generally, Naija babes want the feminism of the west and also want men to do the conservative things we do in Naija, how does that fly? an average Naija babe wants a guy to make meals, do house chores and still want you to take care of all the bills the way our fathers do, and plenty go still dey threaten you untop your own money, though, to be sincere they are good Naija babes too oooh, but make we no lie nothing to write home about them. Op go for east Africa babes or south African babes since you said you dont like caucasian babes. I’ll advice you sef, if you are friends or dated any babe in naija before you travelled try rekindling things with her thats if you’re are that high into naija babes sha. And as my popular saying, never go into any marriage without a prenup, in this present age,no matter how gentle and nice the babe is, 10 years from now she can decide to part ways due to Irreconcilable differences, its no ones fault , but dont loose out and regret. We are both young and if you look at the world from my perspective maybe you would get my point. Just my 2cents sha.

Clicked:
You know the funny thing, it is always Nigerian men who left to live in western countries that complain about our women and not those born there. The problem is that Nigerian men expect to treat Nigerian women the same way you treat them back at home and you guys are usually surprised when that doesn't fly over there.

Can you honestly tell yourself that the behaviour, the treatment, the same mannerisms you showed your foreign girlfriends was what you showed the Nigerian girls? Did you have the same expectations of them that you had of the foreign girls?

Anyway, you're still young and except you're looking to get married real soon, you have enough time to find yourself a spouse. If Nigerian girls are not for you, stick to other nationalities, after all everyone has their type.

how far babe ,show that dude some love we all are in the world outside 9ja ,u don't have to be so harsh na ,he might be young that dat should not stop him from searching out a right 9j lady ,same with me ,I actually prefer 9ja ladies to other nationality in Africa ,but ahh it seems some misbehave alot but what to do ,

Kenny242:
Try another african

for me ghana is a no go area ,Kenya is a no go area
for zimbabwe be ready to be jealous because they are friends with everyone,but might not be fuvking them oo,lol.
cameron they are cool but still have that Nigeria girls attitude

missimelda01:
You are the one with the 'huge altitude problem' .. the fact that you can't make your point without generalising things is BAD!

24years old and you sound desperate already, what do you want exactly? You want to play around or you want to commit to something? Maybe you are not approaching them the right way or maybe it's your attitude.. the problem mustn't always be from one gender you know.

una must claim,24 is too young to date

Timiofak:
Lmao, big joke. Seems you have not had discussions with people other than Nigerians that are abroad. Generally, Naija babes want the feminism of the west and also want men to do the conservative things we do in Naija, how does that fly? an average Naija babe wants a guy to make meals, do house chores and still want you to take care of all the bills the way our fathers do, and plenty go still dey threaten you untop your own money, though, to be sincere they are good Naija babes too oooh, but make we no lie nothing to write home about them. Op go for east Africa babes or south African babes since you said you dont like caucasian babes. I’ll advice you sef, if you are friends or dated any babe in naija before you travelled try rekindling things with her thats if you’re are that high into naija babes sha. [b]And as my popular saying, never go into any marriage without a prenup, [/b]in this present age,no matter how gentle and nice the babe is 10 years from now she can decide to part ways due Irreconcilable differences, its no ones fault , but dont loose out and regret. We are both young and if you look at the world from my perspective maybe you would get my point. Just my 2cents sha.

Telling the girl you want her to sign a prenuptial agreement can make her call the marriage thing off. Most ladies are against that idea.