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Bros, Bros, Bros, how many times i call you?

Baba You see ladies bah even devil no dey understand them sometimes.

The answer to your question is not that every lady is unique and have a diffrent way she would want to be approached, but your answer lay's in the fact that.

MOST LADIES DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

Oga To slap that your sister dey hungry me, she knew she will never Date him, so why was she taking all those Fancy gifts and things from that MuMu guy in the first place?,

Friendship and relationship shouldn't be forced. She doesn't want anything more than friends, I don't see why he should be mad.

Kenplay:
My younger sister who paid me a visit from Abuja yesterday was discussing with one of her female friend on phone and her voice was loud with anger so I could hear her clearly.

On the phone she was telling her friend how one of her male friend of 3 month wants to suddenly date her and how she sees the guy as “just a friend".
That word “just a friend" from her made me feel pity for this guy but what really broke my heart was when I summon courage to ask her in the evening because I felt its her personal life. Guess the gibberish my little sister was telling me?

She said; The guy is intelligent, calm, generous and do care for her and the guy told her 3 month ago to be her friend which she accepted and since then the guy has been nice to her and buying her fancy things But all of a sudden since last week the guy told her lets push the friendship to a higher level, which according to her got her irritated and the guy is now seeing her like a bad person for refusing his propersal.
I dont know if to pity the guy, blame my sister or simply remain speechless after her long epistle so I just told her I will reply you before you travel back.

Now I have two questions;
(1) if the media, movies and the society always tell us to be friends with a girl first then why is my sister rejecting his proposal after 3 month of friendship?
(2) The society always tell us to be nice and caring with a girl to win her heart, then why is my sister still rejecting this guys proposer after being nice, generous and caring to my her.
The worst of it all is that my sister is decent girl who is very churchy but I cant say what she does in private.
Nairalanders, I would love your opinion about this topic
Lalasticlala

1. I guess the guy mistook friendship with something else. BTW the movies/media isn't a way to live
2. If ten guys are nice to her, do you want her to accept them all

95% of the girls dt av dated and banged in this life started from just a Friend or bestie things and its all about how well you play ur card with the bea..
maybe that said guy case is different based on how he did his bt as for me, am very sharp and strong enough to take my walk when she's pushing me to dt friendzone n dts the gee mistake..
generally girls are too complex to understand, even if girls comes with map at their backside, we still cant read and understand them..