MrBrownJay1:
Lol another few donkeys spotted on this thread!!!

No wonder so many men are taken for a ride with such failed mindset. If your woman has a job and doesn't contribute to the wellbeing of the family, then this woman is useless to the family unit, and any man should get rid of her.

A family is a UNIT, where both daddy and mummy will do their everything to better the family. If a man does everything while a woman doesn't then why should they be called husband and wife?! She is just a maid/cook and walking womb....aka a family employee.

That above man is just one of the deluded low self esteem men who use money to control women.

Zzor:
This is so true,God bless Reno

bukatyne:

E ti take e personal

I have no issues how a couple decides to run their finances WHILE married.

Now that some people THINK it is okay for a spouse to continue to enjoy same financial lifestyle without providing same domestic support after divorce, one starts to look at these things in another light.

helinues:
If men are the head of the family, what's the position of women?

Mariangeles:


According to Christian doctrine, the body. And the bible says that "...the head cannot do without the body" therefore, Reno is wrong.
The body (wife), must support the head (husband).

bukatyne:


What do you think of this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/6111393/man-ordered-pay-ex-girlfriend

Zzor:
wao,this is wonderful but can only happen abroad

bukatyne:


You think it is wonderful that a man is made to pay for the lifestyle of his ex-girlfriend for the next 10 years?

Interesting.

Zzor:
lol, he's paying for draining her emotionally

bukatyne:


She did not drain him too? Or are you saying only a man benefits from a relationship where he constantly spent his money to 'elevate' her to his status.

MrBrownJay1:


Sista, this common law spouse issue is very simple, I am amazed at how many people don't get it.

These women are not getting spousal support because they provided domestic support during their union (most of these women probably have maids and don't even do chores), they get it because of a certain life that she is now used to live, thanks to that man. So if you guys have kids going to private school with private drivers all their lives etc, then just because they divorce shouldn't be a reason for these kids to now be affected by the divorce and use public bus to go to some BS school...same with that ex lifestyle.

Zzor:
Before that judgement,the judge must have listened to both sides and proper investigations done.Remember this is not Africa,in a sanner clime this is how it should be so as to put alot of men in check

bukatyne:


What are these laws supposed to check men against?

Zzor:
infidelity,domestic and emotional abuse,irresponsibility,negligence and so on

bukatyne:


And women don't do these things?

Zzor:
women are mostly victims of all these,just some few exceptional cases.Why are you acting like you don't know

Zzor:
women are mostly victims of all these,just some few exceptional cases.Why are you acting like you don't know

bukatyne:


I have seen enough to know that men are not inherently evil neither are women saintly victims.

Men and women can be goo/evil hence every case needs to be reviewed on its own merit.

In that thread, only offence was ending the relationship (and it was not stated who did).

Zzor:
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

DrayZee:

"Women are mostly victims"
Therefore, it makes sense to make a law that punishes men whether the crime was committed by them or against them?
That's nonsense.

Zzor:
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaahaahaha @ 'I defend men a lot.'

I don't defend any sex, I look at individual cases on their merit and carry on from there. Defending a sex would mean subjective analysis when issues crop up because I NEED to defend the side I am on.

I am always on the side of objectivity hence I have been called misogynist, a man hater, feminist, anti-feminist etc.

Regards to your mom too.