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Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Ybaby: 3:54pm On Sep 12, 2020
He said what he said.

Discuss below?

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by GboyegaD(m): 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2020
Typical of an egoistic man. It is called a family for a purpose. Finances should be well planned and same for other aspects of the family.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Hathor5(f): 7:15pm On Sep 12, 2020
Are all women poor?

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by cerpvad(m): 7:20pm On Sep 12, 2020
He is damn right. The man is the head of the union and Whatever the woman earn should only be an addition.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 7:34pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hmmmmm

Till he has to fund that lifestyle AFTER they are divorced without the wife continuing the supposed contribution she brought to the marriage.

Last last, everyone would be alright.

Cc: MrBrownJay1, see your friend. grin

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:40pm On Sep 12, 2020
Lol another few donkeys spotted on this thread!!!

No wonder so many men are taken for a ride with such failed mindset. If your woman has a job and doesn't contribute to the wellbeing of the family, then this woman is useless to the family unit, and any man should get rid of her.

A family is a UNIT, where both daddy and mummy will do their everything to better the family. If a man does everything while a woman doesn't then why should they be called husband and wife?! She is just a maid/cook and walking womb....aka a family employee.

That above man is just one of the deluded low self esteem men who use money to control women.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 12, 2020
This is so true,God bless Reno

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by LordKO(m): 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2020
Quasi-balderdash! Only a conscientious wife deserves fairness or royal treatment - the good thing is that she won't take pleasure in insulting you, provided that you're conscientious. Paying the bills, as a husband, should be done for the pleasure of it as it's the right to do not because you want to dominate her. However, an opportunistic wife - be it a haughty or disingenuous opportunistic wife - deserves no fairness but continual slap, physically, emotionally, psychologically, and financially.

If you must pick the bills before you can dominate your wife/your wife will submit to you, you simply have a frenemy and should always treat her as such.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 8:06pm On Sep 12, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
Lol another few donkeys spotted on this thread!!!

No wonder so many men are taken for a ride with such failed mindset. If your woman has a job and doesn't contribute to the wellbeing of the family, then this woman is useless to the family unit, and any man should get rid of her.

A family is a UNIT, where both daddy and mummy will do their everything to better the family. If a man does everything while a woman doesn't then why should they be called husband and wife?! She is just a maid/cook and walking womb....aka a family employee.

That above man is just one of the deluded low self esteem men who use money to control women.

E ti take e personal grin

I have no issues how a couple decides to run their finances WHILE married.

Now that some people THINK it is okay for a spouse to continue to enjoy same financial lifestyle without providing same domestic support after divorce, one starts to look at these things in another light.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 8:08pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
This is so true,God bless Reno

What do you think of this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/6111393/man-ordered-pay-ex-girlfriend

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:15pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:

E ti take e personal grin

I have no issues how a couple decides to run their finances WHILE married.

Now that some people THINK it is okay for a spouse to continue to enjoy same financial lifestyle without providing same domestic support after divorce, one starts to look at these things in another light.

Sista, this common law spouse issue is very simple, I am amazed at how many people don't get it.

These women are not getting spousal support because they provided domestic support during their union (most of these women probably have maids and don't even do chores), they get it because of a certain life that she is now used to live, thanks to that man. So if you guys have kids going to private school with private drivers all their lives etc, then just because they divorce shouldn't be a reason for these kids to now be affected by the divorce and use public bus to go to some BS school...same with that ex lifestyle.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by helinues: 8:24pm On Sep 12, 2020
If men are the head of the family, what's the position of women?
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Mariangeles: 8:29pm On Sep 12, 2020
helinues:
If men are the head of the family, what's the position of women?

According to Christian doctrine, the body. And the bible says that "...the head cannot do without the body" therefore, Reno is wrong.
The body (wife), must support the head (husband).
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by helinues: 8:32pm On Sep 12, 2020
Mariangeles:


According to Christian doctrine, the body. And the bible says that "...the head cannot do without the body" therefore, Reno is wrong.
The body (wife), must support the head (husband).

My thoughts exactly..

Reno is only trying to stay relevant
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 9:29pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


What do you think of this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/6111393/man-ordered-pay-ex-girlfriend
wao,this is wonderful but can only happen abroad
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 9:31pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
wao,this is wonderful but can only happen abroad

You think it is wonderful that a man is made to pay for the lifestyle of his ex-girlfriend for the next 10 years?

Interesting. cheesy
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


You think it is wonderful that a man is made to pay for the lifestyle of his ex-girlfriend for the next 10 years?

Interesting. cheesy
lol, he's paying for draining her emotionally
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 9:40pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
lol, he's paying for draining her emotionally

She did not drain him too? Or are you saying only a man benefits from a relationship where he constantly spent his money to 'elevate' her to his status.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


She did not drain him too? Or are you saying only a man benefits from a relationship where he constantly spent his money to 'elevate' her to his status.
Before that judgement,the judge must have listened to both sides and proper investigations done.Remember this is not Africa,in a sanner clime this is how it should be so as to put alot of men in check
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Evolutionlove: 9:52pm On Sep 12, 2020
See two Vaginas up there having conversation. One have sense and the other doesn't, Just boobs and Ass only, It's obvious her pvssy will definitely suffer...... grin grin grin

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 9:57pm On Sep 12, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


Sista, this common law spouse issue is very simple, I am amazed at how many people don't get it.

These women are not getting spousal support because they provided domestic support during their union (most of these women probably have maids and don't even do chores), they get it because of a certain life that she is now used to live, thanks to that man. So if you guys have kids going to private school with private drivers all their lives etc, then just because they divorce shouldn't be a reason for these kids to now be affected by the divorce and use public bus to go to some BS school...same with that ex lifestyle.

@Bold:

Just learnt that.

I remember some years back when spousal support was justified based on the potential income the non-earning spouse would have lost due to staying home and supporting the earning spouse.

Good luck to them.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 9:58pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
Before that judgement,the judge must have listened to both sides and proper investigations done.Remember this is not Africa,in a sanner clime this is how it should be so as to put alot of men in check

What are these laws supposed to check men against?

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:24pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


What are these laws supposed to check men against?
infidelity,domestic and emotional abuse,irresponsibility,negligence and so on
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
infidelity,domestic and emotional abuse,irresponsibility,negligence and so on

And women don't do these things?

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:27pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


And women don't do these things?

women are mostly victims of all these,just some few exceptional cases.Why are you acting like you don't know

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 10:32pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
women are mostly victims of all these,just some few exceptional cases.Why are you acting like you don't know

I have seen enough to know that men are not inherently evil neither are women saintly victims.

Men and women can be goo/evil hence every case needs to be reviewed on its own merit.

In that thread, only offence was ending the relationship (and it was not stated who did).

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by DrayZee: 10:34pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
women are mostly victims of all these,just some few exceptional cases.Why are you acting like you don't know
"Women are mostly victims"
Therefore, it makes sense to make a law that punishes men whether the crime was committed by them or against them?
That's nonsense.
Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:36pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


I have seen enough to know that men are not inherently evil neither are women saintly victims.

Men and women can be goo/evil hence every case needs to be reviewed on its own merit.

In that thread, only offence was ending the relationship (and it was not stated who did).
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by EmperorMaria: 10:41pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 12, 2020
DrayZee:

"Women are mostly victims"
Therefore, it makes sense to make a law that punishes men whether the crime was committed by them or against them?
That's nonsense.
For such judgement to be passed, it means the man must have really dealth with the lady.Africans are weird somehow,it is OK for women to suffer various forms of abuse in the hands of men and go scott free,thanks to the whites who don't reason same way as us

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by bukatyne(f): 10:43pm On Sep 12, 2020
Zzor:
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

Hahahahahahaahaahaha @ 'I defend men a lot.' cheesy

I don't defend any sex, I look at individual cases on their merit and carry on from there. Defending a sex would mean subjective analysis when issues crop up because I NEED to defend the side I am on.

I am always on the side of objectivity hence I have been called misogynist, a man hater, feminist, anti-feminist etc.

Regards to your mom too. smiley

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Re: Men Are To Pay All Bills - Reno Nuggets by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 12, 2020
bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaahaahaha @ 'I defend men a lot.' cheesy

I don't defend any sex, I look at individual cases on their merit and carry on from there. Defending a sex would mean subjective analysis when issues crop up because I NEED to defend the side I am on.

I am always on the side of objectivity hence I have been called misogynist, a man hater, feminist, anti-feminist etc.

Regards to your mom too. smiley
You once asked me to go read ubunja topics and I was supprised,so I'm somehow right when i said you defend men alot

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