Measuring a man's strengh using the amount of abuse he could take from a woman isn't in any way different from testing a woman with abuse to see if she's a good wife material.

"She was raining insults On him, he didn't even reply her.. What a gentle man.. A real man "

"He was calm althrough, she even hit him he just stood there calmly.. What a real man "

"She slapped Him repeatedly but he held her calmly blah blah blah.. What a real man"

Nonsense!!

I won't disrespect you based on your gender.. Neither will I take disrespects from you based on your gender.

Those sh*ts I Won't take from a man.. I won't take it also if it's coming from a woman.. And that's me.

Being a man has nothing to do with the amount of abuse you could take from a woman.

Stop praising men taking bulshits from women in the name of being a real man.

You can idolize him or whatever but never you subtly make it a standard for being a manly man.

He replied?.. He didn't?.. Good for him..

Saying he was cool the whole time while she abuse him.. So.. He's a real man..
Isn't different from testing a woman to see if she's a good wife materiel using the amount of abuse she could take.

Dear man,
You're not a man because you can take so much bulshits from a woman.. Nah.. Not even close..

Walk away?, return the favour?.. Remain unbothered?.. I'm an advocate of do whatever works for you.
But never you make that a standard for being a manly man or a real man or whatever.

Good morning.. Happy sunday

Doesn't matter whether you're a man or woman; if you assault me, I'll return the favour.

Good one OP

Uhmm, you are right. Abuse, especially when it robs the man of his pride and ego, should not be a standard for measuring a real man.
Anyway, I can still withstand a physical abuse from a woman, but when it comes to verbal abuse such as blackmailing, intimidating utterances that can damage my integrity and pride as a man, I walk away from the relationship.

lilmonarch:

ña woman world we dey

You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

I was in a bank once and an argument started betwixt a man and a woman , one thing led to another and the woman slapped the man , to the shock of everyone she put the slap on repeat , and before we could say Fani kayode , the man rushed the woman ...
Now I blame the man for rushing the woman with blows , but I wouldn't have blamed him if he had given her a slap back ....
As a man I surprisingly believe in equality , and I know feminist want us to believe they do to... equality demands everyone be treated equally , if a man slaps me at the bank , I would return it without thinking , and if a woman does same I should feel free to do same -- equality accomplished ....
The whole real man justification is sh*t , except what women want is preferential treatment and not equality !

Joshmodest:

ok

That girl is a fool can you imagine
After I told her to stop those bullshit she's doing
She went on and started mentioning my moniker again
Mjbolt is calm but me ain't calm in as much as my key pad is still working I'll bullshit her any day anytime twice on Sunday

Hahhaaa

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

Joshmodest:

I was in a bank once and an argument started betwixt a man and a woman , one thing led to another and the woman slapped the man , to the shock of everyone she put the slap on repeat , and before we could say Fani kayode , the man rushed the woman ...
Now I blame the man for rushing the woman with blows , but I wouldn't have blamed him if he had given her a slap back ....
As a man I surprisingly believe in equality , and I know feminist want us to believe they do to... equality demands everyone be treated equally , if a man slaps me at the bank , I would return it without thinking , and if a woman does same I should feel free to do same -- equality accomplished ....
The whole real man justification is sh*t , except what women want is preferential treatment and not equality !

So you will do same,african men need to be taught a lesson on handling women,you don't hit a woman back,you can restrict her from further hits but not hitting back.

Zzor:
So you will do same,african men need to be taught a lesson on handling women,you don't hit a woman back,you can restrict her from further hits but not hitting back.

So you will do same,african men need to be taught a lesson on handling women,you don't hit a woman back,you can restrict her from further hits but not hitting back.

Zzor:
So you will do same,african men need to be taught a lesson on handling women,you don't hit a woman back,you can restrict her from further hits but not hitting back.

I may or may not do the same , I've not been in that situation so I can't ascertain that . ..
But African women need to know that if they want equality and not preferential treatment they should be equal and up to the task ..
A woman shouldn't hit a man if she doesn't want to be hit , she can make use of her mouth to insult but not hitting...
I can ignore the hitting and restrict my wife , cos she has children for me , or cos I love her dearly ...but a total stranger I don't know before ...I haven't been in that situation and I hope I won't !!

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

Madam, you're Crushing On two of Them

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

You ladies and tour narcissistic persona, why is that so, ok if a man tear you like 2hot slaps would you keep your cool?, Why do you then expect men to be calm if a lady assults them, as for me i know that lady if she does not die na hospital she go end up, if you like try this one for outside, ill visit your funeral pig

Etinosa1234:

So you will do same,african men need to be taught a lesson on handling women,you don't hit a woman back,you can restrict her from further hits but not hitting back.

Our expert simp has spoken

lightangel65i:


Our expert simp has spoken

Who be dis one

When I was younger I shouted "death to any man that beats his wife, he's a weakling". Today my perspective has shifted. Knowing what a woman's verbal onslaught can do to a man, most men's defence is physical violence. I don't blame them, that's the way most men know how to defends themselves. I truly and really don't blame or castigate them.

Don't get me wrong I don't support physical violence from men, once in a while it works, but it's not a good long term strategy. I personally believe once you start getting physical with your wife, you've lost control......just walk out of the relationship.

Guys lets be smart.

Saying you will never beat a woman,is like saying you will never go to war when provoked.
You will end up giving your enemies leverage to destroy you.

Never say never.

If the woman behaves well,behave well.

If she do any how ,make she see any how Asap.

Say it all depends on the actions of the woman.(Best answer)

Mirror back.

Make your woman know you wont take shit.

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

Men get molested too. For me, right use of language is important for me. Women n their tongues is like pussy n clit.

zexy2030:

Men get molested too. For me, right use of language is important for me. Women n their tongues is like pussy n clit.

you are too spoilt

Zzor:
you are too spoilt

I have repented, pls marry me, so I can change.

Zzor:
you are too spoilt

Can we meet?

zexy2030:

Can we meet?

Nigga really??
No matter how the word simp have been overused on this forum I won't hesitate to call out one when I see one.

You're a fool!! fu*cking simp!

Looking at the angel in my right shoulder
I'm a guy speaking from experience
You may know your mother nags pretty not much
But if your dad get provoke and hit your mother his wife
How will. You feel as a child /teen watching
Or seeing your mother with bruise on her face
Looking at the devil on my shoulder
An eye for an eye
Hit me I hit you
Verbally or physically

Zzor:
You are somehow right,but a man must not go physical with a woman for any reason,men must maintain a high level of self restraint and patience when dealing with women,leave us to do the nagging.Its kinda of sexy if you are ranting and your hubby is just quiet,like how I've been rubbishing MJBOLT and he has maintained calmness,though he started the wahala,unlike yeye ZINIBANKS that behaves like parrot returning every single words I typed against him.

So you are saying it is cool for women to be abusive, misbehave anyhow while the man has to always soak it in, what a life!