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Prospertochu:
I earn 55k a month I have a wife and 3 children triplets b/g/b , I give my wife 20k monthly for house upkeep , I give my mother 10k my dad is late , and I use the remaining 20k for my transport , data , lunch at work and other expenses outside of my house , and I have been saving 5k in my piggy bank for rainy day ( I will break it on the 1st of January 2021)but my wife have complain bitterly that the money is not enough because she have to buy nappies , milk, foods for the children out of the money I should start giving her 30k monthly , I said I can’t give her more than 20k because if I give her 30k and what will I give to my mother , even that 20k I am left with it doesn’t supply all my monthly needs sometimes I am left with nothing before my next salary , my wife say I am stingy and this has been causing problems between us. Please I need your advice it’s a true that i am stingy ?

21void:
No you're not.

KidDarkness:
My own question is why is your wife not working? And you are not stingy but frugal

dingbang:
Why do I feel this story is fake

emeijeh:
Poverty dey this country sha!

55k?

Oga, the Lord is your strength

Prospertochu:
I earn 55k a month I have a wife and 3 children triplets b/g/b , I give my wife 20k monthly for house upkeep , I give my mother 10k my dad is late , and I use the remaining 20k for my transport , data , lunch at work and other expenses outside of my house , and I have been saving 5k in my piggy bank for rainy day ( I will break it on the 1st of January 2021)but my wife have complain bitterly that the money is not enough because she have to buy nappies , milk, foods for the children out of the money I should start giving her 30k monthly , I said I can’t give her more than 20k because if I give her 30k and what will I give to my mother , even that 20k I am left with it doesn’t supply all my monthly needs sometimes I am left with nothing before my next salary , my wife say I am stingy and this has been causing problems between us. Please I need your advice it’s a true that i am stingy ?

Enudapan:
Nna eh! No qualms
This is so unsophisticated

Prospertochu:
I earn 55k a month I have a wife and 3 children triplets b/g/b , I give my wife 20k monthly for house upkeep , I give my mother 10k my dad is late , and I use the remaining 20k for my transport , data , lunch at work and other expenses outside of my house , and I have been saving 5k in my piggy bank for rainy day ( I will break it on the 1st of January 2021)but my wife have complain bitterly that the money is not enough because she have to buy nappies , milk, foods for the children out of the money I should start giving her 30k monthly , I said I can’t give her more than 20k because if I give her 30k and what will I give to my mother , even that 20k I am left with it doesn’t supply all my monthly needs sometimes I am left with nothing before my next salary , my wife say I am stingy and this has been causing problems between us. Please I need your advice it’s a true that i am stingy ?

Prospertochu:
She is not working because the triplets are 11 months and we can’t afford a maid

Chimaobi302:
I must say,
You are really trying, mehn I know how me and bro is managing with his salary that's even bigger than yours.
But, if I can suggest, since there is no other way money is coming in apart from the #55k, salary
And...

20k to your wife
10k to your mum
25k for you,

You can take the 5k from your own and give your wife. Then try to manage that 20k,raising 3 kids at once no be beans, if you are to really spend as you should on this kids, even 150k per month is not that enough,( talking about a good standards for the kids), but God that gave you this kids will make a way.. I believe giving her +5k will calm the misunderstandings..


May God bring Ebenezers to you, from today Favour shall be your portion, people will see you/family and bless you,.
In Jesus name

Amen.

Shalom..

eejo:
Don't change your mind. You are earning more than Army ,Navy Police and other Security agencies Recurits. I have two advice for you. Get another source of income for your family in addition to the current one. Finally, please start family planning and don't give birth to another child again.

Prospertochu:
I earn 55k a month I have a wife and 3 children triplets b/g/b , I give my wife 20k monthly for house upkeep , I give my mother 10k my dad is late , and I use the remaining 20k for my transport , data , lunch at work and other expenses outside of my house , and I have been saving 5k in my piggy bank for rainy day ( I will break it on the 1st of January 2021)but my wife have complain bitterly that the money is not enough because she have to buy nappies , milk, foods for the children out of the money I should start giving her 30k monthly , I said I can’t give her more than 20k because if I give her 30k and what will I give to my mother , even that 20k I am left with it doesn’t supply all my monthly needs sometimes I am left with nothing before my next salary , my wife say I am stingy and this has been causing problems between us. Please I need your advice it’s a true that i am stingy ?

mamaafrik:
tell her to go find work to do to improve the situation,we are helpmate in marriage not Donkey and Baalam,many woman are evwn looking for who to bear his name she dey do like ingrate.