So today, a girl who was very dear and close to me got deflowered by another guy. She really loved me. I could see it in her eyes and expression whenever she talks to me.

Its really painful

She called me today to break the news begging me to forgive her for what she has done. This is really the most painful thing I have ever felt. She actually told me to disvirgin her myself long before now, but I couldn't cos she is a minor(16 or 17 not up to 18). Like two months ago after she begged me to disvirgin her, she has constantly being coming to my house for it, but I always decline it. I feel it's not right and proper for me to do such with a minor. I always have one excuse or the other but always end it with "don't worry we'll do it next time*

Just today she called begging me to forgive her that it was too much for her to bear(temptation). That she got deflowered by a male friend today.

Honestly in as much as I can't do such cos of her age I really regret my decision. This pain is so much. She always tell me how much she loves me to an extent that she offered me her Virginity
;(

I have never felt like this before. I really feel heartbroken because this is one of the girls who have really shown me much love. I really would have loved to be her first. But that ain't possible anymore.

I just deleted her number and blocked her on every platform and deleted all her pictures just to take her off my mind cos it's really painful to try imagine her being deflowered by another guy. I hope she doesn't come to my house anymore cos she could tell from my voice on the phone that I was heartbroken.


Modified:
I won't lie only if she knew how much I loved her. I guess she did it cos she feel I never loved her back! Why would she have even called to tell me

If you're saying she doesn't love me, why then did she call me if not guilt? If she didn't care or love me, she wouldn't have called to beg cos to her it's gonna be like what's my business?


Please I beg everyone of you not to insult me. I really feel bad right now. I wouldn't want anyone to make me feel worse. Thank you

kpele


so you are angry because you are not her first?

Did you have any plans to even marry her

Righteousness89 where @ thou? come preach for this lost young man.

Hmm..

It's obvious she loved someone more than she loved you... move on with your life.

This babe didn't offer you her virginity because she loved you, she did because she was desperate and too h0rny TO HAVE SEX . Thus she let some other dude fukc her.

You are in love with a 17 year old girl and you are bragging about her loving you too
Kai kai
Shaking my head

TheGenius001:
So today, a girl who was very dear and close to me got deflowered by another guy. She really loved me. I could see it in her eyes and expression whenever she talks to me.

Its really painful

She called me today to break the news begging me to forgive her for what she has done. This is really the most painful thing I have ever felt. She actually told me to disvirgin her myself long before now, but I couldn't cos she is a minor(16 or 17 not up to 18). Like two months ago after she begged me to disvirgin her, she has constantly being coming to my house for it, but I always decline it. I feel it's not right and proper for me to do such with a minor. I always have one excuse or the other but always end it with "don't worry we'll do it next time*

Just today she called begging me to forgive her that it was too much for her to bear(temptation). That she got deflowered by a male friend today.

Honestly in as much as I can't do such cos of her age I really regret my decision. This pain is so much. She always tell me how much she loves me to an extent that she offered me her Virginity
;(

I have never felt like this before. I really feel heartbroken because this is one of the girls who have really shown me much love. I really would have loved to be her first. But that ain't possible anymore.

I just deleted her number and blocked her on every platform and deleted all her pictures just to take her off my mind cos it's really painful to try imagine her being deflowered by another guy. I hope she doesn't come to my house anymore cos she could tell from my voice on the phone that I was heartbroken.


Modified:
I won't lie only if she knew how much I loved her. I guess she did it cos she feel I never loved her back! Why would she have even called to tell me

Where is Righteousness89?
Your attention is needed here.
Come and console this Damn nigarrrrr.
It's not alright with him at all.

Damn nigarrrr!
It's not alright.

God abeg no let me labour make another person chop am

She felt guilty and dirty after the act. Probably she felt nothing for the guy and wasn't what she expected.You have to forgive her if that's what she wants but that doesn't mean that you owe her love or a relationship. You have nothing to do with her and moreover she's a minor

MrBrownJay1:
It's obvious she loved someone more than she loved you... move on with your life.

This babe didn't offer you her virginity because she loved you, she did because she was desperate and too h0rny TO HAVE SEX . Thus she let some other dude fukc her.

If she doesn't love me why then will she have called me to beg. If she doesn't love me, she wouldn't have called me. Afterall it will be to her that it's none of my business.

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Issoright..
But are you still a virgin ?

WORDWORLD:

Lols

TheGenius001:


If she doesn't love me why then will she have called me to beg. If she doesn't love me, she wouldn't have called me. Afterall it will be to her that it's none of my business.

...because she was h0rny and wanted ANYONE to fukc her. You were the lucky dude she chose but you didn't agree to do it, so she looked for someone else to fukc her, and she did it.

This woman does NOT love you one bit, because if she did, she would have kept that hymen for you to pop (whether today or in 5 yrs)

KidDarkness:
She felt guilty and dirty after the act. Probably she felt nothing for the guy and wasn't what she expected.You have to forgive her if that's what she wants but that doesn't mean that you owe her love or a relationship. You have nothing to do with her and moreover she's a minor

Thanks for that. But honestly I may never relate with her anymore. It's really painful

MrBrownJay1:


...because she was h0rny and wanted ANYONE to fukc her. You were the lucky dude she chose but you didn't agree to do it, so she looked for someone else to fukc her, and she did it.

This woman does NOT love you one bit, because if she did, she would have kept that hymen for you to pop (whether today or in 5 yrs)

I disagree Sir. Anyways I appreciate your opinion

TheGenius001:


I disagree Sir. Anyways I appreciate your opinion

... and you are entitled to that. This babe is rubbing it in your face by even calling you to tell you that she did (with someone else) what you couldn't do with her. Do you really think she cares about you and/or your feelings?! Do you really believe that a girl who "supposedly" loves you would go and give her virginity for someone else to pop?!

Dang it I feel you pain, well you have learn your lesson next time you won't hesitate, virginity is overrated in our modern world you hardly see them nowadays... Just forgive her collect your own there is nothing wrong with that bro... Remember to always forgive and forget for your own seek...

Ehyah Sorry Bro. Move on. What is not yours no matter how you strive for it, you will still not get it so move on with your life.

goodmorning40:
You are in love with a 17 year old girl and you are bragging about her loving you too
Kai kai
Shaking my head

You should defiantly know they are both kids

why should you be having romantic affairs with someone below 18?

TheGenius001:


I disagree Sir. Anyways I appreciate your opinion

You better agree...you bloody Simp

Paramount01:


You should defiantly know they are both kids

NO they are not... if he was underage too then he would have no problem doing it. The only reason he didn't do it is because he thought she was too young (at 17)

benzene00:
why should you be having romantic affairs with someone below 18?

I guess he was preparing her for their future together.

KlausMichaelson:
Ehyah Sorry Bro. Move on. What is not yours no matter how you strive for it, you will still not get it so move on with your life.

Nice advice Klaus. How's your daughter Hope Mikaelson doing?

Paramount01:



You should defiantly know they are both kids

Don't be so quick to conclude. Sometimes you may find one younger girl you just love and you may end marrying her even if it's 9 years gap. Na wa o

TheGenius001:
So today, a girl who was very dear and close to me got deflowered by another guy. She really loved me. I could see it in her eyes and expression whenever she talks to me.

Its really painful

She called me today to break the news begging me to forgive her for what she has done. This is really the most painful thing I have ever felt. She actually told me to disvirgin her myself long before now, but I couldn't cos she is a minor(16 or 17 not up to 18). Like two months ago after she begged me to disvirgin her, she has constantly being coming to my house for it, but I always decline it. I feel it's not right and proper for me to do such with a minor. I always have one excuse or the other but always end it with "don't worry we'll do it next time*

Just today she called begging me to forgive her that it was too much for her to bear(temptation). That she got deflowered by a male friend today.

Honestly in as much as I can't do such cos of her age I really regret my decision. This pain is so much. She always tell me how much she loves me to an extent that she offered me her Virginity
;(

I have never felt like this before. I really feel heartbroken because this is one of the girls who have really shown me much love. I really would have loved to be her first. But that ain't possible anymore.

I just deleted her number and blocked her on every platform and deleted all her pictures just to take her off my mind cos it's really painful to try imagine her being deflowered by another guy. I hope she doesn't come to my house anymore cos she could tell from my voice on the phone that I was heartbroken.


Modified:
I won't lie only if she knew how much I loved her. I guess she did it cos she feel I never loved her back! Why would she have even called to tell me

If you're saying she doesn't love me, why then did she call me if not guilt? If she didn't care or love me, she wouldn't have called to beg cos to her it's gonna be like what's my business?


Please I beg everyone of you not to insult me. I really feel bad right now. I wouldn't want anyone to make me feel worse. Thank you

This is so sad and painful. Sorry.
What's done is done and you just have to let her go.
Don't sleep with her for revenge. Respect the pure love you have/had for her.
It might take time but you'll be fine.

mariahAngel:

This is so sad and painful. Sorry. It'll take time but you'll be fine.

Thank you for your understanding and for the advice. I really appreciate it.

karkinase:

You better agree...you bloody Simp

Can you imagine the nonsense? The babe went to give out the precious hymen to some stranger, then comes back to the dude and begs him for forgiveness.... and the fool even believes she loves him, bwaaaaaaaaaah!!!!

karkinase:

You better agree...you bloody Simp

Lols nothing about being a simp in this matter. It's so obvious that a lot of you don't really understand the meaning of a Simp. Thanks anyways for the humor in your post.

TheGenius001:


I disagree Sir. Anyways I appreciate your opinion

Yes, she did love you but was too immature and inpatient.