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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by fati2001(m): 10:53pm On Sep 18, 2020
goodmorning40:
Kai kai Shaking my head
here's ur back up

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by bogdaddy(m): 10:53pm On Sep 18, 2020
Let’s be friends
dorin27:
wink winkSir? grin
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 10:56pm On Sep 18, 2020
bogdaddy:
Let’s be friends
we are friends
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by TheGenius001: 10:57pm On Sep 18, 2020
mariahAngel:


If you haven't fallen in love with a virgin who you made future plans with, you can't understand/relate.
The betrayal/hurt cuts deep like a hot knife.

@ Thegenius001, Were you committed to her? Or you kept her (pending when she's "ripe" )while you slept with other girls?

I kept her pending when she is ripe for such and not only that, if it had worked out well for us when she becomes matured I would have married her.
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 11:01pm On Sep 18, 2020
dorin27:
Hmm..
CO-Hmm
GameSwOMEn PLAY cool
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 11:04pm On Sep 18, 2020
HomerTimpson:
CO-Hmm

GameSwOMEn PLAY cool
Co- Hmm..
GamesMenPlay
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by bogdaddy(m): 11:17pm On Sep 18, 2020
I mean let’s get closer than we are right now
dorin27:
we are friends
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 11:21pm On Sep 18, 2020
dorin27:
Co- Hmm..
GamesMenPlay
that's why my mom said i should not play with girls,they may disflower me sad what abt you?
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Zzor(f): 11:21pm On Sep 18, 2020
why do you want to have sex in the first place? stay away from fornication.You should be celebrating
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 11:34pm On Sep 18, 2020
bogdaddy:
I mean let’s get closer than we are right now
we are closer than you know
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 11:36pm On Sep 18, 2020
HomerTimpson:
that's why my mom said i should not play with girls,they may disflower me sad what abt you?
Then you are a disobedient child...since your mom asked you to stay away from girls, why then are you talking to me?
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 11:43pm On Sep 18, 2020
dorin27:
Then you are a disobedient child...since your mom asked you to stay away from girls, why then are you talking to me?
no am not,she didn't say big gurls cool
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 11:45pm On Sep 18, 2020
HomerTimpson:
no am not,she didn't say big gurls cool
well, I am telling you now to stay away from big girls
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 11:54pm On Sep 18, 2020
dorin27:
well, I am telling you now to stay away from big girls
hmmm lol thanks mom,i'll bind this around my neck. So which one are you a big girl or lady ?if others name it
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by bogdaddy(m): 11:57pm On Sep 18, 2020
Send me your number
dorin27:
we are closer than you know
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 12:00am On Sep 19, 2020
bogdaddy:
Send me your number
come and have it
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 12:01am On Sep 19, 2020
HomerTimpson:
hmmm lol thanks mom,i'll bind this around my neck. So which one are you a big girl or lady ?if others name it
both grin
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 12:08am On Sep 19, 2020
dorin27:
both grin
LOL IDK why this is even funny. Pls tell me why you said i should stay away from big girls ? Since you are one your self
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 12:11am On Sep 19, 2020
HomerTimpson:
LOL IDK why this is even funny. Pls tell me why you said i should stay away from big girls ? Since you are one your self
I said that to help you be an obedient child to your mom. Anymore questions?
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by HomerTimpson: 12:20am On Sep 19, 2020
dorin27:
I said that to help you be an obedient child to your mom. Anymore questions?
HMMM yea i'd love too..but unfortunately this is where we part ways tonight,I'm having low battery.tonight's really at my pleasure

Btw 'dorin' sounds cute & cool and i'd love to know more abt that 'IF' there will be another time. So can i quote you sometime later?
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by dorin27(f): 12:23am On Sep 19, 2020
HomerTimpson:
HMMM yea i'd love too..but unfortunately this is where we part ways tonight,I'm having low battery.tonight's really at my pleasure

Btw 'dorin' sounds cute & cool and i'd love to know more abt that 'IF' there will be another time. So can i quote you sometime later?
sure
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by McTobe(m): 1:25am On Sep 19, 2020
We have all been there before, gear up and focus young man. You can’t undo the deed so relax m, go out and play some video game. Who go lost go lost, she is responsible to her actions and same as you

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by bogdaddy(m): 1:32am On Sep 19, 2020
Baby stop it
dorin27:
come and have it
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by TkDazid(m): 1:38am On Sep 19, 2020
Leave small pikin oo,but i think she is just joking with your head.....call her check if em don open

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Ofadaman(m): 2:06am On Sep 19, 2020
Lol, oga calm down, even if you are the first, she'll still fvck someone else.. relax life is not hard, nice guys always finish last. For her to have sex with her bestie, she must have been trying out many things with him while you were dulling yourself, e.g. kissing , smooching and all, maybe she's done the thing long ago before she told u, she's just telling u now cos maybe the guy left her,

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Nobody: 2:08am On Sep 19, 2020
Its even long before she disvirgined, 14,15,16, years of age had been disflowered for ages! The peer pressure from friends that they are now big girl, coupled with sweet experiences of love making their age mates tell them, make them having sex as earlier as 14 yrs of age.


Some parents will be thinking that there kids are still virgins, not knw that she has turned to IndecentStar. Thanks to internet and Facebook, ............from the close monitoring of parents, she will be *toasted online, control out from her parents house online, bleeped, and give her transport fare to go back to her parents house,...under his nose.
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by davillian(m): 2:41am On Sep 19, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
It's obvious she loved someone more than she loved you... move on with your life.

This babe didn't offer you her virginity because she loved you, she did because she was desperate and too h0rny TO HAVE SEX . Thus she let some other dude fukc her.

She needed a dick and it doesn't matter who gave her

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Nobody: 3:17am On Sep 19, 2020
TheGenius001:
So today, a girl who was very dear and close to me got deflowered by another guy. She really loved me. I could see it in her eyes and expression whenever she talks to me.

Its really painful

She called me today to break the news begging me to forgive her for what she has done. This is really the most painful thing I have ever felt. She actually told me to disvirgin her myself long before now, but I couldn't cos she is a minor(16 or 17 not up to 18). Like two months ago after she begged me to disvirgin her, she has constantly being coming to my house for it, but I always decline it. I feel it's not right and proper for me to do such with a minor. I always have one excuse or the other but always end it with "don't worry we'll do it next time*

Just today she called begging me to forgive her that it was too much for her to bear(temptation). That she got deflowered by a male friend today.

Honestly in as much as I can't do such cos of her age I really regret my decision. This pain is so much. She always tell me how much she loves me to an extent that she offered me her Virginity
;(

I have never felt like this before. I really feel heartbroken because this is one of the girls who have really shown me much love. I really would have loved to be her first. But that ain't possible anymore.

I just deleted her number and blocked her on every platform and deleted all her pictures just to take her off my mind cos it's really painful to try imagine her being deflowered by another guy. I hope she doesn't come to my house anymore cos she could tell from my voice on the phone that I was heartbroken.


Modified:
I won't lie only if she knew how much I loved her. I guess she did it cos she feel I never loved her back! Why would she have even called to tell me

If you're saying she doesn't love me, why then did she call me if not guilt? If she didn't care or love me, she wouldn't have called to beg cos to her it's gonna be like what's my business?


Please I beg everyone of you not to insult me. I really feel bad right now. I wouldn't want anyone to make me feel worse. Thank you

It's easy to avoid temptation. All she had to do is avoid situations that could lead to sex. Especially with other guys.
She was honest about it so she either really does feel bad n realised she made a mistake or she wanted attention from you n likes to play games. I'd say either way she likes the latter cos she's so young.
I think U should find someone a little older to avoid relationship games. But if U love her U will only do what Ur gonna do anyway no matter advise ppl give you.
U know her character best. So you'd know if she sincerely regrets it, if she'll do it again n the reasons she did it to begin with. No girl runs out n has sex just cos they've never had it before. N a girl doesn't have sex with a guy she isn't attracted to(unless money's involved-sum girls will)She either liked the guy she done it with or wants attention from guys and you.
If she loved you the way U do her she would have wanted it to be you n waited.
I think her age is a problem. Younger girls are more immature

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Nobody: 3:22am On Sep 19, 2020
KlausMichaelson:

.cheesy
Hope is doing great. But I don't want to see you near her!

grin Nicklaus! I love Klaus's he's awesome

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by Timewaster: 3:29am On Sep 19, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


... and you are entitled to that. This babe is rubbing it in your face by even calling you to tell you that she did (with someone else) what you couldn't do with her. Do you really think she cares about you and/or your feelings?! Do you really believe that a girl who "supposedly" loves you would go and give her virginity for someone else to pop?!

You should be banned for life from this forum
Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by TheSoothSayer(m): 4:56am On Sep 19, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


...because she was h0rny and wanted ANYONE to fukc her. You were the lucky dude she chose but you didn't agree to do it, so she looked for someone else to fukc her, and she did it.

This woman does NOT love you one bit, because if she did, she would have kept that hymen for you to pop (whether today or in 5 yrs)

You mean this child* does not love you. At that age, she's probably still in secondary school. How old is OP again.?

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Re: The Girl I Love Just Got Deflowered By Another Guy. by KlausMichaelson: 6:08am On Sep 19, 2020
Missyford31:

grin Nicklaus! I love Klaus's he's awesome

I love you too!

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