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Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Newboss(m): 10:22pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: You're on the right path. Don't let anyone guilt trip you. Those guys are dead to you. In fact, they never existed 3 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Digableplanets6(m): 10:24pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Forgive them and forget they exist OP,best advice so far. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by SecretSpy666: 10:24pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Lordkratus:Thanks. I read your comments |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by luminouz(m): 10:24pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: Really? And what's the issh with your Jan 10 story about using 28k to marry. You even had a son. In this thread,you said you are planning to marry... Why the discrepancies? 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by lastchild: 10:26pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
capnies:why ending with "if your story is true ooo" Nigerians and the way they think once you see any story up here, just treat it like it's true, because even if it's a lie, just have it at back of your mind that someone somewhere is passing through the same thing |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Newboss(m): 10:29pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Asking a "rich man" for forgiveness is usually a strategy. Don't be nice. Stay woke. Do not play yourself |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by chris51(f): 10:32pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: If your story is true, I sympathise with you. Your parents don't deserve to benefit from you. Ignore the demands of their children and live your life. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by chris51(f): 10:32pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
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Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by gregyboy(m): 10:33pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
capnies: Guy nor allow me curse you ogun, ebilike say u go fit do that thing hoping your child go forgive you |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Newboss(m): 10:33pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel: No such thing as genuine forgiveness. Cut them off. They should be dead to you. Resist the urge to be nice |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by hansomb: 10:41pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Your parents are still your parent no matter what. Probably if u have not gone what you experienced you will not b where you are today. The only time you can go against your parents is if they try to stop you from worshipping God. Everything happens for a reason in this life. Your parents are still your parent. Let's go of the Hate and grudges. At least your parents never aborted you or throw you into gutter as most boyfriend n girlfriend or some couples do this day. For that alone be grateful to them and God. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: No sane woman will marry you bro. I won't let my sister. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by lion501: 10:43pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Forgive them sincerely. But keep them at arms length. Cut all communications... The heart of man is desperately wicked. Want to reap where you did not sow. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by mariahAngel(f): 10:43pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Newboss: Sigh! So, if you were in his position, where would you call home? You know...like your homeland? Where would you belong? Would you be OK having no sense of belonging after cutting off everyone? Especially as a man.... What would become of your children |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by TDonald: 10:44pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
If this story is true, Na Ogun go kill those people wey call themselves your 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by mariahAngel(f): 10:48pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Sailor22: Why would you say that to someone who's down already? Let us try to be kind with our words |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Emmyloyalty: 10:56pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Ishilove:Don't hear me, hear the Bible. The word of God is complete. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by ALVA001: 10:59pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
dalass: My sister thank you and that's thoughtful of you ❤️♥️♥️. But a widows mite won't kill him. Or better still kind words of assurance to them. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by greypencils: 11:07pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Bro, they are beginning to get to you. That's why you brought this story on social media. Deep down you are hurt but you still feel some attachment to them that's why you brought this story here. All I would say is that you get your head right and emotionally detach yourself from them. It's not easy because they are your blood. But it must be done. Because the truth is they don't care about you. Accept that truth and don't try to go closer to any of them because they will still hurt you. Anything you wanna do to help, if you want to do it, remember to remain emotionally detached. It's hard but it's needful. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Eluala(m): 11:12pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
If you want to live the rest of your peacefully, never succumb to any form of emotional blackmail to bring those people into your life. You can forgive, but never forget. You don't deserve those kind of people as family. You have always been by yourself and managed to survive by so much blood and sweat and now they come to your for what exactly? To kill and end it all? Be wise and use your head. You don't need them, they were never there when you did so what difference will their presence make now? Mind your business, block their numbers or in fact change your number and mind your business. Find a loving woman and marry, settle down and build your own family with love and peace. Never bring any of those people into your life for your own safety and good. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by 2kurupt(m): 11:14pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Hmmm, this story looks doctored. Part-time programme graduates are given straight exemption from NYSC. Someone correct me if am wrong. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Socialproject: 11:31pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666:I second! |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Manageme: 11:31pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Pls o they made there choice, build you own home . They still don't care about you only your money. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Socialproject: 11:31pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Mstick: I second this ! |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by passionberry(f): 11:45pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: Hmmm.sorry about that, almost same story as mine even whn my dad died I nver attended his burial we are just two I& my bro..my parents separated when I was tender ..no fatherly love ,my mom tried tho saw us thru nursery ,and sec school ..but change whn I got into University I struggled on my own to finish ..cos of her treatment I relocated to lagos..my bro joined her and the wife he married too .so I left them came to Lagos to start a new life.im planning not to inform them anythng that concerns me,,they don't call me or check if small still alive ,so I don't do same..the last one that pain me most is during the lockdown I was not feeling fine I text them especially my mum about my health,uptil today nothng like call to know if am alive or not . My bro is on WhatsApp but I don't chat him ,him too don't chat me. Even before now I ask him for financial support atimes but he keep telling me he does not have ,this s someone that works in financial company ...and I do support them too even the job I pave way for him ,I was suppose to get the job but I was in my finals then so I gave him the slot ..so pls live your life forget them..God will give you a woman that will love ,cherish ,be ur dad,mum and everything ..that is how I do my man just my world..I have never have that parental love I ever want |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Newboss(m): 11:48pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Homeland is anywhere you make your homeland. It's a choice. People have been moving for ages. We are ever mobile. You can call your biological parents homeland yours without having a relationship with them. Or you can just create yours. See, if you need your parents, in even anyone, in order to have a sense of belonging, then you have serious inferiority complex. You should be able to detach from people irrespective of anything. Your children are your children, not their children. Never forget that because those your relatives will never forget that. You should come first. |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by 2016v2017: 11:52pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Akamariner: 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by PinkHealthGroup: 11:52pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Never look back. Move on with your life. Put them in the dustbin of your mind and seal it tight. My dad abandoned us and married a new wife who wrotevus bounced checks all the time. We are now in a way better place and we don't fcck with his new family him. Let them stay where they are. Please move on with your life. Change phone numbers and let them take care of their kids. Shikena! |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by 2rez: 11:53pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Ishilove: Humanly speaking, u got some points, i feel the premises u taking it to or bringing it from but come to think of it, we dey shit & we dey forget say we shit so me go advise am make he take the "parentlessness" as shit. Meaning na shit & he don forget, hard though but it's achievable. Again, why not leave the past in the past & focus on the present & help whoever u can, his parents inclusive. We are humans hence we are imperfect, as long as he scaled through the period of parental abandonment alive & eventually became a notable fella to be reckoned with by his crazy folks show that God engineered or doctored it to be so. Biko i no be religious bigot oh. I just reason am say God sabi as every man journey go take be inside life. Personally i feel he got conscience so let his conscience give him the answer he seeks. So far u bleed when u have a cut, i think that makes one human so why dont he act humane, forgive & help his folks? Although scar (tattoo) go dey afterwards but does it matter? Scars dont kill or do they?
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Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by 2016v2017: 11:54pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Mstick: |
Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by 2016v2017: 11:57pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
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