₦airaland Forum

4gunners:
I wish all guys can read this thread.

My girl is given me attitude cos I didn’t allow her to open ATM on my head. As an Oyel worker , she is expecting flow of cash like that of dasuki gate. This is someone I started dating not too long ago. I will always say this, these girls ain’t loyal, it’s about the money they will collect. She acccused me of always doing the opposite she tells me. Worst part is that, she doesn’t know how to appreciate.

Girls here that feel entitled to their partners money should have a rethink. Until you tie the knot, that guy doesn’t owe u anything.

Relationship should never be one sided.

Skepticus:
I followed this year's edition of Big Brother Nigeria keenly than the previous editions because of the sexual dynamics that played out and what men can learn from it concerning the sexual market place, masculinity and self worth. I'm glad many guys (at least from Nairaland) are picking up on it.

demanuel:
That's why you must come from the place of knowing who you are, and what you can become.

You are the Man in the relationship.

Develop yourself. Be a better person. Improve your appearance, career/business, smell nice, look dapper.

Love yourself and others around you first.

You will definitely see someone that has mutual feelings for you.

I think other contributors have hit on this issue from different angles, on different threads.

If you continue to do the chase while they don't feel same way for you, you will surely play the game to lose.

At some point you will become desperate and begin to simp.


These girls will play you like they play candy crush (that colour colour game) on their phones oo The street is military.

4gunners:
I wish all guys can read this thread.

My girl is given me attitude cos I didn’t allow her to open ATM on my head. As an Oyel worker , she is expecting flow of cash like that of dasuki gate. This is someone I started dating not too long ago. I will always say this, these girls ain’t loyal, it’s about the money they will collect. She acccused me of always doing the opposite she tells me. Worst part is that, she doesn’t know how to appreciate.

Girls here that feel entitled to their partners money should have a rethink. Until you tie the knot, that guy doesn’t owe u anything.

Relationship should never be one sided.

i926:
Deactivated my old account...na this thread make me come back NL again.


Since I was a kid, most of my troubles are with women. It might be because they got preferential treatment and that irked me. From an early age, I believed that men are superior to women but why are the treated differently. I never believed a woman is superior to a man. I remember beating a girl that came first position in primary 4 while mine was 5th. Beat the sh!t outta my younger sister..momsy almost killed me and told me "They don't beat girls but you should be nice" but that never stopped me from beating...slapping girls my age then that were out of line.

The first day I saw male police officers saluting a female officer, I was shocked because I have never seen such in those Chuck Norris, First Blood, Heroes Shed No Tears kind of movies, coupled with my beliefs then...was so sad and disappointed that day and I never asked anyone why the male cops saluted her

Back in sec school, I don't allow female teachers or prefects beat me. It's better a male teacher or male perfect.

Thinking about it all, maybe I was woman hater until puberty struck..my prick started reacting on sight of boobs

Before I discovered Redpill...

On a Sunday morning inside the church, I was about 16 years old then, was seated in the Church, listening to the priest preach because I had to be there. A girl was walking towards my direction and then stepped on me without looking back or saying sorry. I had to call her, she told few steps towards me and I asked her to clean my stained black shoe that she stepped on. She said sorry, I told her to clean it. She bent over and cleaned it. I just kept a straight face like nothing happened. All eyes were on me. Next Sunday, I visited another parish.

Five years later, I was in Enugu around New Heaven trying to board a bus. A beautiful lady just walking by, stepped on me and walked away like I was a stone. I had to call her back, asked her that why would she march me like that and pass . She told me that she didn't know and girl never said sorry. I told her to clean my sneakers. B!tch told me "No" . I made a move to kick her and my cousin (I will definitely send the link to this thread to him because he's the Duke of Simping) held me back. B!ch, hissed and walked away.

Now, many might think I was being a rude insensitive jerk experiencing puberty or mean but a guy will never step on someone and walk away without saying sorry.

In 2016, my ex girlfriend twisted something I said...I was angry. She then manipulated me emotionally and next thing I was now begging...even knelt down because of the free pussy that I was getting. I couldn't sleep at night, when I woke up in the morning, I told her to leave my house. She was shocked and told me that no man has ever told her such and insisted that she ain't leaving. I told her I'm calm..nice but an egotistical crazy mou'fvcker.

Last two years, I came across some books on feminism on a girl's phone. She told me her friend downloaded it (lie) and she then collected her phone...she ain't no feminist. Prior to that, the girl told me how she manipulates men to serve her various purposes and she wants me to join the list jokingly. But my default street brain rejected it..infact, it even alerted me more.
One night, we were together in my crib. She called a man to buy her grilled chicken and malt. The man came with the orders in 20minutes and delivered at the gate...I ate and drank..wetin concern me. Weeks later, she had the guts to call me around 6:45AM to buy her grilled chicken and bring to her house later in the day. I was furious like a wild dog. Grrrrrrrrrrr! I would have bitten her right hand off her shoulders, if she was close by. I totally lost interest.

A babe that I wanted to fvck called me that she wanted me to loan her 7k, that she gon pay back.
Thought about it and decided to send. Atleast, after payment i go make move to fvck...na so my money go. No repayment, No fvck



After I discovered Redpill...

One babe wanted money, so I told her I was broke and don't have. A week later, she told me that a good male friend gave her the money and when she tried repaying, the dude told her to forget it. (I believe she's indirectly telling me she got other options but next time I ask you, give me the money without asking for it back )

Me and my mom had a phone conversation, she was telling me, how a guy went to another city to hustle while the friend a girl is managing private lessons after NYSC. That the guy should have done same thing as the girl. I told my mom, that the life of a man and that of a woman ain't same. The girl would probably get a rich man easily to marry her while the young man has to hustle to make money before deciding to marry. She was just laughing and said you get sense.

I was on Twitter recently shortly after I deactivated my NL. A Nigerian girl with handle like "EducatedMary" tweeted, men are scum and fools. Some guys were replying with the laughing and smiling emoji. One guy asked, what made you say that? The dumb stupid b!tch replied, "I just felt like". I had to jump in with my tweet "Have you ever considered changing your handle from EducatedMary to StupidMary or even UneducatedMary?" Did you know you just called your dad, Uncles and brothers scums... idiots?
I got blocked

A girl that I used to bang in 2008 called me yesterday, that I should send 10k to another guy's(cousin)acct number that her network is bad that she would refund me..I told her that I'm using Glo and the network sucks. It's been over 8 years since I last saw her...my 10k for just go like that, if I were to play a nice guy.


A girl visited me recently, after complaining how I don't give a fvck no more about her. I told her, it is her boyfriend's duty to call her always and my own as a man to call her once in two month cuz I have some other important stuffs doing. There was power obstruction, she then requested for my phone to watch movies. On opening the folder titled movies, she told me that she has seen all. I was expecting her to gimme back my phone but girl scrolled up and tried opening a folder The Redpill (downloaded videos from TRP Coach and AMS)..damn, snatched the phone and had to tell her it's porn. She replied "But you told me that you don't do porn" had to tell her that it's some crazy fetish porn that Im craving to explore. I sharpally downloaded a vault app.


The women around you, are not supposed to know that you are into redpill stuffs. Subscribe to the TRP channels and lock your YouTube app or but Pause your YouTube history, keep your AMS and TRP vids in vault apps.

To the guys that hav contributed immensely to this thread, Jah bless you all. There are still lots of lost brothers out there...I wish they learn the truth not through the hard way.

A man now thinks more with his brain.

baiaon:
From Laycon and Erica
To Erica and kiddwaya
Ozo and Nengi
Dorathy and ozo(the simp did not understand the signals being sent his way or he wasn't interested)
To the very start of the show,Lilo and Ozo(the simp ignored her)

Skepticus:
I hope the dude learns early. So far, he doesn't appear to me, to have learnt much from his experience in the house. There is nothing to worry about though. If e nor listen to men, women go show am shege and teach am lesson including marriage.

That's why I always advice guys who think that only Looks, Money and Status does it all, to look beyond it and add alpha/red pill traits discreetly to make the sexual game less stressful for them. Kiddwaya is a case study. Even, when he left the house, dude still maintained his frame and was discrete in talking much about their sexcapades (Nigerian guys can be very loud when they get a girl manages to sleep with them). With his looks money and status with dominant masculine traits, Erica will worship him for life whether they get married or not. He can always get her to do what he wants without much effort. That alpha value status is forever sealed.

Ozo had the looks, potential money and status over the average guy but had no dominant frame making him come off as creepy, weak, desperate and annoying even to his female admirers. With the camera on, people can pretend to be what they are not but when the cameras are off, we all know what gets down. The Nengi girl being touted as "chaste" would go down dirty on Kiddwaya (the signs were there), if there were no cameras. Forget the bullshît talk about having a serious boyfriend outside.

It's ignorance of TRP and game that makes some guys put themselves in difficulty. For instance, you see a guy gets chosen by a girl with clear signs, instead of the dude to take control of the situation and lead (as women naturally expects men to), he spots the signals, then go on to start begging (note the word, Beg) for date, relationship or that crap called love. The thing pisses the girl off and shuts him down immediately in disgust. Others tolerate his betaness and use him for free meals and other bills. Then dumps him when a better male comes on.

Norman4real:
I have no reason to trust any woman in my life. While I love my mom and sisters, aunties, and cousins I know that they're not immune to the effects of their female nature. Any of them could be just as much of a bitch as the next one. Only difference is that with them I'll love them regardless of their short comings.

Norman4real:
I have no reason to trust any woman in my life. While I love my mom and sisters, aunties, and cousins I know that they're not immune to the effects of their female nature. Any of them could be just as much of a bitch as the next one. Only difference is that with them I'll love them regardless of their short comings.

emmaodet:
More or less like daily/weekly/monthly subscription of dstv, recharge card or electricity bill etc.
The moment you can't subscribe anymore, they yank you off the grid for a better subscriber.

NoTimeZone:
Drake ft 2 Chainz and Big Sean ~ All me Nasty C ft crownedYung ~ God flow 50 Cent ft Chris Brown ~ I'm the man Nasty C ~ Changed Run town ft Nasty C ~ No Permission The Game ft Chris Brown ~ Only one The Weeknd ~ Tell your friends about it Future ft Drake ~ Where ya at Drake ~ Worst behavior DMX ~ What these bitches want Kanye West ~ Can't tell me nothing
And so many more

ubunja:
money, godlike genetics, and an evil heart. Women are drawn to evil men like moth to a flame.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women detest criticism and judgement in any form. Even when intended constructively, they will misperceive an attack upon their reputation. Women can’t handle criticism. They ask for the truth out of ego and self-importance, but they cannot handle it. Hence why people tend to use baby talk with women and sugar-coat things rather than “telling it like it is".

FRANKOSKI:
no wonder...
Most beautiful girls are banged by construstive liars and badasses

RAGGA40:
it is true women doesn't like to take correction

Skepticus:
I hope the dude learns early. So far, he doesn't appear to me, to have learnt much from his experience in the house. There is nothing to worry about though. If e nor listen to men, women go show am shege and teach am lesson including marriage.

That's why I always advice guys who think that only Looks, Money and Status does it all, to look beyond it and add alpha/red pill traits discreetly to make the sexual game less stressful for them. Kiddwaya is a case study. Even, when he left the house, dude still maintained his frame and was discrete in talking much about their sexcapades (Nigerian guys can be very loud when they get a girl manages to sleep with them). With his looks money and status with dominant masculine traits, Erica will worship him for life whether they get married or not. He can always get her to do what he wants without much effort. That alpha value status is forever sealed.

Ozo had the looks, potential money and status over the average guy [b]but had no dominant frame making him come off as creepy, weak, desperate and annoying even to his female admirers. [/b]With the camera on, people can pretend to be what they are not but when the cameras are off, we all know what gets down. The Nengi girl being touted as "chaste" would go down dirty on Kiddwaya (the signs were there), if there were no cameras. Forget the bullshît talk about having a serious boyfriend outside.

It's ignorance of TRP and game that makes some guys put themselves in difficulty. [b]For instance, you see a guy gets chosen by a girl with clear signs, instead of the dude to take control of the situation and lead (as women naturally expects men to), he spots the signals, then go on to start begging (note the word, Beg) for date, relationship or that crap called love. [/b]The thing pisses the girl off and shuts him down immediately in disgust. Others tolerate his betaness and use him for free meals and other bills. Then dumps him when a better male comes on.

Skepticus:
That's why I always advice guys who think that only Looks, Money and Status does it all, to look beyond it and add alpha/red pill traits discreetly to make the sexual game less stressful for them. Kiddwaya is a case study. Even, when he left the house, dude still maintained his frame and was discrete in talking much about their sexcapades (Nigerian guys can be very loud when they get a girl manages to sleep with them). With his looks money and status with dominant masculine traits, [/b]Erica will worship him for life whether they get married or not. He can always get her to do what he wants without much effort. That alpha value status is forever sealed.

It's ignorance of TRP and game that makes some guys put themselves in difficulty. [b]For instance, you see a guy gets chosen by a girl with clear signs, instead of the dude to take control of the situation and lead (as women naturally expects men to), he spots the signals, then go on to start begging (note the word, Beg) for date, relationship or that crap called love. The thing pisses the girl off and shuts him down immediately in disgust. Others tolerate his betaness and use him for free meals and other bills. Then dumps him when a better male comes on.

Skepticus:
If you are still in that slavery you call a relationship, you better end it as soon as possible. From the little you have described, you are not loved and to make it worse, she is not appreciative of the things you have done for her. Trust me, you'll spend the rest of your life trying to please her, even in marriage, and it will never be enough. God forbid, you lose your job or shit hits the fan, you'll know that the only woman or women that love you is your mum and sister. Street nor get joy. Soulmates are a big lie.[

CaveAdullam:
@bolded, firstly, not that women cannot love, but their love is so conditional, fickle, minute and scarce like water in the desert. Men owns love, and express it sacrificially in which women respond to, as in form of submissiveness and respect.

Women, don't know their own. They are so solipsistic that they will throw away the baby with the bath water including the water bath if their histrionics goes uncontrolled and haywire. Even God in Isaiah said.... " a mother can neglect her suckling child".

Your mother will not respect and fear you because you are her own, or your sisters because you are their elder brother. Women don't respect age. They only respond to your frame. If you maintain a dominant and a strong frame as a high tier man, they will follow you wherever you go. Meanwhile, they only love you because of what you can do for them, even though it is not too demanding and intimidating like the women you are having sex with.

Women are seduced and aroused by strong and dominant men-----high tier men, and get disgusted by weak men.

If you maintain frame, women in general will worship you, and this is the whole essence of TRP-----improving men in all of life's diversification.

Secondly, there is no soul mate anywhere. If you see the necessary qualities you desire in a woman----full of feminine essence and high value MARRY HER ut don't settle for non virgins or repentant wh%res. Virgins are for kings and wh%res for simps. Do not also consider a woman above 25 years of age, except she's a virgin and filled with an avalanche of feminine essence.

Laconically, become the man women want by becoming rare and high valued: that is, the man women will cheat with, and mould the type of woman you want as a wife into any shape you so desire.

Goodluck.

kongolo:
@Emboldened
Quit spreading that bullsh.it all over this thread
REDPILLED MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE!!
You are practicing something entirely different which has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE REDPILL!

4gunners:
lol..they don’t. They will rather mis-interpret your words :

CaveAdullam:
The essence of TRP is to inform all, not only men about the lies and facades been passed to us from previous generations. TRP reveals the uncommon truth ensconced in all facets of life; and the intersexual dynamics is a major part of it which is commonly referred to as TRP.

The unnecessary questions that are asked here are kinda absurd; for this reason, the OP and others quickly provided books, blogs and other TRP personnels to enable the quick acclimitization of neophytes to the true basics of TRP.

TRP on its own is amoral; your actions not TRP determines if any of your outcome is good or bad. TRP only informs you. Take for example, we all know what it means to steal, the knowledge is amoral, if I steal it is bad but if I help keep safe what is not mine; it is good. That's TRP!

Then marriage: MGTOW are groups of men who has decided not to commit fully to any woman or women. They can f^ck and dump, have babies through baby mamas or surrogates but will never commit. On a strict level, some of these men have nothing to do with women as listed above. They are called MGTOW monks.

The only advantage of MGTOW, is that these men will have enough time to channel their testosterones to more profitable ventures and inventions and will have more time and energy: a single man is always greater than a married man. But however, MGTOW are socially smart but evolutionary dumb!

Men who will enter marriage with a full capacity to always explore TRP are what civilization and evolution needs.
With marriage and proper TRP awareness, children can be raised under a healthy atmosphere compared to the MGTOW style, because a child needs the father and mother concurrently to become a healthy and mature adult.(Remember that a boy child has XY chromosomes and a girl child; XX chromosomes, each allele of the chromosomes derived from both parent).

Marriage will teach the boy child how to handle women by seeing the way his father treats his mother and a girl child; how to identify a high value man and respect him using her mother as an example, that is, the way her mother responds to her father.

TRP informs men - and women - about women nature and how to build frame, vitality, confidence, dominance around them. Because AWALT, it is compulsory that all men become cognizant with the tenets of TRP.
It is then left for the male to go along the way of the Monks, MGTOW or become marriage inclined based on his own utilization of TRP. TRP cannot decide for or rebuke you if you choose to go any of these ways.

An alpha male is a male that is successful in anything he decides to do. Will Smith is an alpha when it comes to the movie industry but a beta when it comes to intersexual dynamics, and same with Elon Musk, Johnny Depp, Prince Harry etc. I think Rollo Tomassi is an all round alpha male; successful both in marriage - of about twenty two(22) years - and business etc.

Marriage is good; profitable for civilization and evolution.

PS: Many are saying no to marriage basically because of the cankerous law surrounding it. Of a truth these laws are not helping, but as redpillers, we must understand that simps are behind these laws and we must rise to fight against it: by becoming more aware of the truth and spreading ourselves so large as to overpower the simps in all facets of life.

I think we need to borrow some wisdom from men in Saudi Arabia.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
The essence of TRP is to inform all, not only men about the lies and facades been passed to us from previous generations. TRP reveals the uncommon truth ensconced in all facets of life; and the intersexual dynamics is a major part of it which is commonly referred to as TRP.

The unnecessary questions that are asked here are kinda absurd; for this reason, the OP and others quickly provided books, blogs and other TRP personnels to enable the quick acclimitization of neophytes to the true basics of TRP.

TRP on its own is amoral; your actions not TRP determines if any of your outcome is good or bad. TRP only informs you. Take for example, we all know what it means to steal, the knowledge is amoral, if I steal it is bad but if I help keep safe what is not mine; it is good. That's TRP!

Then marriage: MGTOW are groups of men who has decided not to commit fully to any woman or women. They can f^ck and dump, have babies through baby mamas or surrogates but will never commit. On a strict level, some of these men have nothing to do with women as listed above. They are called MGTOW monks.

The only advantage of MGTOW, is that these men will have enough time to channel their testosterones to more profitable ventures and inventions and will have more time and energy: a single man is always greater than a married man. But however, MGTOW are socially smart but evolutionary dumb!

Men who will enter marriage with a full capacity to always explore TRP are what civilization and evolution needs.
With marriage and proper TRP awareness, children can be raised under a healthy atmosphere compared to the MGTOW style, because a child needs the father and mother concurrently to become a healthy and mature adult.(Remember that a boy child has XY chromosomes and a girl child; XX chromosomes, each allele of the chromosomes derived from both parent).

Marriage will teach the boy child how to handle women by seeing the way his father treats his mother and a girl child; how to identify a high value man and respect him using her mother as an example, that is, the way her mother responds to her father

TRP informs men - and women - about women nature and how to build frame, vitality, confidence, dominance around them. Because AWALT, it is compulsory that all men become cognizant with the tenets of TRP.
It is then left for the male to go along the way of the Monks, MGTOW or become marriage inclined based on his own utilization of TRP. TRP cannot decide for or rebuke you if you choose to go any of these ways.

An alpha male is a male that is successful in anything he decides to do. Will Smith is an alpha when it comes to the movie industry but a beta when it comes to intersexual dynamics, and same with Elon Musk, Johnny Depp, Prince Harry etc. I think Rollo Tomassi is an all round alpha male; successful both in marriage - of about twenty two(22) years - and business etc.

Marriage is good; profitable for civilization and evolution.

PS: Many are saying no to marriage basically because of the cankerous law surrounding it. Of a truth these laws are not helping, but as redpillers, we must understand that simps are behind these laws and we must rise to fight against it: by becoming more aware of the truth and spreading ourselves so large as to overpower the simps in all facets of life.

I think we need to borrow some wisdom from men in Saudi Arabia.

Thanks.

kongolo:
@Emboldened
Quit spreading that bullsh.it all over this thread
REDPILLED MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE!!
You are practicing something entirely different which has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE REDPILL

Tickles001:
I know this might be just for laughs sake, but some women might actually think this way.

kongolo:
*A man in love is incomplete until he has married.Then he is finished*

*My late uncle used to say, "Married men live longer than single men but married men are a lot more willing to die*

*Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out a fish*

*The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret*

*A wedding is a funeral where you smell your own flowers*

CaveAdullam:
@bolded, firstly, not that women cannot love, but their love is so conditional, fickle, minute and scarce like water in the desert. Men owns love, and express it sacrificially in which women respond to, as in form of submissiveness and respect.

Women, don't know their own. They are so solipsistic that they will throw away the baby with the bath water including the water bath if their histrionics goes uncontrolled and haywire. Even God in Isaiah said.... " a mother can neglect her suckling child".

Your mother will not respect and fear you because you are her own, or your sisters because you are their elder brother. Women don't respect age. They only respond to your frame. If you maintain a dominant and a strong frame as a high tier man, they will follow you wherever you go. Meanwhile, they only love you because of what you can do for them, even though it is not too demanding and intimidating like the women you are having sex with.

Women are seduced and aroused by strong and dominant men-----high tier men, and get disgusted by weak men.

If you maintain frame, women in general will worship you, and this is the whole essence of TRP-----improving men in all of life's diversification.

Secondly, there is no soul mate anywhere. If you see the necessary qualities you desire in a woman----full of feminine essence and high value----marry her. But don't settle for non virgins or repentant wh%res. Virgins are for kings and wh%res for simps. Do not also consider a woman above 25 years of age, except she's a virgin and filled with an avalanche of feminine essence.

Laconically, become the man women want by becoming rare and high valued: that is, the man women will cheat with, and mould the type of woman you want as a wife into any shape you so desire.

Goodluck.

Evolutionlove:
You wanted to sound funny but eventually you sounded stupid and like a fool lol. Not funny one bit lol.....