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cooooooks:
The whole sex virginity thing can make some women have fear of sex or even disgust of sex.

Go and read about the problem of vaginismus in Christian communities.

Some women are told their entire lives that sex is bad. When they finally get married (usually in their 30s+), these women have such a dear of sex that their bodies refuse to allow penetration.

This problem is causing some ministries to change from sex is bad teaching to sex is wonderful...under God. This is also another reason churches try to marry their kids early (leading to high divorce rates).

StacyO:
You think a woman can endure pressure till 30+??
Nice


[s]Sex has always been wonderful under the right ceiling. Because, premarital sex doesn't only have it's consequences but,can equally lead to untimely death.[/s]

cooooooks:
Our forefathers got married at 16.

Both grandmother's born in the 20s and 40s got married at 18 and they were relatively old.

I don't know where all these men that are saying virginity or nothing else are. I don't know them and I know a lot of people.

Who is Aunty A mingling with that she met Uncle B that has such an inexplicable 'want'?

cooooooks:
Lol.
Don't cheapen tour argument by unnecessary hyperbole.
Don't have your bath because people have died in the bathroom.

JOACHINpedro:
but if I end up with a virgin, I would go extra mile for her.

StacyO:
You being uncle B now.
Will you take aunty A as wife if she has what you guys call wide vagina??

StacyO:
Would you accept aunty A if she has got a wide pvssy?

StacyO:
Would you accept aunty A if she has got a wide pvssy?

cooooooks:
Who is you guys?

Next thing you will say you forgot to add some.

Are you saying that one married people for the width of their vaginas? What is the equivalent sexual organ requirement for marrying men? The girth of their joysticks?

Change you thinking so you can't meet people who don't think like this.

cooooooks:
I think this is a male troll.

StacyO:
I didn't write you guys mistakenly now
It was intentional.

The size of the penis wouldn't matter to me personally.

But,your wife having a borehole,will it bother you??

Liposure:
You are fighting a lost cause. Our society is morally bankrupt.

cooooooks:
There's a fundamental misunderstanding of anatomy to think people have 'boreholes'.

That's not how it works.

The only thing that I understand stretches out the female reproductive organ so much is (complicated) childbirth.

Sometimes, it is cut open to allow the child come out. In that case, it is seen back and needs a LONG time (months) to heal.

Even intbjis instance, it comes back to normal, and some exercises (Kegels) apparently further tighten the muscles there.

StacyO:
You think a woman can endure pressure till 30+??
Nice


Sex has always been wonderful under the right ceiling. Because, premarital sex doesn't only have it's consequences but,can equally lead to untimely death.

Liposure:
ha! Easy now

StacyO:
What did I write wrong?

cooooooks:
There's a fundamental misunderstanding of anatomy to think people have 'boreholes'.

That's not how it works.

The only thing that I understand stretches out the female reproductive organ so much is (complicated) childbirth.

Sometimes, it is cut open to allow the child come out. In that case, it is sewn back and needs a LONG time (months) to heal.

Even in this instance, it comes back to normal, and some exercises (Kegels) apparently further tighten the muscles there.

NoChill:
@StacyO
So what you're trying to say in general is that Nigerian girls are prostitutes.

God forbid bar thing

GIRLS(FEMINIST SCUMBAGS) : What exactly do men bring to the table apart from money?

MEN : I brought the fvcking table b*tch

StacyO:
You didn't get the discussion I presume. Putting this up there,I just want to get one explanation.
I see wailing all over the thread already
It's just an honest and direct question.
You men are using your own confusion to confuse the ladies




*The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something)*

Drafted from the writeup.
How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady??

StacyO:
As written by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

In as much as this post may be gender based, I'll love to indicate that it is equally PUN free.
Over the years,technology and western civilization changed our lives and we all tagged it the 21st century (smiles). This 21st century didn't only bring us closer to change but,it equally is robbing the good morals left in some of us.
After this whole write up,the main BIG question comes up.
Majority of guys I've come across always complain that their women cheat or have a high body count. This leaves me wondering how many body counts the guys in question might have. You go about complaining that Nigerian girls are all for the sex,hoes,sluts(I mean, all sorts of demeaning names). But,come to think of it,who actually created this hoes you always scream about??
Being a virgin in Nigeria is not an easy task,as a matter of fact, "it is a full time job".
I hear you guys take pride in comparing foreign girls with your Niger chicks. Do you know that an average foreign babe(your babe) sleeps around as much as she wants,until she's ready to get married??
But,I don't see you guys debating about this
Instead,all you do is paint your own pride black. Just to prove what exactly??

Then comes the sex vs money war;
You claim Nigeria girls have nothing aside sex to offer,what asides money do you have to offer?? (I mean money )
Sex as research says and I believe is something both partners enjoy in a relationship. Your girlfriend can never offer you her body for money. As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for.

The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something).
This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED.

To the ladies;
Stop giving out your body to people that don't appreciate it,if you want to fvck around,do it cause you want to. Stop giving someone sex due to what they say or offer you. Channel that few minutes energy into something resourceful and useful.
Forget that you've deflowered, it was your choice anyway but,stop making it look like you're selling your body out for money.

You as a lady and you're a virgin,please hold on to it cause,it's rare to find one this days. Forget all the confused rants on the internet,men are dying to find your kind.
Don't let one confused human being confuse you.

To the men;
Come off it. You complain that the girls have entitlement mentality, they can't bring new things to the table. What exactly have you brought to the table??
For you to even know that all Nigerian girls are hoes only makes you a male whóre (You're practically cheap).
You are the ones creating this hoes you cry of.

A lady can never offer you sex!!
You don't pay a lady money for sex unless she is a prostitute!!
And you wonder how or why people still get married in Nigeria with all the confusions flying around.

NB: The word "some" was used in this writeup though it wasn't indicated.
I'm not supporting any gender,just jotting



NB: All that is needed is an ANSWER to the question,don't come here and start singing your normal lullaby.

Now the BIG question as regards the topic;
#whatexactlydonigerianmenwant¿

cc lalasticlala,Dominique

CosmicPhoenix:

tell us the services they render that deserve payment

Sarita01:
The writer actually have a point,what exactly can a man offer other than money,if we take money and sex off the table what else can couples offer each other.
Money in relationship should not be seen as payment but as appreciation,a man would that is thankful for having a woman that cares for him,cooks,cleans,washes,a good companion,encourages,have his back should always try and appreciate her by giving her gifts and vice versa.in our world the highest form of love is taking care of people's needs by giving them money or buying gifts for them.that's the measurement for love in this present age.but appreciation is not only meant for men alone it's also for the woman,when you truly love your man you appreciate him too for being the man of your dreams by giving him gifts or paying for some stuff,men are not allergic to gifts.actions always speaks louder than words

StacyO:
Read it first then you can be able to use your mb.
Don't pick the words common to you

womenareapes:
To be honest!

your write-up gave me headache

I have never seen someone's IQ so low as this!
please you need medical help!

someone should pls refer this op to a good pyschatric!