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Originalsly:
Is this the response to my comment? You need help.... your confusion wayyy too much.... mental and sexual.

ok

Durentt:
no one says that you cant have an opinion but you cant just say HOMOSEXUALITY is a choice as though you have once been a homosexual in a past life or had deep conversation with one.

the homosexual man in the marriage can get an èrection in many ways (eg. by thinking of a man when in bed with his wife or even the sensation of touching from his wife gets him èrect)

myself as an example, I confirmed myself as homosexual at 21 years of age (last year). however during my teenage years, I visited a brothel and I couldn't get èrect, until after a while after she stroke my penis for minutes (and it wasn't even hard enough, if you know what I mean). you may say "maybe I wasnt attracted to the woman"

ok, but I have tried sex with 2 other women (similar experience) and I haven't had sex yet with a man but I know and I am sure that I am homosexual. why?

reason: During my masturbation session, I normally masturbate to photos of other men but sometimes I try to masturbate to photos of women but it is impossible. I can't describe clearly but when I try to masturbate to the photos or thought of a woman, no matter how attractive facially and physically she is, it is impossible for me.
I have to imagine a man in my head while looking at the woman to get a firm erection and to reach èjaculation.


now, why is it like this for me if homosexual orientation is a choice?

I dont know about bestiality and co because I am not that and dont support that either. but dont condemn however.

homosexuality is a choice ,why? that's because you narrowed your mind to a certain kind of sexual thinking and maybe as you said you watched a lot of gay porn and it turned you on thereby making you decide in your mind that you are homosexual forget not having an erection when you were a female your mind controlled you,reason being a straight guy can be with a woman and not get a hard on if he hates her or his mind is preoccupied with someone else

Bifrost:
@StopRudeness... So you're saying you yourself are heterosexual by choice? Lol.

That’s my belief...it might be an easy choice but yes... it’s a choice...
...have u been or heard about Brighton in the UK...?? That’s the hot seat of LGBT in England and UK as a whole...why do we have high population of gay people there? Simple, Environmental influence....

Belive it or not, environment during development stages( age 6-13) has a huge outcome on being gay or straight...Research shows that the fact that heterosexual sex is what people grow up to see, makes them naturally wired that way.
Evidence also shows that many gay people are a product of a deficit or distinction of one of their parent....

When I was 10, my best friend was a guy.. when he moved to boarding school, I cried eehnn!!!! Perhaps if it’s this our horrible time, I would have interpreted by love for him in a sexual way....

Gay people can actually have sex with the opposite sex, both their men and women...that’s why I say it a choice at the end of the day...they choose one...

1StopRudeness:
That’s my belief...it might be an easy choice but yes... it’s a choice...
...have u been or heard about Brighton in the UK...?? That’s the hot seat of LGBT in England and UK as a whole...why do we have high population of gay people there? Simple, Environmental influence....

Belive it or not, environment during development stages( age 6-13) has a huge outcome on being gay or straight...Research shows that the fact that heterosexual sex is what people grow up to see, makes them naturally wired that way.
Evidence also shows that many gay people are a product of a deficit or distinction of one of their parent....

When I was 10, my best friend was a guy.. when he moved to boarding school, I cried eehnn!!!! Perhaps if it’s this our horrible time, I would have interpreted by love for him in a sexual way....

Gay people can actually have sex with the opposite sex, both their men and women...that’s why I say it a choice at the end of the day...they choose one...

Lol. It's not environmental influence, it's simply because of the friendly gay laws there, gay people will tend to move to such areas.

And you haven't answered my question; did you choose to be heterosexual, or you just grew up and discovered you're attracted to the opposite sex?

Bifrost:
Lol. It's not environmental influence, it's simply because of the friendly gay laws there, gay people will tend to move to such areas.

And you haven't answered my question; did you choose to be heterosexual, or you just grew up and discovered you're attracted to the opposite sex?

I honestly cant believe that there are people that still believe sexuality is a choice. anyways you are right, I am the one who keeps opening these threads for their scrutiny. I would edit this topic and never open a gay thread again. one up there told me I was mentally and sexually confused lol. never again

Bifrost:
Lol. It's not environmental influence, it's simply because of the friendly gay laws there, gay people will tend to move to such areas.

And you haven't answered my question; did you choose to be heterosexual, or you just grew up and discovered you're attracted to the opposite sex?

First laws don’t make people decide to became gay, u made it sound like they are sharing money for gay people or offering them free tuition.

To ur question...... it’s both....I grew up knowing i’m heterosexual ( which is a product of factors we are not usually conscious of) and also decided to remain heterosexual...

You are looking at it in black and white.... but that’s not what sexuality is.... if its not a choice to remain with, how do people practice beastiality, necrophilia, paedophilia??...
do they just grow up and realized they are attracted to dead people, animals or children....heck!! some people even have sex with themselves.... are they attracted to themselves??

1StopRudeness:
First laws don’t make people decide to became gay, u made it sound like they are sharing money for gay people or offering them free tuition.

To ur question...... it’s both....I grew up knowing i’m heterosexual ( which is a product of factors we are not usually conscious of) and also decided to remain heterosexual...

You are looking at it in black and white.... but that’s not what sexuality is.... if its not a choice to remain with, how do people practice beastiality, necrophilia, paedophilia??...
do they just grow up and realized they are attracted to dead people, animals or children....heck!! some people even have sex with themselves.... are they attracted to themselves??

Lol. done with you. You're the one looking at sexuality in black and white.

See, I don't have strength to continue this back and forth with you.

Now you're comparing homosexuality to bestiality and necrophilia? really?

Can animals consent to sex?
Can children consent?
Can dead bodies consent?
You see why bestiality, paedophilia, or necrophilia could never be advocated?


And who said laws make people become gay? Do you read to understand or just to respond? When I said friendly gay laws, I mean gay people have rights to expression, to marriage, adoption etc... Who the fúck becomes gay so they can have their fees paid for them. Come on, be rational in your argument.

cc: HuntSon Durentt

1StopRudeness:
First laws don’t make people decide to became gay, u made it sound like they are sharing money for gay people or offering them free tuition.

To ur question...... it’s both....I grew up knowing i’m heterosexual ( which is a product of factors we are not usually conscious of) and also decided to remain heterosexual...

You are looking at it in black and white.... but that’s not what sexuality is.... if its not a choice to remain with, how do people practice beastiality, necrophilia, paedophilia??...
do they just grow up and realized they are attracted to dead people, animals or children....heck!! some people even have sex with themselves.... are they attracted to themselves??

Lol. And hey stranger, you're heterosexual because you're heterosexual not because of any factor you're not conscious of. If not, there won't be one single homosexual in this country, because from birth we've all been socialised in a largely heteronormative society. Believing marriage is between a man and women, wedding is between husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend.

But because sexual orientation is complex and not what we choose for ourselves, no matter how heteronormative you've been brought up, you'll find yourself questioning your identity.

Bifrost:
Lol. done with you. You're the one looking at sexuality in black and white.

See, I don't have strength to continue this back and forth with you.

Now you're comparing homosexuality to bestiality and necrophilia? really?

Can animals consent to sex?
Can children consent?
Can dead bodies consent?
You see why bestiality, paedophilia, or necrophilia could never be advocated?


And who said laws make people become gay? Do you read to understand or just to respond? When I said friendly gay laws, I mean gay people have rights to expression, to marriage, adoption etc... Who the fúck becomes gay so they can have their fees paid for them. Come on, be rational in your argument.

Becos concent isn’t involved doesn’t mean these other sexual behavior isn’t a preference for those who practice them....u are the one responding here without understanding the context by which I brought up these other sexual lifestyles....
We were discussing the place of choice in sexuality...I brought those up to let u know that at some point evnironmwnt have wired these people to express their feelings in a wired sexual way and they have also decided to remain that way...

Do U even know how to read, sarcasm... my first statement was “ why are u making it look like”

Didn’t say people a gay for free money or free tuition

U Claimed laws are friendly in Brighton, the laws are the same all over UK.... it’s not different in Brighton.... but when u have a high population of men and men kissing in the streets, same gender parents all over the place and schools introducing gay studies into primary school children curriculum, the idea of being gay sits well with kids that grow up in that area...

Bifrost:
Lol. done with you. You're the one looking at sexuality in black and white.

See, I don't have strength to continue this back and forth with you.

Now you're comparing homosexuality to bestiality and necrophilia? really?

Can animals consent to sex?
Can children consent?
Can dead bodies consent?
You see why bestiality, paedophilia, or necrophilia could never be advocated?


And who said laws make people become gay? Do you read to understand or just to respond? When I said friendly gay laws, I mean gay people have rights to expression, to marriage, adoption etc... Who the fúck becomes gay so they can have their fees paid for them. Come on, be rational in your argument.

cc: HuntSon Durentt

When they start trying to equate homosexuality with paedophilia bestiality and others, just know they've lost the argument

Don't mind them, they pretend they don't know about "CONSENT" until a gay man tries to hit on them

You're doing well!

1StopRudeness:
Becos concent isn’t involved doesn’t mean these other sexual behavior isn’t a preference for those who practice them....u are the one responding here without understanding the context by which I brought up these other sexual lifestyles....
We were discussing the place of choice in sexuality...I brought those up to let u know that at some point evnironmwnt have wired these people to express their feelings in a wired sexual way and they have also decided to remain that way...

Do U even know how to read, sarcasm... my first statement was “ why are u making it look like”

Didn’t say people a gay for free money or free tuition

U Claimed laws are friendly in Brighton, the laws are the same all over UK.... it’s not different in Brighton.... but when u have a high population of men and men kissing in the streets, same gender parents all over the place and schools introducing gay studies into primary school children curriculum, the idea of being gay sits well with kids that grow up in that area...

Pls stop grappling at straws, you lost the argument, humbly take a bow.

If "CONSENT" isn't involved, your preference becomes unacceptable so stop trying to beat around the bush bro.

There are no two ways about that!

In many developed and liberal countries around the globe, people were always gay long before men started kissing men in the open. Okay, why didn't gay people seize to exist since we grew up in areas where hetrosexuality is the norm??

Teaching people to be comfortable with other people's sexuality shouldn't be making you sad and insecure.

If you were taught right from the beginning to be comfortable with other people's sexuality, you wouldn't be here connecting homosexuality to bestiality, paedophilia and necrophilia

HuntSon:
Pls stop grappling at straws, you lost the argument, humbly take a bow.

If "CONSENT" isn't involved, your preference becomes unacceptable so stop trying to beat around the bush bro.

In many developed and liberal countries around the globe, people were always gay long before men started kissing men in the open. Okay, why didn't gay people seize to exist since we grew up in areas where hetrosexuality is the norm??

Teaching people to be comfortable with other people's sexuality shouldn't be making you sad and insecure.

If you were taught right from the beginning to be comfortable with other people's sexuality, you wouldn't be here connecting homosexuality to bestiality, paedophilia and necrophilia

Lost argument ??
Oh! I ddnt know this was a contest for you....

There’s no point dialoging with you... our aims are completely different...that’s why you never really tried to get my point cos to you it’s about winning a contest I ddnt even know I was in...

Are u happy now that Uve won..??.

Enjoy your night man

1StopRudeness:
Lost argument ??
Oh! I ddnt know this was a contest for you....

There’s no point dialoging with you... our aims are completely different...that’s why you never really tried to get my point cos to you it’s about winning a contest I ddnt even know I was in...

Are u happy now that Uve won..??.

Enjoy your night man

It wasn't a contest whatsoever, the points you raised has been successfully countered and disproved, there's no need embarrassing yourself by going further except you just wanna come out plain homphobic (which is fine btw)

HuntSon:
It wasn't a contest whatsoever, the points you raised has been successfully countered and disproved, there's no need embarrassing yourself by going further except you just wanna come out plain homphobic (which is fine btw)

Embarrass?? This dude.... u came at me asking if my sexuality is my choice and I explained why it is..... only for u to start saying I lost, you won, I shouldn’t embarrass my self, u even called me irrational....
See... u have your opinion.... we don’t have to agree... but trying to sound superior is just lame..