My fiance is the best man in the world. He always makes sure that I'm happy and I don't lack anything.
He even placed me on monthly allowance.

Now the problem is this;

I have NEVER bought him anything tangible since we've been together. Only edible stuff like cookies, fruits and drinks. And he doesn't complain.

Some Nairaland guys have asked me many times what I've contributed to his life and I realized that the answer is NOTHING.
I think it's just PEACE OF MIND that I give him. He says it all the time.

I really want to get him something wonderful this Xmas.

But I remember that Ubunja warned ladies about this: Not to buy anything for a man who spends on you, no matter how small it may be. Because I think it will make him stop spending on you with time.

He has already sent me money for my Christmas shopping.

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift or I should just continue the way we are. I can't risk this.

PS: I'm not a FEMINIST. I believe in my man being in charge and taking care of me
My boyfriend is an Alpha male but not a Redpiller. He is a SIMP. And I love him that way!

Ubunja
Martinez
Illegend

ubunja:
buy him a simple Christmas card.

Okay. Thanks

PinkPill:

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift .

YES

PinkPill:
My fiance is the best man in the world. He always makes sure that I'm happy and I don't lack anything.
He even placed me on monthly allowance.

Now the problem is this;

I have NEVER bought him anything tangible since we've been together. Only edible stuff like cookies, fruits and drinks. And he doesn't complain.

Some Nairaland guys have asked me many times what I've contributed to his life and I realized that the answer is NOTHING.
I think it's just PEACE OF MIND that I give him. He says it all the time.

I really want to get him something wonderful this Xmas.

But I remember that Ubunja warned ladies about this: Not to buy anything for a man who spends on you, no matter how small it may be. Because I think it will make him stop spending on you with time.

He has already sent me money for my Christmas shopping.

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift or I should just continue the way we are. I can't risk this.

PS: I'm not a FEMINIST. I believe in my man being in charge and taking care of me
My boyfriend is an Alpha male but not a Redpiller. He is a SIMP. And I love him that way!

Ubunja
Martinez
Illegend

Seek advice from SIMPs instead.

Okay.

Let me blaze my blunts first
I'm coming

Redpill books

PinkPill:
My fiance is the best man in the world. He always makes sure that I'm happy and I don't lack anything.
He even placed me on monthly allowance.

Now the problem is this;

I have NEVER bought him anything tangible since we've been together. Only edible stuff like cookies, fruits and drinks. And he doesn't complain.

Some Nairaland guys have asked me many times what I've contributed to his life and I realized that the answer is NOTHING.
I think it's just PEACE OF MIND that I give him. He says it all the time.

I really want to get him something wonderful this Xmas.

But I remember that Ubunja warned ladies about this: Not to buy anything for a man who spends on you, no matter how small it may be. Because I think it will make him stop spending on you with time.

He has already sent me money for my Christmas shopping.

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift or I should just continue the way we are. I can't risk this.

PS: I'm not a FEMINIST. I believe in my man being in charge and taking care of me
My boyfriend is an Alpha male but not a Redpiller. He is a SIMP. And I love him that way!

Ubunja
Martinez
Illegend

buy him a simple Christmas card.

Buy him these books

1. The rationale man by Rollo Tomassi

2. The manipulated man by Esther villa

he'll thank you later trust me.

Babe, no fall your hand o, this a festive season, buy him something special with a x-mas card attached to it.

I hate giving free advice tho.

But buy this book "The rational male by Rollo Tomassi" for him

Peace of mind if I get 5million dollars for my account, You think say I no go get peace of mind? keep deceiving yourself.

czarr:
Buy him these books

1. The rationale man by Rollo Tomassi

2. The manipulated man by Esther villa

he'll thank you later trust me.

He will dump you later,trust me

Pinkpill, simps love kindness. He is kind to you because he loves those that are naturally kind.
He is gentle and peaceful because he values them too.

Ubunja advice is for Alpha male who love power, to be in charge.
Simp is not Interested in control. The way to his heart is via gifts and that is why he is doing it for you. So you are in the right path, buy gifts for him.

What should you buy for hi

What does he value? Is he a nerd? Bookish type? Buy him a book.

Does he like arts, get an artist to draw a painting of him and present it on new year.

Is he Into music, a CD of his favorite artist is ok.
Is he an arsenal fan, an Arsenal jersey will do.

Gift denotes that you are atentive to his likes .

ubunja:
buy him a simple Christmas card.

Works like a charm.

tobechi74:
Pinkpill, simps love kindness. He is kind to you because he loves those that are naturally kind.
He is gentle and peaceful because he values them too.

Ubunja advice is for Alpha male who love power, to be in charge.
Simp is not Interested in control. The way to his heart is via gifts and that is why he is doing it for you. So you are in the right path, buy gifts for him.

What should you buy for hi

What does he value? Is he a nerd? Bookish type? Buy him a book.

Does he like arts, get an artist to draw a painting of him and present it on new year.

Is he Into music, a CD of his favorite artist is ok.
Is he an arsenal fan, an Arsenal jersey will do.

Gift denotes that you are atentive to his likes .

Wow.. thanks a lot. I appreciate.

virginprincess:
Babe, no fall your hand o, this a festive season, buy him something special with a x-mas card attached to it.

True talk. Thanks babe.

You never buy a provider gifts. If a man can't even accept money from you what makes you think he'll accept an expensively gift from you? Lmfao..


You have a lot to learn in the game.

czarr:
Buy him these books

1. The rationale man by Rollo Tomassi

2. The manipulated man by Esther villa

he'll thank you later trust me.

End of discussion.

Let me blaze my blunts first I'm coming

dear pinkpill,

you should actually buy him a gift considering the fact that he spends on you and is an alpha simp so he'll definitely get tired of you if he feels his acts (of giving in this instance) are not reciprocated.

p.s when giving him the gift let him know that you bought it from the money he gave you just to appreciate him. buy him a gift that he can always see daily. it'll make him remember you.

FirstSon01:
dear pinkpill,

you should actually buy him a gift considering the fact that he spends on you and is an alpha simp so he'll definitely get tired of you if he feels his acts (of giving in this instance) are not reciprocated.

p.s when giving him the gift let him know that you bought it from the money he gave you just to appreciate him. buy him a gift that he can always see daily. it'll make him remember you.

Thanks a lot.

Masonkaycares:
Peace of mind if I get 5million dollars for my account, You think say I no go get peace of mind? keep deceiving yourself.

It is not true, those who seek peace of mind in life will always remain poor. Staying rich ain't easy, the rich seek comfort not peace of mind.

ongback:
It is not true, those who seek peace of mind in life will always remain poor. Staying rich ain't easy, the rich seek comfort not peace of mind.

Vanity crew spotted

Masonkaycares:
Vanity crew spotted

Don't understand what you mean but if you think I'm religious then you got it wrong, my dream is for everyone around me to be "filthy rich" if possible. But most people who dream of wealth don't have the discipline and tough mindset to get it, wealth is not for the soft-bellied.
In life money is very important, peace of mind is the reason most people stay poor for life because they do not need anything "stressful".

ongback:
Don't understand what you mean but if you think I'm religious then you got it wrong, my dream is for everyone around me to be "filthy rich" if possible. But most people who dream of wealth don't have the discipline and tough mindset to get it, wealth is not for the soft-bellied.
In life money is very important, peace of mind is the reason most people stay poor for life because they do not need anything "stressful".

Bros whenever I see alert above 20k for my account, peac of mind just arrive for 30 mins. When I start planning on how to use it peace of mind departs

PinkPill:
My fiance is the best man in the world. He always makes sure that I'm happy and I don't lack anything.
He even placed me on monthly allowance.

Now the problem is this;

I have NEVER bought him anything tangible since we've been together. Only edible stuff like cookies, fruits and drinks. And he doesn't complain.

Some Nairaland guys have asked me many times what I've contributed to his life and I realized that the answer is NOTHING.
I think it's just PEACE OF MIND that I give him. He says it all the time.

I really want to get him something wonderful this Xmas.

But I remember that Ubunja warned ladies about this: Not to buy anything for a man who spends on you, no matter how small it may be. Because I think it will make him stop spending on you with time.

He has already sent me money for my Christmas shopping.

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift or I should just continue the way we are. I can't risk this.

PS: I'm not a FEMINIST. I believe in my man being in charge and taking care of me
My boyfriend is an Alpha male but not a Redpiller. He is a SIMP. And I love him that way!

Ubunja
Martinez
Illegend



Okay. Thanks

The best give you will buy for him is those items he uses on a daily basis.... For instance his wallet if he has one you can buy another to replace the one he's already using and you will be surprised how he will appreciate it...

Secondly, the belt he uses, you can as well as get one for him...

You can decide to change all of his boxer, buy new one for him....

This are little gifts that has positive value...

Don't buy expensive gift for him abeg he may not value it

How can someone be an ALPHA MALE and a SIMP at the same time... like I don't get...can u explain better pls, I'm lost here

Ayandokun2000:
How can someone be an ALPHA MALE and a SIMP at the same time... like I don't get...can u explain better pls, I'm lost here

King solomon wan An Alpha male and a simp at the same time

So is Will smith and Johnny Depp(pirates of the caribbean guy)

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odinson1:


King solomon wan An Alpha male and a simp at the same time

So is Will smith and Johnny Depp(pirates of the caribbean guy)

How was king Solomon an ALPHA MALE?....he was destroyed by women, lived his life to please women thereby making him to forsake his God, if he was an ALPHA... nothing will take his God away from him, he would have taken his stand with his God, his behaviors and ways of life was far from being an ALPHA bro


Will Smith is a total SIMP....show me any of his behavior that makes him an ALPHA...he got cheated on by his wife with a nigga he's old enough to father and his wife had no remorse for her actions.....dude was depressed, begging to have his wife back ...ALPHA attribute right?

Don't know about Depp

Ayandokun2000:


How was king Solomon an ALPHA MALE?....he was destroyed by women, lived his life to please women thereby making him to forsake his God, if he was an ALPHA... nothing will take his God away from him, he would have taken his stand with his God, his behaviors and ways of life was far from being an ALPHA bro


Will Smith is a total SIMP....show me any of his behavior that makes him an ALPHA...he got cheated on by his wife with a nigga he's old enough to father and his wife had no remorse for her actions.....dude was depressed, begging to have his wife back ...ALPHA attribute right?

Don't know about Depp

Guy Being Alpha does not pertains to Women stuff alone.. An Alpha male is one who has high status,command and Authority. Solomon was The King of the Whole of israel so he was definitely an Alpha but Not a Redpiller,which Made him a simp because he lived his life to Please women

Will simp is also an Alpha,in the Movie industry he has a lot of Achievements,Fans,money and he has made a Great name for himself. But sadly,he's alpha status doesn't Extend to Relationships stuff

odinson1:


Guy Being Alpha does not pertains to Women stuff alone.. An Alpha male is one who has high status,command and Authority. Solomon was The King of the Whole of israel so he was definitely an Alpha but Not a Redpiller,which Made him a simp because he lived his life to Please women

Will simp is also an Alpha,in the Movie industry he has a lot of Achievements,Fans,money and he has made a Great name for himself. But sadly,he's alpha status doesn't Extend to Relationships stuff

A king must command and rule whether he likes it or not...blind or deaf, young or old, simp, alpha or redpiller....I see that as no point in the case of king Solomon...so being a king makes u an ALPHA partially (official work) because u must command and dominate... it's now ur personal behavior/choice that will make u a complete ALPHA which Solomon failed woefully because of women


As for will... Achievements doesn't make u an ALPHA, as well as a SIMP, you're to portray the characters given to you in a movie
We never knew much of his personal life...but the one I know (his family saga) shows he's a simp... although he may not be a total SIMP

Lionel Messi have money, fame, achievement, he's the captain of his team...yet he's not an alpha on the pitch (football lovers will understand better) unlike Ronaldo who's a complete ALPHA

Being in high status and well known attracts respect though but doesn't define being an ALPHA sometimes

Ayandokun2000:



A king must command and rule whether he likes it or not...blind or deaf, young or old, simp, alpha or redpiller....I see that as no point in the case of king Solomon...so being a king makes u an ALPHA partially (official work) because u must command and dominate... it's now ur personal behavior/choice that will make u a complete ALPHA which Solomon failed woefully because of women


As for will... Achievements doesn't make u an ALPHA, as well as a SIMP, you're to portray the characters given to you in a movie
We never knew much of his personal life...but the one I know (his family saga) shows he's a simp... although he may not be a total SIMP

Lionel Messi have money, fame, achievement, he's the captain of his team...yet he's not an alpha on the pitch (football lovers will understand better) unlike Ronaldo who's a complete ALPHA

Being in high status and well known attracts respect though but doesn't define being an ALPHA sometimes

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