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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 7:58pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


My Sister, the young Man complaining should be the one to be asked!
His dad didn't come here to Complain!
You're still not getting the point. You say the young man should have communicated with his parents, but I am asking that why didn't the parents communicate with the young man? Why must the father resort to assaulting him? Is that not the provocation the bible warned against? If the young man should react and disrespect the dad in the process everyone will condemn him while ignoring the fact that this is an adult being whipped like a baby. The father's actions is very bad and totally inexcusable. This is how parents alienate themselves from their kids in the name of discipline.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 7:59pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ishilove:

You're still not getting the point. You say the young man should have communicated with his parents, but I am asking that why didn't the parents communicate with the young man? Why must the father resort to assaulting him? Is that not the provocation the bible warned against? If the young man should react and disrespect the dad in the process everyone will condemn him while ignoring the fact that this is an adult being whipped like a baby. The father's actions is very bad.

The Father is Absolutely Right to Discipline his Son.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 8:00pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

The Father is Absolutely Right to Discipline his Son.
Did your father whip you at age 26?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 8:02pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ishilove:

Did your father whip you at age 26?
My Dad Disciplined me very well..

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by liquidmetall: 8:03pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

Oga don't encourage this nonsense

How can you say his father is correct to flog a man of 26 years

Are you sure you're okay ?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 8:04pm On Sep 29, 2020
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liquidmetall:


Oga don't encourage this nonsense

How can you say his father is correct to flog a man of 26 years

Are you sure you're okay ?
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 8:39pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

My Dad Disciplined me very well..
No wonder your mindset has been warped

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 8:40pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ishilove:

No wonder your mindset has been warped
Okay Ma

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Richy4(m): 8:54pm On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
@op follow this advice at ur own peril

Do you have a better solution? We are family here, that's why we are putting our heads together to help a knight in distress...
Now the platform is yours dear.. drop your own better solution smiley
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ahamefuna0001(m): 8:54pm On Sep 29, 2020
For your Dad to be flogging you at this age you must acting as a kid.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Richy4(m): 8:58pm On Sep 29, 2020
Ishilove:

No wonder your mindset has been warped

I'm so loving you already grin u deserve daddy's hug..

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by kkins25(m): 9:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
Your FATHER angry angry

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chinwezdasilva: 9:30pm On Sep 29, 2020
Richy4:
You are his son.. there's nothing like I have no place to go.. Display a little madness one day and it will stop... Everyone has that in him or her but we all control it..

he should have stopped doing that nonsense immediately u clocked 20 @ most.. It's in your hands to stop it... If he tries to do it next time shove him a little not enough to make him fall but enough to let him know you have had it up to your neck... let him know that that madness got to stop...

If he asked you to leave, tell him u are not leaving because u were in your father's house and if he's not he should point who your father is... I'm just mad right now at your docile way and
When you realise that your dad is bullying you and not correcting you,then it will stop..
mchwwwww!!!
if my papa dey alive do me this kind thing I go shake am
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chinwezdasilva: 9:36pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
only in Africa � to slap you dey hungry me everytime, so wait at ur age ur papa flog you, u come dey reason children obey your parents

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chinwezdasilva: 9:46pm On Sep 29, 2020
Mindlog:


You are certainly not because it is very dangerous to have a schizophrenic like you who exhibits religious delusions as a father because a child under you would have a higher outcome of becoming psychotic.
it only shows how backward Africans reason,

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Uniquewise: 9:46pm On Sep 29, 2020
@Righteousness89, pls let go this argument because you're so wrong on this. Sometimes it's better to be silent, especially on a matter you obviously have no full understanding, like this one.

And - the father of OP is absolutely wrong to keep beating his full grown 26yrs son, regardless of his justification for doing so. For one, that man is unwittingly putting himself at risk of being hurt the day his son fails to reign in his anger and built up resentment at such shoddy treatment. I am the mother of an adult son and I had to learn to control my quick reflexes of hitting my son, when he started putting up resistance against such from me from the age of 16! Now, I talk to him, advice him, (and I found these to be more effective); but hit him? Never again! Parents, especially African parents should stop bullying their children, period.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 9:48pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Uniquewise:
@, pls let go this argument because you're so wrong on this. Sometimes it's better to be silent, especially on a matter you obviously have no full understanding, like this one.

And - the father of OP is absolutely wrong to keep beating his full grown 26yrs son, regardless of his justification for doing so. For one, that man is unwittingly putting himself at risk of being hurt the day his son fails to reign in his anger and built up resentment at such shoddy treatment. I am the mother of an adult son and I had to learn to control my quick reflexes of hitting my son, when he started putting up resistance against such from me from the age of 16! Now, I talk to him, advice him, (and I found these to be more effective); but hit him? Never again! Parents, especially African parents should stop bullying their children, period.
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Uniquewise: 9:55pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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Unfortunately, this has shown you to be an intemperate person. It's one thing to preach publicly, (which I support), but another to have a Christ-like character which is even more beneficial to yourself as well as the Body of Christ.

Sad to observe you've just demonstrated the ill-mannerism of some irresponsible Nairalanders that go about cancelling the posts of people with divergent views from theirs.

My dear, you have a very long way to go character-wise.

Goodnight.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 29, 2020
Efewestern:
OP I think you should challenge your dad, flogging a 26years old man is so so wrong. Stop being this docile.



How are you fairing now? how about your maternal family? can't you locate them for assistance.

Stories like this are very common. Women are terrible when dealing with kids that aren't theirs.

It's been a while I had from my maternal family, after my mum's funeral few years ago, everyone stayed on their own

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Liposure: 10:03pm On Sep 29, 2020
This has to stop. You are no longer a child. Two wrongs cannot make right
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Angelinastto(f): 10:04pm On Sep 29, 2020
First of, you're still very angry, take some time to cool off, don't make an hasty decision.
Maybe you could talk to mom about it, moms always have a way with dads.
If you leave now without a vision or a plan, you might end up suffering for nothing and a come back will be difficult without success.
Say no to suicide pleeeeassssse

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by KayCee92(m): 10:04pm On Sep 29, 2020
Firstly, I did not read the piece. Grandad aka Bitches aka Robert Jebediah Freeman will say "that is what grand kids are for" grin grin grin

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 29, 2020
ignis:
Please drop your Dad's contact number so we can call him and tell him to stop flogging you.
you just made my day, lmao

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chukwuibuipob: 10:07pm On Sep 29, 2020
sad he bed wet undecided
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:08pm On Sep 29, 2020
Lolzzzz.... I feel like beating u sha, sey u know say some of ur mate don marry, u beta start to dey get sense

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Vicyace: 10:08pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

Dumbest thing so far on Nairaland today

A round of applause

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chukwuibuipob: 10:09pm On Sep 29, 2020
sad ur papa doesn’t want bad bois to corrupt u.It is for ur own good and protection.U have a good father.What if Dey fight,kill somebody/police arrest u for wandering nkoh.He for use his mouth to correct U instead of pankere

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:09pm On Sep 29, 2020
Terryindeed:
if you wanna use your brain to make money but you gotta to be humble and loyal then hit me up.
do you have a laptop? where are you residing?
Sey make i hit u up, laptop dey

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:10pm On Sep 29, 2020
ignis:
Please drop your Dad's contact number so we can call him and tell him to stop flogging you.
Lol.You seriously mean that?Na extra lashes he go chop courtesy of your call to his dad.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Fucsheetup(f): 10:11pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
You are mentally deranged.

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