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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 9:45pm On Sep 30, 2020
GreyLaw:


A very disturbing thing to write. You and the 21 people that liked your post must be joking.


For him, it is generational thus the normalization
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by kherlly(m): 10:09pm On Sep 30, 2020
gees101:
awwww , how old are you sir


I'm over thirty now... Not living with them anymore
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 12:36am On Oct 01, 2020
Kingdomcome:
Can I have ur contact so I can find u small work. Ur story is pathetic please.
Pls, I need the job too and I'm not lazy, I reside in Lag
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by gees101(m): 2:22am On Oct 01, 2020
kherlly:


I'm over thirty now... Not living with them anymore
OK stay safe bro

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 3:23am On Oct 01, 2020
studM:


R u in lagos?
Yes I'm in Lagos
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by themanderon: 4:41am On Oct 01, 2020
Next time he tries that grab the cane or whooping device from him. He will get the message that you have come of age. If it continues it will affect you psychologically. Try taking some responsibilities around the house and try not to disobey his commands as you are still under his roof. If you disagree with him don't express it while he is angry but when he cools down express your misgivings to him in a calm manner.
If Nigeria was a sane country we won't be having this discussion. At 26 one should be gainfully employed. Everyone except the thieving politicians is angry and seeking an unfortunate person to transfer their aggression upon. Your dad is probably doing it too.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by armyofone(m): 4:53am On Oct 01, 2020
Brutal truth! Enough said!

Op, about time you find your way in life and come visit them at some point with the proverbial"fat envelope"!

light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by pensilpyper(m): 8:56am On Oct 01, 2020
Call family meeting for ur papa head
Or make u go fnd work, commot him house
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:29am On Oct 01, 2020
Kingdomcome:
Can I have ur contact so I can find u small work. Ur story is pathetic please.
I'm not in Lagos,
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Erojepromise(f): 9:45am On Oct 01, 2020
Squillaci:

But do they flog you now at 19?
no they don't last time l was beaten was when I was 17
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Greatfullheart: 4:35pm On Oct 01, 2020
Drizzy5001:
Ehyaa! Me too i mistakenly choose Economics, those lecturers wanted to wound me with carryovers, i had to change to Marketing in my 300level.
mehn all my mates are in HND2 grdauating this year if no be lockdown. am wasnt gud in maths and drawing i still to choose it. now am a drop out. my parent say i shud go and learn handwork that they dnt have money to waist to send me to skul. How painful?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ChiefSweetus: 4:36pm On Oct 01, 2020
Op what’s your location? Might have a better job for you
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Drizzy5001(m): 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2020
Greatfullheart:
mehn all my mates are in HND2 grdauating this year if no be lockdown. am wasnt gud in maths and drawing i still to choose it. now am a drop out. my parent say i shud go and learn handwork that they dnt have money to waist to send me to skul. How painful?
i feel ur pains bro, have u tried talking to a close relative, uncle or grandpa, anybody that u know, can help u talk to ur dad.?
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 5:07pm On Oct 01, 2020
ChiefSweetus:
Op what’s your location? Might have a better job for you
Delta state sir...

Asb
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by kherlly(m): 9:11pm On Oct 01, 2020
gees101:
OK stay safe bro

Sure thing

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Greatfullheart: 9:59pm On Oct 01, 2020
Drizzy5001:
i feel ur pains bro, have u tried talking to a close relative, uncle or grandpa, anybody that u know, can help u talk to ur dad.?
mehn my family is so complicated wen it comes to this uncle of a thing(all this uncles u neva knew when u wey small and uncles who dont even care). As for my grandpa he die a long time ago i dnt even know how he luks like. I elder brother adviced to take anoda jamb and choose anoda course that offers less maths so i wrote jamb dis year and i went for SLT. But my dad still ensist he doesnt have money to waist i wonder if he wants to take the money to heaven or his grave.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 2:01pm On Oct 03, 2020
LikeAking:


These are not my words.

Read the 48 laws of power.

I belive the author doesnt mean killing,but falling of such a fadas hands.

Him papa don cross boundary.

After all nobody will miss him.
Any crap law that negate this:honour thy father and thy mother that thine days may be long,is an affront to God.Take that at my two cent.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 06, 2020
Am sorry to hear that your dad is a total arsehole. Am so mad I was looking at something on google search and saw this post so i joined the site am in Liverpool myself stay strong do not let anyone get you down on here take no notice also there does seem to be some nice genuine people on here some people don't understand it's easy for people to say get out etc... as there not you everyone is different stay strong Bleep juls
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mleeperbother: 10:16am On Oct 07, 2020
WTF
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ArticleBeast: 4:17am On Oct 12, 2020
I was 18 when my father tried to do that. When he saw that his hands couldn't come down he respected himself
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:10am On Oct 12, 2020
Righteousness89:


You are Wrong!
You Have no right to tell a Man how to Discipline his son!

Caning is Discipline!
Punishment is Discipline!

When you get your child leave them to do as they want!

You will Reap it!

Go and seat down joor.... if op commits an offence that warrants jail term, will the father serve the term for him because you don't know the meaning of adult...na your type dey born full house because family planning is a sin. primitive.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:19am On Oct 12, 2020
benji93:
This is exactly what my problem is. I asked you a question, and you refused to answer, which only suggests that your father indeed told you not to go out beyond a certain designated time. If you chose to disobey your father l, while you still stay in his house. Adult or not, you deserve some add whooping. My house, my rules. Behave as an adult and you will get the adult treatment.
Your kind of person cannot harbor friends or family, you go use rules kill them... Do you realize that some people get home from work around 10pm everyday maybe due to traffic or some other things
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrCork: 9:46am On Oct 12, 2020
BKsoul:
Your kind of person cannot harbor friends or family, you go use rules kill them... Do you realize that some people get home from work around 10pm everyday maybe due to traffic or some other things


but y do u cuss inocent people too much?. U cuss me for no reason.
...do u need love?(no oofense)
embarassed
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by benji93: 10:26am On Oct 12, 2020
If I remember the OPs original post correctly, he didn't have a job at that point in time. He left the house to watch Liverpool play. This was what set me off. Perhaps you can rethink this now.
BKsoul:
Your kind of person cannot harbor friends or family, you go use rules kill them... Do you realize that some people get home from work around 10pm everyday maybe due to traffic or some other things
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrCork: 1:29pm On Oct 12, 2020
BKsoul:
Your kind of person cannot harbor friends or family, you go use rules kill them... Do you realize that some people get home from work around 10pm everyday maybe due to traffic or some other things



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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrCork: 9:57pm On Oct 13, 2020
BKsoul:
Your kind of person cannot harbor friends or family, you go use rules kill them... Do you realize that some people get home from work around 10pm everyday maybe due to traffic or some other things


loud mouth as been quite for 5 days...did MOD ban u? .. grin grin grin grin
I begged u to act like lady but instead, u cuss out everyone like roadside mechanic.
Hope they lift ya ban next year
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kirchoffs: 10:07am On Oct 06, 2021
Righteousness89:


you are Speaking English..
When you Become a father you will understand better the Importance of Discipline..
Oga you nor dey wise @ all
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jesustheissue: 11:57am On Oct 08, 2022
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
Any father correcting a 26 year old in that manner has probably failed as a parent. Spare the rod and spoil the child, the good word says but I wonder if the child mentioned here also includes 26 year old adults. Such discipline should have been done like say 10 years before. Where did frank discussion disappear to?

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