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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrHandsome2013: 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....





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What is your qualifications

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Benwallt(m): 10:20pm On Sep 29, 2020
IF you wanna b anything, leave your comfort zone and face your demon. It would surprise you how easy it is for you to conquer. Don't wait till your father tells you that you are useless before u make move

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by LikeAking: 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


You are Wrong!
You Have no right to tell a Man how to Discipline his son!


You no follow.

Just shut your mouth and read comments.

A real fada wont do that.

He is old enough to mix with people.

If he doesnt mix up he will be lonely and broke like his dad.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by edoairways: 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


You are Wrong!
You Have no right to tell a Man how to Discipline his son!
I have every right or rather you what a situation where such man kills his child?. Haven't you seen or heard cases where fathers kill their children as a result of discpline?
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Veezy4u(m): 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
ignis:
Please drop your Dad's contact number so we can call him and tell him tomorrow stop flogging you.
you want make dem call am come parlour make dem lash am abicheesy

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mdchikezie(m): 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.

HOW MANY FEMALES LIVING WITH THEIR PARENTS GO OUT AT NIGHT TO WATCH FOOTBALL
ARE YOU DUMB OR DUMB HUH

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ofuonyebi: 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
yes, his father should flog him, if at 26-yrs, the old idiot is still behaving like a baby...QED
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by wman(m): 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

I don't agree with that at all!
Discipline does not Have age.. More Especially when you are still under your Father's Roof..

So flogging a man of 26 years old is right? A grown up man o! Eligible for marriage, fathering a kid and running a company.

You guys ehn.

OP, you are too docile. If you change it for him once, he'll start to respect you. You are a man and not a kid.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by EleventhWeirdo: 10:22pm On Sep 29, 2020
mrblessed:
What do you benefit cancelling the comment of someone just because it doesn't sit well with you? This graveyard has become a stronghold for people who can't accept divergent or conflicting views without throwing tantrum. Note that the correct rendering of this sentence is: "If I were your father, I will cane you for uttering this."
Lol

You are also wrong. The statement, correctly, goes thus: If I were your father, I would cane you for uttering this.

Gracias

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Humanoid01(m): 10:22pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
Spare the rod and spoil the CHILD. A 26-year-old isn't a child.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by fatymore(f): 10:23pm On Sep 29, 2020
Please don't drag righteousness89 too much.

Me think this one is an imposter not the real one

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by LikeAking: 10:23pm On Sep 29, 2020
SLAY THE OVER BEARING FADA.

48 Laws Of Power

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:24pm On Sep 29, 2020
Humanoid01:

Spare the rod and spoil the CHILD. A 26-year-old isn't child.

A 40yrs Old under his Father care is a Child sir!

You Cannot be in your Parents house, feeding from your Parents and Live anyhow..

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by DenreleDave(m): 10:25pm On Sep 29, 2020
Humanoid01:

Spare the rod and spoil the CHILD. A 26-year-old isn't a child.

As long as he still leaves under them, he is their child

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by DenreleDave(m): 10:26pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


A 40yrs Old under his Father care is a Child sir!

Exactly sir.. So far he is under dem

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:26pm On Sep 29, 2020
MrHandsome2013:
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What is your qualifications

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Robnectar(m): 10:26pm On Sep 29, 2020
Terryindeed:
if you wanna use your brain to make money but you gotta to be humble and loyal then hit me up.
do you have a laptop? where are you residing?




Where u dey bro, location

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by gurunlocker: 10:27pm On Sep 29, 2020
If you are making enough money at your age, he won't be floggin you.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:27pm On Sep 29, 2020
Richy4:
You are his son.. there's nothing like I have no place to go.. Display a little madness one day and it will stop... Everyone has that in him or her but we all control it..

he should have stopped doing that nonsense immediately u clocked 20 @ most.. It's in your hands to stop it... If he tries to do it next time shove him a little not enough to make him fall but enough to let him know you have had it up to your neck... let him know that that madness got to stop...

If he asked you to leave, tell him u are not leaving because u were in your father's house and if he's not he should point who your father is... I'm just mad right now at your docile way and
When you realise that your dad is bullying you and not correcting you,then it will stop..
mchwwwww!!!
His father actually deserves some serious reprimand for such acts.But we must not forget his motive for doing that which can either be to prevent him from falling victim to the evils of the night or any other logical rationale.Beside,the op need to get a job asap.Armed with a job,he can easily assert his liberality/freedom in the house.Shalom!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Umartins1(m): 10:27pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

I don't agree with that at all!
Discipline does not Have age.. More Especially when you are still under your Father's Roof..

Guy, you no get sense

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by inumidun2010(m): 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

I don't agree with that at all!
Discipline does not Have age.. More Especially when you are still under your Father's Roof..
At that age ... It's no longer discipline but harshness.. It will reduce the Guy's self esteem..
You said your Grandfather beats his children while they are married( he can equally beat their wives also). It's totally wrong especially if they have wives and kids... What message is he passing across.. Humility is not STUPIDITY

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Pharovo(m): 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

It's a Crime for Your Father to Discipline you because your 26 yrs?

Guy you’ve been typing nonsense since. You sure say na the real you so... I am disappointed Walahi

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrHandsome2013: 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:

B.ed...
fresh graduate but yet to do my clearance or go for NYSC due to the pandemic/ASUU strike
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Sorry.
Have you tried applying jobs online?
And if i may ask are you the only child?
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by kalufelix(m): 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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If I was your Father! I will cane you for uttering this..
righteous_id!ota...yon~expose~your~fool!shness~today..8-)

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by lastchild: 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Prechgold1180:
At 26 you still u still dey ur father hux

U Nur dey shame for urself


Abi u want wey d man open up by himself tell u say mk us move

Ur mate for USA don get deir own family


Nobody should quote me
you are very wrong, there's nothing wrong living in the father's house, the only problem there is his inability to provide for them financially

my elder brother lived in our house till he got married at the age of 35, he took care of my patents till they died

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Humanoid01(m): 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


A 40yrs Old under his Father care is a Child sir!
I'd like to know your definition of a child and an adult.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:29pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Pharovo:


Guy you’ve been typing nonsense since. You sure say na the real you so... I am disappointed Walahi
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Churchill6767: 10:29pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

It's a Crime for Your Father to Discipline you because your 26 yrs?

Stupid talk.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrHandsome2013: 10:29pm On Sep 29, 2020
MrsRighteousness:
Proverb 29vs 15 The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left undisciplined brings his mother to shame.
Proverb 13vs 1 A WISE son heeds [and is the fruit of] his father's instruction and correction, but a scoffer listens not to rebuke.
Proverb 13vs24 Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
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Where is your husband?
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MisterGrace: 10:29pm On Sep 29, 2020
Prechgold1180:
At 26 you still u still dey ur father hux

U Nur dey shame for urself


Abi u want wey d man open up by himself tell u say mk us move

Ur mate for USA don get deir own family


Nobody should quote me

You obviously are a kid.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Martinez39s(m): 10:30pm On Sep 29, 2020
I just shake my head at some of the comments here. Clearly, a lot of people are not fit to be parents. If you think flogging a 26-year-old guy (or lady) with cane like you would a child is okay, you are clearly a thoughtless individual. It's only in Africa that parents conflate discipline with arbitrary strict laws and emotional and psychological abuse.

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