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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.
The first person article "I" is gender neutral, so it's not much of a big deal. And besides, watching football was a big give away.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mrblessed(m): 10:32pm On Sep 29, 2020
EleventhWeirdo:
Lol

You are also wrong. The statement, correctly, goes thus: If I were your father, I would cane you for uttering this.

Gracias
Lol
Your statement should be written thus: "The statement correctly goes: "If I were your father, I will cane you." As you can see, there is no need to put a comma in the front and back of the word "correctly."

Will, not would, is the correct word because it is a direct speech, not a reported speech.

Thank you

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Charlieluvboy(m): 10:32pm On Sep 29, 2020
sorry oh.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:32pm On Sep 29, 2020
LikeAking:
SLAY THE OVER BEARING FADA.

48 Laws Of Power
when he eventually kill his old man,will you be available to dig his grave? undecided.Nonsense!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jojofola: 10:32pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Righteousness89:
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[s]If I was your Father! I will cane you for uttering this..
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Nawa. Ogbeni, leave the internet. It is not good for your sanity.

Reactant.

You are cancelled.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Burgerlomo: 10:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Devote the time you are using to watch games to learn something that you're interested in so that you can be your own boss instead of waiting for someone to hire you or be a burden to your family, and also as your father I will not advise you to disrespect him though what is doing is absolutely wrong but I will advise you to endure and look for something legit ASAP to do whether it's online or offline so that you can be a man of your own, I wish you good luck.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrHandsome2013: 10:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Hoojay:
Oya oooo...na EVening order dey sweet pass grin
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Will keep your beautify teeth � fastened
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Prechgold1180(m): 10:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
MisterGrace:


You obviously are a kid.
you wey b adult well-done

Rubbish
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by lereinter(m): 10:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Prechgold1180:
At 26 you still u still dey ur father hux

U Nur dey shame for urself


Abi u want wey d man open up by himself tell u say mk us move

Ur mate for USA don get deir own family


Nobody should quote me


The US you have never reached

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TheSociopath(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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If I was your Father! I will cane you for uttering this..

R u sure u r a pastor?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
Humanoid01:

I'd like to know you definition of a child and an adult.

You are Shifting the Bar Sir!
As Long as you are under your Parents roof , they've Every Right to Discipline you when you Mess up.

When you Go to your own house, if your Parents come to flog you, then you know it's a Problem..

If the young man had a Problem with the police or Something, who will bear the whole problem?

Let's be Reasonable! We are Africans! We are not Europeans or Americans..

You don't mess up under your Parents and say you 26 yrs or 34 yrs! That's Thrash

If you were the Father and a son in your care went out and stayed out late with no Contact! How would you feel?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Lawsaite: 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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Someone old enough to have mothered a son above 16 years and you had the temerity to cancel her post.
You reek of indiscipline. And you claim to have been disciplined well enough by your father. angry angry

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by naturefellow(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
Prechgold1180:
At 26 you still u still dey ur father hux
U Nur dey shame for urself
Abi u want wey d man open up by himself tell u say mk us move
Ur mate for USA don get deir own family
Nobody should quote me
shut up and get lost if you cant be positive towards his sadness and depression.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by puremaker7(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....





same thing my dad was doing when I was 25, I made him stop it in hard way, I changed it for him on that good night.
on that certain night, it was around 10:15 pm, I was coming from my babe, so my dad thought it was a business as usual, I collected the cane from him and destroyed it at the front of everybody in the house, then I issued a treat to him, never to try to flog me again, baba was scared like mad, though I tendered my appology to him the following morning for raising my voice at him.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Prechgold1180(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
lereinter:



The US you have never reached
not everyone is Bleep broke like you ok
Get some life
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TrickyTeeBBN5: 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5Bco4UHZlk
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
As always,very mature and sensible response.Remain blessed,sir.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Benjaniblinks(m): 10:35pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:

My Dad Disciplined me very well..
I am sure he didn't. Shame!!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by butterfly55(f): 10:35pm On Sep 29, 2020
The only advice I will give to you is to go out there and become a man. Will you depend on them forever? At 26? Go out and hustle, get your own place, even if it's one room, start from there, do something with your life. Start small, make it and stand on your own feet. That way, no one will reduce you to nothing, not even your father. You brought this upon yourself by still living under his house at your age. If you live under him, you have to abide by his rules and take his shit! Sorry but that's the hard truth!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ehix89(m): 10:35pm On Sep 29, 2020
Prechgold1180:
At 26 you still u still dey ur father hux

U Nur dey shame for urself


Abi u want wey d man open up by himself tell u say mk us move

Ur mate for USA don get deir own family


Nobody should quote me
Where were you @ 26, someone is sliding into depression and all you could do is give him a leeway and push him down with no iota of sympathy.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by lereinter(m): 10:36pm On Sep 29, 2020
You have a over strict likened to a wicked fellow

Pray for God favour
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:36pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Lawsaite:

Someone old enough to have mothered a son above 16 years and you had the temerity to cancel her post.
You reek of indiscipline. And you claim to have been disciplined well enough by your father. angry angry
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 29, 2020
MrHandsome2013:
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Sorry.
Have you tried applying jobs online?
And if i may ask are you the only child?

No, actually I haven't, I have no clue about that, I'm not the only child..
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 10:37pm On Sep 29, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:

The first person article "I" is gender neutral, so it's not much of a big deal. And besides, watching football was a big give away.
in my area, girls watch football match also.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Greatfullheart: 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
Mehn similar thing with me oh. @24 i get spanked and beaten and i dont dare go out of the house not to even talk going to see a friend, my school are afraid to come and visit me at home cause my ex soldier father and my mother are strict they think all the people in my area are spoilt. I went to higher institution(auchi poly) in 2016 oh boy dem wan kill me wit carryover. Now am a dropout and my parent vowed neva 2 waist their money sendin me 2 school that i should go and learn work, am the last born of 8, 7 of my siblings who are graduate.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Xcrapeekoko(m): 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


You are Wrong!
You Have no right to tell a Man how to Discipline his son!

Caning is Discipline!
Punishment is Discipline!

When you get your child leave them to do as they want!

You will Reap it!


Mr. Man who is a child? Can we still call an 18 year old a child not to talk of a 26 year old. Please shut up, i am embarrassed with every comment you've made so far. to think you come here preaching repentamce on a daily basis but still got a sick twisted mentality is mind boggling. abeg drop ur bible carry dictionary check wetin be the meaning of child.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Angelfrost(m): 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

Your grandfather flogged his married sons??!... As in, your father was still taking ass whooping from his own father, as a husband and father himself??!....

Damn!!! So many dysfunctionally raised individuals on this platform!!!

Sigh... I just can't deal!!! I give up!!! undecided

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
butterfly55:
The only advice I will give to you is to go out there and become a man. Will you depend on them forever? At 26? Go out and hustle, get your own place, even if it's one room, start from there, do something with your life. Start small, make it and stand on your own feet. That way, no one will reduce you to nothing, not even your father. You brought this upon yourself by still living under his house at your age. If you live under him, you have to abide by his rules and take his shit! Sorry but that's the hard truth!

Thanks for the advice.. but it's not my fault I'm still staying with him up till now, life is hard for me

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by flokii: 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
@Op you do realize you are agemate with Laycon of BBNaija right?

My advise is that you get something doing, save up and get an apartment of your own. When the distance is there, they'd be the one begging you to visit them.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Angelfrost(m): 10:39pm On Sep 29, 2020
LikeAking:
SLAY THE OVER BEARING FADA.

48 Laws Of Power

I'm quite sure Mr. Greene never used those very or exact words!!! undecided

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:40pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
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I had to check your profile to be sure if this is the real Righteousness89 and honestly I was shocked by the way you replied this people....sir although I agree partially with your views I still feel you went too far in the way you conveyed your opinion ...the way you bantered words and even canceled the post of those that did not agree with yours seemed alien from what I will expect the Online preacher to do....sir you are an inspiration to many of us who gave up preaching on Nairailand due to oppositions and I believe you should strive to Maintain that image....I respect you alot sir...and I know you too are human and can get pissed off too...but please don't lead your emotions get the best of you...keep paying the sacrifice of patience as you reach out to souls on social media ....God bless you.

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