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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 10, 2020
virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.
Oh, What A Touching Story. So He Wanted Rape U In Ur Own House?

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by JIMMY1393: 5:06pm On Oct 10, 2020
virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.

I take it you guys were neighbors...since he was in YOUR house when HIS mum CAME HOME and was looking for him?

And people like this are those we call simp, act all nice and shit but secretly wants you...in this case he couldn't control his conji anymore ...did he make any signs of hitting on you or toasting you before the incident? I find it funny that he will just go crazy and pull out the rape card out of no where without any prior signs of being into you

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 5:07pm On Oct 10, 2020
Dis Is My Own Reason.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 6:01pm On Oct 10, 2020
Truvel:
Oh, What A Touching Story. So He Wanted Rape U In Ur Own House?
Like seriously in my own house, he wanted to strike when he notice i was the only one at home.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 6:08pm On Oct 10, 2020
JIMMY1393:


I take it you guys were neighbors...since he was in YOUR house when HIS mum CAME HOME and was looking for him?

And people like this are those we call simp, act all nice and shit but secretly wants you...in this case he couldn't control his conji anymore ...did he make any signs of hitting on you or toasting you before the incident? I find it funny that he will just go crazy and pull out the rape card out of no where without any prior signs of being into you
Yes you are right we were neighbours, he has never ask me pratical but he always ask me if i had a boyfriend, also if i liked him bla bla bla, but i never had a negative thought about him because i trusted him.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by annayawchee: 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2020
He defiled my 3 years old niece and he is still cooling off in cell as I type....

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by EdmundChidera(m): 8:33pm On Oct 10, 2020
annayawchee:
He defiled my 3 years old niece and he is still cooling off in cell as I type....
are you for real shocked

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Novemberaura(m): 9:01pm On Oct 10, 2020
which should I write
I have plenty
let me decide which to share first
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by annayawchee: 9:32pm On Oct 10, 2020
EdmundChidera:
are you for real shocked
Yes

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by GeneralKoko(m): 9:48pm On Oct 10, 2020
EdmundChidera:
It is once said that the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.


Friends is good no doubt, having a lot of friends makes someone gets connected in the society. There are many advantage coming from having many friends, meanwhile some people still want to keep the circle of their friends small to avoid unnecessary drama.


I once seek an advice from my friend on how to leave Nigeria for a better livelihood outside the country. He gave a lot of reason why I shouldn't leave the country which I somehow was convincing. To my greatest surprise, I saw my guy on Facebook taking pictures with white folks like Osuofia in London grin. He left for Canada after telling me story for the gods on how Nigeria will be heaven later.
I later travelled sha.


Another experience, when I went to pageantry with my friends, though I never planned to partake, my schoolmate told me to replace him looking how fresh I was then sha, but I needed to look more dope. I had to borrow my guys necklaces and wrist watch immediately. While awaiting for result, these guys decided to take away those stuff in the public, just to shame me. I later won sha, And decided not to borrow again.

In my hood then when i had a fine babe and she was so proud of me posting me everywhere as the main guy. I know some guys in pain about her actions but will never believe that my real paddy wants the babe too. The guy toast the babe she refused, the nonsense guy came to me to call the girl names. With this experience I avoided public relationship.

Many experience though, is it when you ask your classmate how you preparing for exam, he will tell you, I'm yet to open my book. Or is it those that say love na scam, getting married. Or those saying school na scam, furthering their education. And so on
Share your experience wink

Lalasticlala FP
I and this my guy were very cool in secondary school we had each other's back but I leaned on him the most because I had low self esteem. We graduated from secondary and my esteem began to grow almost daily . I am no longer the person I used to be I now see my self as a better person . During this lockdown I started making friends, freeing myself from worries and generally trying to be happy . My esteem grew drastically. But just as exam started drawing near and I started reading with this my friend and one other guy . This my particular friend has been trying to put me down . He'll praise himself but put us down . He's always trying to discredit me , talk down on me or talk about my receeding hairline or something. Because of all these things I stopped sharing my sexcapades with him ,I stopped telling him my motives or plans . I either show result or ..... . I've started keeping small small distance because I've noticed all the negative things he's saying are affecting my confidence.


Even before the lockdown it affected badly because we were always hanging out .

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by SavageBoy: 9:49pm On Oct 10, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now


What will we call this one bayi

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Angelacruz: 9:53pm On Oct 10, 2020
I dont keep close frds
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by GeneralKoko(m): 9:57pm On Oct 10, 2020
I even have more to share . My 3 yrs friendship with one girl ended just when corona started . I was tired of being tired of being tired . Infact the friendship was on life support.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by EdmundChidera(m): 3:53am On Oct 11, 2020
GeneralKoko:
I even have more to share . My 3 yrs friendship with one girl ended just when corona started . I was tired of being tired of being tired . Infact the friendship was on life support.
Is it friendship or relationship grin

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:01am On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Like seriously in my own house, he wanted to strike when he notice i was the only one at home.
U Should Av Reported Him.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Kccheechy(m): 7:04am On Oct 11, 2020
Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by ifyy07(m): 7:25am On Oct 11, 2020
I don't have friends I just flow with anybody knowing fully well they can betray me at any given opportunity..... Women no dey allow me get one, my friends are always jealous of me because I have women flocking around me even when i don't have money. I laugh with everybody but I don't trust any...

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Sonnobax15(m): 7:31am On Oct 11, 2020
undecided. The one that really broke my heart and still breaks my heart till today was when a very close friend of mine(my roommate for that matter) back then in my OND days deceived me that he hadn't for once sorted any course......But to my greatest surprise,na when I see my guy dey flash him distinction nai my eyes open via say na pass nai Dem use stone me.......las Las Cha,one of my other guy (not too close tho) nai Cor clear me all the matter say all of Dem bloke from that day,my circle became very small.....I felt so pissed off
Up till now,I'm yet to solve my trust issue...

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by nuelsam: 7:36am On Oct 11, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now
u thank God u can tie weed now ? omo

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Misterdhee1(m): 7:51am On Oct 11, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now
Your situation is in comatose grin grin grin

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Daum: 8:00am On Oct 11, 2020
Nothing really surprises me. I have had friends dissapoint me but do I care. This life I just believe that there are far greater opportunities out there. But one thing I don't know how to do is abandon people that I started life with. I always reach out to them no matter what.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:05am On Oct 11, 2020
francisgodstime:
how do I get dat book 48 laws of power

Go to pdfdrive.....bro and download the PDF format.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nezzjnr: 8:34am On Oct 11, 2020
MhisTahrah:
I don't ever trust anyone to the extent that I'm surprised when they misbehave.
Tahrah
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Madmazel(m): 8:43am On Oct 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything.
good for that your friend. I love the ending of this story

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Mrscarter(f): 9:07am On Oct 11, 2020
EdmundChidera:
It is once said that the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.


Friends is good no doubt, having a lot of friends makes someone gets connected in the society. There are many advantage coming from having many friends, meanwhile some people still want to keep the circle of their friends small to avoid unnecessary drama.


I once seek an advice from my friend on how to leave Nigeria for a better livelihood outside the country. He gave a lot of reason why I shouldn't leave the country which I somehow was convincing. To my greatest surprise, I saw my guy on Facebook taking pictures with white folks like Osuofia in London grin. He left for Canada after telling me story for the gods on how Nigeria will be heaven later.
I later travelled sha.


Another experience, when I went to pageantry with my friends, though I never planned to partake, my schoolmate told me to replace him looking how fresh I was then sha, but I needed to look more dope. I had to borrow my guys necklaces and wrist watch immediately. While awaiting for result, these guys decided to take away those stuff in the public, just to shame me. I later won sha, And decided not to borrow again.

In my hood then when i had a fine babe and she was so proud of me posting me everywhere as the main guy. I know some guys in pain about her actions but will never believe that my real paddy wants the babe too. The guy toast the babe she refused, the nonsense guy came to me to call the girl names. With this experience I avoided public relationship.

Many experience though, is it when you ask your classmate how you preparing for exam, he will tell you, I'm yet to open my book. Or is it those that say love na scam, getting married. Or those saying school na scam, furthering their education. And so on
Share your experience wink

Lalasticlala FP

grin

U we're proud to be her "main" guy undecided
I couldn't be proud unless I'm the "only" guy(gal)

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by EdmundChidera(m): 9:13am On Oct 11, 2020
Mrscarter:


grin

U we're proud to be her "main" guy undecided
I couldn't be proud unless I'm the "only" guy(gal)
grin

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 9:53am On Oct 11, 2020
Biglittlelois:
The day she punished her apprentice right in front of me for braiding my hair, our friendship ended that day.
You too, pay whenever you make ur hair, because she's Ur friend doesn't mean u shouldn't pay, nah Una type dey spoil person business

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 9:55am On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.
Are Ur brothers rapist too

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by czarr(m): 10:04am On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.
Learn this today, a man and woman CANNOT be friends.....goat and yam cannot be friends.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 10:06am On Oct 11, 2020
Since the day my best friend slept with my girlfriend, that was the last time I had a friend, unless business partners, I don't trust anyone at all, some people think I take my self too high, because I have money blah blah blah that's why am always feeling myself

but the truth is that I can nv keep a friend, even those that wants to make friends with me, I shove them aside

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by GeneralKoko(m): 10:12am On Oct 11, 2020
EdmundChidera:
Is it friendship or relationship grin

Friendship bro
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 11:53am On Oct 11, 2020
Nezzjnr:

Tah.rah
Yes sir?

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