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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Chrisjay1998(m): 7:47pm On Oct 11, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now


Even tho I don't support Cyber Fraud but This dudes comments always makes me Laugh
the way he's usually Honest and upright about what he does for a living tho
The damn Nigga guy..

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by SlayerForever: 7:47pm On Oct 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything.



Very bleeped up nigga. The guy is envious of you, if you check.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by OrluFemmeKing(f): 7:47pm On Oct 11, 2020
EdmundChidera:
It is once said that the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.

Friends is good no doubt, having a lot of friends makes someone gets connected in the society. There are many advantage coming from having many friends, meanwhile some people still want to keep the circle of their friends small to avoid unnecessary drama.

I once seek an advice from my friend on how to leave Nigeria for a better livelihood outside the country. He gave a lot of reason why I shouldn't leave the country which I somehow was convincing. To my greatest surprise, I saw my guy on Facebook taking pictures with white folks like Osuofia in London grin. He left for Canada after telling me story for the gods on how Nigeria will be heaven later.
I later travelled sha.

Another experience, when I went to pageantry with my friends, though I never planned to partake, my schoolmate told me to replace him looking how fresh I was then sha, but I needed to look more dope. I had to borrow my guys necklaces and wrist watch immediately. While awaiting for result, these guys decided to take away those stuff in the public, just to shame me. I later won sha, And decided not to borrow again.

In my hood then when i had a fine babe and she was so proud of me posting me everywhere as the main guy. I know some guys in pain about her actions but will never believe that my real paddy wants the babe too. The guy toast the babe she refused, the nonsense guy came to me to call the girl names. With this experience I avoided public relationship.

Many experience though, is it when you ask your classmate how you preparing for exam, he will tell you, I'm yet to open my book. Or is it those that say love na scam, getting married. Or those saying school na scam, furthering their education. And so on

Share your experience wink

Op pls how can i contact you?
i need important advice.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 7:48pm On Oct 11, 2020
HakimZiyech:
Your lie dey smell....


chia!
You think everybody is a lair like you, what would i gain by making up such stories, cheap likes,abi he pass like that, sorry i am not after your likes.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Goalnaldo(m): 7:48pm On Oct 11, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now
I know you're not alright but I'll like to meet you one day cheesy

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.


U can be close friend with make bestie, you say no!
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by emerged01(m): 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2020
I have always try to get a friend that I can look up to but it is hard to find. I only have a close colleague that we run things together at work but it ends at work. I don’t trust him.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Joshmanuel10(m): 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2020
I don't trust myself so... sad

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
No we were like neigbours, after our building the next building belongs to them, so when his mum called him he heard from our house.

okay, i now understand.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Ngozioma(m): 7:52pm On Oct 11, 2020
cool cool cool I Belong To Everybody, And I Belong To Nobody sad




Ndi Obodo Anyi Amaka
wink

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by blesoh(f): 7:52pm On Oct 11, 2020
I just lost one two months ago, I was sick and couldn't attend her wedding in the village, I explained to her and transfered money to her, after the wedding she started throwing shades at me, even uploading her supposed best friends on her status.
I called severally she didn't pick or return my calls
Long story short, I don't have any friend

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
You think everybody is a lair like you, what would i gain by making up such stories, cheap likes,abi he pass like that, sorry i am not after your likes.
hmmm. I find it hard to believe your "story"..but, no p. We move.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by saintsrow(m): 7:53pm On Oct 11, 2020
francisgodstime:
how do I get dat book 48 laws of power
check signature for the audible audio edition
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 7:54pm On Oct 11, 2020
CsRockefeller:


I wont be wrong to assume that ur so called Virginity is ur most prized asset and its not even because u are religious (I can prove that point but nvm)
Hmmm really, of course i value my virginity, even God value virginity, that was why our lord jesus christ passed through a virgin, besides how do you know am a religious person?

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 7:55pm On Oct 11, 2020
Incognitress:
I had these "friends' in sec school(4) I wanted to believe we were real close. I've forgotten what really happened but 3 outta 4 stopped talking to me, and I am this real quiet type, didn't know how to make friends. Anyway, I was left with 1, so I confided in her( something about one of my friends, coz I couldn't tell my parents, I didn't know whether or not they'd believe me)
Immediately I told her, I was restless, I knew I had made a mistake. Next day in school I pleaded with her not to tell them, like I was close to crying, e no reach 30 mins she don go tell them.
Long story short, they made my life miserable, it wasn't funny at all.
Haven't had friends since then.

try not to be telling people secrets.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by moneyissweet(m): 7:55pm On Oct 11, 2020
And wen the boy blow now you will accused him of rape.i know una well


virginprincess:
Yes you are right we were neighbours, he has never ask me pratical but he always ask me if i had a boyfriend, also if i liked him bla bla bla, but i never had a negative thought about him because i trusted him.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 7:57pm On Oct 11, 2020
donMIG:
I have just 3 friends who turned brothers... Notin has or can come btw us!

So last last I no even know how u go ansa ur questions

But last last SNITCHES get STITCHES!

nothing can come between you guys? i am sure you have heard of the gender called women. grin

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Monaco2(m): 7:58pm On Oct 11, 2020
My own Dey come
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 7:58pm On Oct 11, 2020
Fussion1000:



U can be close friend with make bestie, you say no!
I stop having close friends and bestie the very day i had this shocking experience.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by yomi007k(m): 8:00pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Hmmm really, of course i value my virginity, even God value virginity, that was why our lord jesus christ passed through a virgin, besides how do you know am a religious person?

Scientifically, there is no such thing as a virgin.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2020
Birdeyeview:
She had sex with my younger brother
how's that a betrayal ? abi will you marry your brother ? Unless he's a minor I don't see any problem there
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2020
moneyissweet:
And wen the boy blow now you will accused him of rape.i know una well


He didn't suceed, so why should i accuse him.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2020
The last close friend that broke my heart this year made me put full stop to anything called close friendship.

We became close friend last years November, we shared so many secret, though he shared his secret more for me, thank God I have not shared my deepest mind for him, he claimed to be a prophet & babalawo and I adored him a lot to the extent that whatever he asked me not to do, I called it off immediately

the lady I bleeped and dumped, the guy leak every lies I told the girl before I Bleep and after I bleeped her, the guy revealed everything for her, he even told the girl where my wife works and my house.

Everything the guy knew about me for that short Period we became close friend, my friend revealed them,

If this guy knew my enemies he would tell them how to catch me.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Birdeyeview: 8:03pm On Oct 11, 2020
fabiano09:

how's that a betrayal ? abi will you marry your brother ? Unless he's a minor I don't see any problem there
No he wasn't a minor and besides she was 4 years older
She took advantage of he's nativity
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:03pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
Why do you want to know.
A rapist should be reported no matter what,he might do it to someone else.If he had succeeded wud u still be keeping mute because of his friendship with ur bro.There wud be no next time but learn from this.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:04pm On Oct 11, 2020
Birdeyeview:

No he wasn't a minor and besides she was 4 years older
She took advantage of he's nativity
hmmm I dunno ,I think you have this big sister complex,come on forgive your friend ,what if that experience was the best he ever had ?

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 8:05pm On Oct 11, 2020
yomi007k:


Scientifically, there is no such thing as a virgin.
I don't follow science, i follow the bible, if there is no such thing as virginity, then why do women have hymen.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:06pm On Oct 11, 2020
virginprincess:
I stop having close friends and bestie the very day i had this shocking experience.
.



Friends! With my little experience on earth, friends are more of problems than good, the more you have friends, the more problems , when there is money friends will show face, but during time of adversaries, the same friends will be the one to backbite you first.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Birdeyeview: 8:07pm On Oct 11, 2020
fabiano09:

hmmm I dunno ,I think you have this big sister complex,come on forgive your friend ,what if that experience was the best he ever had ?
It's a sisters duty
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:08pm On Oct 11, 2020
emerged01:
I have always try to get a friend that I can look up to but it is hard to find. I only have a close colleague that we run things together at work but it ends at work. I don’t trust him.
why do you need to look up to someone ? you're all you got man,only trust in Jah

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by donMIG(m): 8:09pm On Oct 11, 2020
angelfallz:


nothing can come between you guys? i am sure you have heard of the gender called women. grin


Even they too failed... We schooled in the same uni together!

We no dei allow those ppl come btw us coz we know say las las na just body them get to offer... But real Gz got ur 6 always!

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by tot(f): 8:10pm On Oct 11, 2020
GeneralKoko:

I and this my guy were very cool in secondary school we had each other's back but I leaned on him the most because I had low self esteem. We graduated from secondary and my esteem began to grow almost daily . I am no longer the person I used to be I now see my self as a better person . During this lockdown I started making friends, freeing myself from worries and generally trying to be happy . My esteem grew drastically. But just as exam started drawing near and I started reading with this my friend and one other guy . This my particular friend has been trying to put me down . He'll praise himself but put us down . He's always trying to discredit me , talk down on me or talk about my receeding hairline or something. Because of all these things I stopped sharing my sexcapades with him ,I stopped telling him my motives or plans . I either show result or ..... . I've started keeping small small distance because I've noticed all the negative things he's saying are affecting my confidence.


Even before the lockdown it affected badly because we were always hanging out .

You are very self aware and that's half of the battle already won. But please increase that distance from small small to very wide if you can't cut him off completely. You have a bright future ahead of you, don't let one star killer pull you down.

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