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Still he is not willing to marry her, I agree, nobody should force him to marry, it is his life and his decision yet he needs to learn the lesson and to use a protection, not to make babies for abortion or babies with no father around.

What about her? He thinks she got pregnant to force him to marriage? What about she decided to have the 3rd baby because she could be sterile after already 2 consecutive abortions? Lucky her she got pregnant and will have her baby, abortions on a young woman who never had a child can make her no children ever. Now she will have her child and also be sure when the real man comes, she can give him children. In her case, I would kick him out of my life for thinking bad about the woman who really loves him and did so much for him. I would advise this girl, to end any relationship with him and never look back, she deserves a better man.

About Nairalanders, I am reading your opinions and I am so proud of you all, I had the opportunity to see how well you are thinking and how Nigerians have heart trying to do it right. God bless you all!

Emmy417:
Without wasting much of the time, let me just go straight to my point.
Ve been dating this girl for 2yrs now. & honestly speaking, she's just the best among all the girls i ve dated. She's hardworking, she cooks well. Good @ house chores. Before I got my washing machine late last year. Each time she comes around from Portharcourt, she washes all my cloths and do every needful things. Was with her in Portharcourt, but left there 2017 cos I got a better job in Lagos. She still comes to visit me each time she gets little opportunity from where she's managing. Her work.
When I was in Portharcourt with her 2017. She took In twice same year 2017, we got rid of the pregnancy. Last month been December she came around in Lagos to visit me, & it happened that we did it, & now she's pregnant. Even her elder sister called me this evening. We were discussing. They are insisting I should come see there parents be4 the pregnancy becomes obvious.
Frankly speaking, my problem is am not ready to settle down now. I feel am been forced to go do knocking of door and introduction. I told her she can give bath, I will support her financially. Till when am ready, I will come do the necessary things. Buh she & her sister are refusing. My job isn't even secure, it's contract. The little money I ve saved, 2million plus, planning on using that money to relocate to Abuja & start up something there. I can even move her with me. once am done with this job late this year. I ve not even build a house. Not even in the village nor town here. The house we live in, in the village is my uncle's own. I can't marry a wife & still live there.

Plsss fellow Nairalanders, am so so confused & depressed same time. That i ve been battling with for a long time. Depression. She's also aware.
And this, I want to keep away from my family. Don't want them to know that a girl is pregnant for me.
Please help me out, what do I really do now. I no longer concentrate at work. Am lost.

I hoped everything turned out well for you at last?

Thank God you have two 2 million

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You'll gain 136k plus bonus , that's a total of 636k in an hour

Then you play another 500k for PSG over 2.5 it's 1.45.
You'll will 145k

You'll gain a total of 181k in an hour

Mention me tomorrow then I go still give u free 30 sure odds

U go see money marry and build house tomorrow if only you get the mind o
I no force u

Dreyton36:
Thank God you have two 2 million
Use 500k to play PSG straight win today that's 1.36 You'll gain 136k plus bonus , that's a total of 636k in an hour
Then you play another 500k for PSG over 2.5 it's 1.45. You'll will 145k
You'll gain a total of 181k in an hour
Mention me tomorrow then I go still give u free 30 sure odds
U go see money marry and build house tomorrow if only you get the mind o I no force u

omo you get sure odds?

krownie:
omo you get sure odds?

E be like so

Dreyton36:
E be like so

e nor go too bad if we get alignment

krownie:
e nor go too bad if we get alignment

You got some too?

SilentVboy:
You are not ready for marriage now. You have not built your house yet. Your job is not even secure yet.

Just take a min and hear yourself ponder over those questions....

DID U SIT DOWN AND ASK YOURSELF THOSE SET OF QUEST B4 YOU HAD SEX WITH HER?

Bro, you have terminated the pregnancy TWICE oo. So u want this one terminated too? KARMA IS A BITCH OOO.

TOMORRO, YOU WILL BE THE ONE SAYING THIS GIRL CAME TO STAB ME BECAUSE I MARRIED ANOTHER GIRL THAT COULD GIVE BIRTH.

Must u build house before u go and see her parents? Nonsense....

You're an idiot does this look like an advice

Dreyton36:
You got some too?

I nor dey play bet o but I dey reason am

slimkhalifa:
You're an idiot does this look like an advice

You are an imported fool. Don't you have an eye to read? You should call the op and hand him your sister.

krownie:
I nor dey play bet o but I dey reason am

Then I suggest you play small odd and stake higher , I have sure 10 odds though pm me if you're interested

Yes oh.. My boy is one year & 3 months now. He's in school now . Creche ofcos. The mom works, & I work too. We had no choice than to put him in school. I thank God how everything turned out well. Such a cute boy!!
& I & her family are so close now. But am yet to do the needful though. Marriage rite. But I will. Definitely!!

krownie:
I hoped everything turned out well for you at last?

Hahaha, I don't play bet9ja oh. Not my thing.. I do more of forex trading. Don't know if you would call it gambling too... . but thanks tho

Dreyton36:
Thank God you have two 2 million

Use 500k to play PSG straight win today that's 1.36
You'll gain 136k plus bonus , that's a total of 636k in an hour

Then you play another 500k for PSG over 2.5 it's 1.45.
You'll will 145k

You'll gain a total of 181k in an hour

Mention me tomorrow then I go still give u free 30 sure odds

U go see money marry and build house tomorrow if only you get the mind o
I no force u

Emmy417:
Yes oh.. My boy is one year & 3 months now. He's in school now . Creche ofcos. The mom works, & I work too. We had no choice than to put him in school. I thank God how everything turned out well. Such a cute boy!!
& I & her family are so close now. But am yet to do the needful though. Marriage rite. But I will. Definitely!!

Nice one

Emmy417:
Without wasting much of the time, let me just go straight to my point.
Ve been dating this girl for 2yrs now. & honestly speaking, she's just the best among all the girls i ve dated. She's hardworking, she cooks well. Good @ house chores. Before I got my washing machine late last year. Each time she comes around from Portharcourt, she washes all my cloths and do every needful things. Was with her in Portharcourt, but left there 2017 cos I got a better job in Lagos. She still comes to visit me each time she gets little opportunity from where she's managing. Her work.
When I was in Portharcourt with her 2017. She took In twice same year 2017, we got rid of the pregnancy. Last month been December she came around in Lagos to visit me, & it happened that we did it, & now she's pregnant. Even her elder sister called me this evening. We were discussing. They are insisting I should come see there parents be4 the pregnancy becomes obvious.
Frankly speaking, my problem is am not ready to settle down now. I feel am been forced to go do knocking of door and introduction. I told her she can give bath, I will support her financially. Till when am ready, I will come do the necessary things. Buh she & her sister are refusing. My job isn't even secure, it's contract. The little money I ve saved, 2million plus, planning on using that money to relocate to Abuja & start up something there. I can even move her with me. once am done with this job late this year. I ve not even build a house. Not even in the village nor town here. The house we live in, in the village is my uncle's own. I can't marry a wife & still live there.

Plsss fellow Nairalanders, am so so confused & depressed same time. That i ve been battling with for a long time. Depression. She's also aware.
And this, I want to keep away from my family. Don't want them to know that a girl is pregnant for me.
Please help me out, what do I really do now. I no longer concentrate at work. Am lost.

almost 2years now.
what has happened bro.
how is your baby and hope you guys are married.
And most importantly, i hope things are better financially

Everything turned out good bro. She delivered safely... Baby boy. He's a year & 3 months now. We are not legally married tho. Had plans doing that this year. But I was hit badly this year due to covid. Lost huge amount of money in a wrong investment I did.
We are doing fine though, I believe with time, everything will bounce back. Still very much optimistic.
Thanks for checking on us! We do really appreciate

femmyapson:
almost 2years now.
what has happened bro.
how is your baby and hope you guys are married.
And most importantly, i hope things are better financially