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TOPCRUISE:
Most of them have their child/children through unquestionable circumstances that they themselves are not proud of. It could be the father is not responsible, denied the pregnancy or was already married. Some are not sure who the father their child is and can't account for him.
It could be such a child is a huge responsibility that have denied them of their dreams and ambitions like education. It is well with all single Mothers. Its not easy

DenreleDave:

Learn to ignore sumtyms. U r taking this bullying personal..

Zzor:
not at all,but his obsession is something to worry about,he pleaded to be friends with me severally but I ignored him and he became too obsessed.Na only person wen hit head for ground will have his type close.

DenreleDave:
Learn to ignore..

DenreleDave:
U av a kid with no mother too? Single father?

Truvel:
I Don't.

MrCork:


Bro its because, a few guys want to fok u on nairaland even thou they found out u r male...EmmettAtkins definitely want to fok u sir. I dont tink he cares u r male ..juss to let u no sir (he ain't gay thou)

Zzor:
why?

Zzor:
most single mothers are as a result of dealing and involving themselves with irresponsible men who ran away from their responsibilities,some as a result of involving themselves with men who tricked them into marriage and ran away after having kids from these women(some men are just after having kids these days but not marriage).Single mothers are very strong women playing both roles in the absence of the sperm donor.God bless all the single mothers out there,your efforts shall not be in vein.

Zzor:
not at all,but his obsession is something to worry about,he pleaded to be friends with me severally but I ignored him and he became too obsessed.Na only person wen hit head for ground will have his type close.

Womanizer:
So it has been confirmed that Zzor actually has a dick!

DenreleDave:
Have u ever encountered a lady and she never told you that she has a child?

How did you find out that she has a child?

Is men rejection the reason they lie about their child?

If they are not proud of such kid, why not abort them at early stage of pregnancy?

My encounter:
I met with a very pretty lady at the bus stop. Actually I don't really know how to approach a lady on motion either on street or bus stop. (To the guys dt can toast ladies anywhere anytime, I respect you ooo ). The tfare was high during the time they allowed movement In corona time. So her tfare wasn't complete and she approached me for help. I gave her wat on me but it wasn't enough. So I helped her search for a bus dt will collect less n thankfully we found one. I collected her number n we waved goodbye. Later during the week, she came over to my place, we talked and she left.. The following week she came again and as we were on bed (don't think far oo, just on bed, she was using my phone) and I saw sumtin like a stitched mark line on the lower part of her stomach..

Mind you, whenever I call her, I always hear the sound of a baby boy beside her almost all time. So if I ask her, she will say it's her baby sister... But whenever we are talking, she keep telling me she can't trust men jare. What they did to her sis and so on.. Now her sister has a baby and so on Sha.

Personally I don't even have any issue with single mothers Cox I love kids so Much , so if u tell me u av a kid and u r a single mother, I know some guys hate such thing here but for me, I don't have any problem with it at all. . So there was a day I was seeing her off and she stopped by a place to buy children cloth (boy own to be precise). She was even asking if it will fit a 2 or 3 years old boy Sha...

Then i knew she had a kid. The line under her Tommy was probably an operation.. She probably gave birth through surgery BUT why is she lying to me. It has happened already, no going back. If you are not proud of your own child, then you should be avoided..

Yes. If there is a single lady that is not proud of her kid, such lady is not marriageable. If she can deny her kid, then she has no problem denying u at any point in time.. The man that will marry you will surely marry you. Be clear to him from the start, if he wants to stay, he will stay...

DenreleDave ™

Emmyreal4:
u no see my mention bro

DenreleDave:
I saw it... Noted it.. Will do it this morning

Emmyreal4:
bro I dey wait ooh

DenreleDave:
Same.. In some minutes

Zzor:
most single mothers are as a result of dealing and involving themselves with irresponsible men who ran away from their responsibilities,some as a result of involving themselves with men who tricked them into marriage and ran away after having kids from these women(some men are just after having kids these days but not marriage).Single mothers are very strong women playing both roles in the absence of the sperm donor.God bless all the single mothers out there,your efforts shall not be in vein.

DenreleDave:
Have u ever encountered a lady and she never told you that she has a child?

How did you find out that she has a child?

Is men rejection the reason they lie about their child?

If they are not proud of such kid, why not abort them at early stage of pregnancy?

My encounter:
I met with a very pretty lady at the bus stop. Actually I don't really know how to approach a lady on motion either on street or bus stop. (To the guys dt can toast ladies anywhere anytime, I respect you ooo ). The tfare was high during the time they allowed movement In corona time. So her tfare wasn't complete and she approached me for help. I gave her wat on me but it wasn't enough. So I helped her search for a bus dt will collect less n thankfully we found one. I collected her number n we waved goodbye. Later during the week, she came over to my place, we talked and she left.. The following week she came again and as we were on bed (don't think far oo, just on bed, she was using my phone) and I saw sumtin like a stitched mark line on the lower part of her stomach..

Mind you, whenever I call her, I always hear the sound of a baby boy beside her almost all time. So if I ask her, she will say it's her baby sister... But whenever we are talking, she keep telling me she can't trust men jare. What they did to her sis and so on.. Now her sister has a baby and so on Sha.

Personally I don't even have any issue with single mothers Cox I love kids so Much , so if u tell me u av a kid and u r a singles mother, I know some guys hate such thing here but for me, I don't have any problem with it at all. . So there was a day I was seeing her off and she stopped by a place to buy children cloth (boy own to be precise). She was even asking if it will fit a 2 or 3 years old boy Sha...

Then i knew she had a kid. The line under her Tommy was probably an operation.. She probably gave birth through surgery BUT why is she lying to me. It has happened already, no going back. If you are not proud of your own child, then you should be avoided..

Yes. If there is a single lady that is not proud of her kid, such lady is not marriageable. If she can deny her kid, then she has no problem denying u at any point in time.. The man that will marry you will surely marry you. Be clear to him from the start, if he wants to stay, he will stay...

DenreleDave ™

yomi007k:
Why didn't you just ask her, Detective?

Adeboyefa:
The scars may have come from fibroid surgery, appendix surgery, etc. Ask her first and visit her sister and "nephew" as well.

1StopRudeness:
Society isn’t doing anything to single mothers..
Why are u women always quick to call opinions of few people general society condemnation..??

The truth is u women like to play the victim card.
It’s the same card you play with ur non-virgin status, abortion and body count etc....


Why would a woman lie about not having a beautiful child just becos someone has his choice..

...the truth is they they are just desperate to marry single guys and they commit the fallacy of thinking their child is the reason why men Won’t propose...
guess what?? That’s the usual parole on the streets...ask single girls too... they are not finding marriage easy either...
.is it not on the same nairaland we talk about high body counts before marriage?? boys are generally not marrying early....and the sexual immorality everywhere don’t make guys think of having their own wife early...

MrCork:


Bro its because, a few guys want to fok u on nairaland even thou they found out u r male...EmmettAtkins definitely want to fok u sir. I dont tink he cares u r male ..juss to let u no sir (he ain't gay thou)

healthbing:
Well it's because of the stigmatization..You know we Nigerians nah..
And the shame and fear of losing d man they love...
You know people look at every woman who has a child outside marriage as loose..
They don't care to know the full story..
So for the sake of sanity of the woman they keep it as a secret.
No mother hates her own child..they only hate what they represent..
It's only celebrity babymama that are always proud of being a single mother..
Society only blames d woman not the man..
So I don't blame her sha..
She probably loves you and don't want u to see her as a loose woman..
Dat doesn't mean she hates her child

ZIINI:
The process of child bearing is 9 months some are even more than.
So during the process of this 9 months you ought to sit down, think and ask yourself.if you truly want the child or not.am not blaming anyone of them for being a single mother.
But 9 fuçking months is enough to figure out what you truly want to do with the pregnancy either to terminate it or to leave it
Denreledave do you dig my point✔

QuinieR:
Well my view
90% of guys dnt want a single mother reason most single mothers dnt talk abt their kids in the first place .
I have a close Frnd who is a single mom right from university,she was always dump by guys immediately they heard she has a daughter so for the sake of sanity she always keep it as a secret.
To me I think a single mother should build a relationship first then latr review it to their partner by then the love will have been stronger

Nobody shld stone me oo,it’s jst my view

chinchonglee:
Z

chinchonglee:
Dnt ever marry a single mother!