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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by gfon(m): 10:00pm On Oct 17, 2020

Stacyomolola:

In this case how are u so sure it isn't about sex
Talking about attraction
The guy wouldn't start the relationship if he wasn't attracted to her
Men are mostly magneted by what they see

It's was lust not love for him

Nobody should tell me it isn't all about sex
Tho in some cases but for this case, we aren't yet sure.
Were u there
Was u the guy
Was the guy u

lol...you weren't there too,so don't conclude on the sex part. Remember it all started online. Just maybe after meeting physically he didn't like what he saw,could be her stature,vibes,ability to hold a conversation...there's a lotta factors excluding sex. Don't judge all we guys the same,some of us got what we look out for asides sex.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 10:04pm On Oct 17, 2020

gfon:
lol...you weren't there too,so don't conclude on the sex part. Remember it all started online. Just maybe after meeting physically he didn't like what he saw,could be her stature,vibes,ability to hold a conversation...there's a lotta factors excluding sex. Don't judge all we guys the same,some of us got what we look out for asides sex.

Lies
Lies
Lies
Blatant liessss

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:05pm On Oct 17, 2020

MMXX:
You wlc

@emboldened, it usually starts with same thought until the attraction builds stronger and gbam you can't help the way you feel n act anymore

I have seen and known life to the extent that, I take things at face value, never the heart.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by gfon(m): 10:07pm On Oct 17, 2020

Stacyomolola:

Lies
Lies
Lies
Blatant liessss

if you say so,i give up.let the elders wade into the matter. Maybe am a novice in the love kingdom...

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:08pm On Oct 17, 2020

lefulefu:
he sounds like eat ur share and waka type of guy
u know a guy who wants a casual relationship
nothing too serious
just for sex and fun
probably the guy has eaten his share and wants to move on
Its not a crime to want a casual relationship but u should let a girl knows its a casual one u want instead of trying to decieve her cos u want to chop her kpomo at all cost

He didn't eat his share lefu.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 17, 2020

gfon:
l. Don't judge all we guys the same,some of us got what we look out for asides sex.

even me wey be guy..as soon as i read this particular comment na like this e get me grin

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:11pm On Oct 17, 2020

Ginaz:
I’m having a feeling that you’re the so called cousin though . Cos you’re crying more than the bereaved and has been posting the story on threads.

Girl abeg move on. Dem tie the boy to your intestines?

If I'm the girl, I won't be here, I'd still be crying my brains out instead of commenting, I needed different opinions and advices with the emotional state she was in this evening, and she is not my cousin, she is a friend.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by gfon(m): 10:12pm On Oct 17, 2020

lefulefu:
even me wey be guy..as soon as i read this particular comment na like this e get me

lol bossman i sight you,some of us are gentle tigers. If you know you know

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

He didn't eat his share lefu.

how sure are u? cheesy

anyway if its not that then bros probably didnt like what he saw when they met face to face
u said they met online and u sabi online dating nau
there some ppl they will use their pics they took probably 5-10 yrs ago and show it off as their current pics.the guy might like such pix but when he finally meets her and see how she looks currently he might get disapointed as per she might have added excess weight
or she is fond of photoshoping her pixs and he now sees her real self and he doesnt like what he sees
these are the danger of online dating
thats why face to face dating is more reliable and if u must do online dating try once in a while to do video call so u two can see each other..at leasst there is no video shopping for now cheesy

these could be the reasons why he might be acting cold all of a sudden cheesy

if u said they didnt have sex.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:15pm On Oct 17, 2020

gfon:
lol bossman i sight you,some of us are gentle tigers. If you know you know

never try to proof to a girl that u are a saint grin

if u do she will distrusts u more

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 10:15pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

If I'm the girl, I won't be here, I'd still be crying my brains out instead of commenting, I needed different opinions and advices with the emotional state she was in this evening, and she is not my cousin, she is a friend.

You are. If you’re not the one you won’t have the time and energy to spread the news on every thread .

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 17, 2020

Stacyomolola:

Lies
Lies
Lies
Blatant liessss

haba easy

Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by MMXX: 10:19pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

I have seen and known life to the extent that, I take things at face value, never the heart.

Not in a situation where the person isn't being decisive with their stance.Mix signals this days and one could read several meanings to it and left puzzled

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:19pm On Oct 17, 2020

lefulefu:
how sure are u?
anyway if its not that then bros probably didnt like what he saw when they met face to face
u said they met online and u sabi online dating nau
there some ppl they will use their pics they took probably 5-10 yrs ago and show it off as their current pics.the guy might like such pix but when he finally meets her and see how she looks currently he might get disapointed as per she might have added excess weight
or she is fond of photoshoping her pixs and he now sees her real self and he doesnt like what he sees
these are the danger of online dating
thats why face to face dating is more reliable and if u must do online dating try once in a while to do video call so u two can see each other..at leasst there is no video shopping for now
these could be the reasons why he might be acting cold all of a sudden if u said they didnt have sex.

But truly ehn if you see this lady, she is beautiful, curvy and intelligent, sometimes I forget that I'm female when I'm with her cheesy

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by gfon(m): 10:20pm On Oct 17, 2020

lefulefu:
never try to proof to a girl that u are a saint
if u do she will distrusts u more

professor of lovekology.noted sir

Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:20pm On Oct 17, 2020

MMXX:
Not in a situation where the person isn't being decisive with their stance.Mix signals this days and one could read several meanings to it and left puzzled

Lol okay.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:22pm On Oct 17, 2020

Ginaz:

You are. If you’re not the one you won’t have the time and energy to spread the news on every thread .

Okay ginaz, whatever makes you sleep tonight.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by PrincessJr(f): 10:31pm On Oct 17, 2020

Let her move on...sadly, he would reach out to her when she is over him completely

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 10:31pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

Okay ginaz, whatever makes you sleep tonight.

Give the guy some space and focus on yourself.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:33pm On Oct 17, 2020

Ginaz:

Give the guy some space and focus on yourself.

You will be fine dear.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:34pm On Oct 17, 2020

PrincessJr:
Let her move on...sadly, he would reach out to her when she is over him completely

Exactly what I told her, he will definitely come back begging.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

But truly ehn if you see this lady, she is beautiful, curvy and intelligent, sometimes I forget that I'm female when I'm with her

then its probably the guy loves fat shapeless and ugly girls then.u know some guys nau cheesy

..u know some guys nau..when they see an attractive girl they will say dat one is too much for them.But then if the girl is as u described her then whats she doing with internet dating nau.she could easily get a guy

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Oct 17, 2020

Op, Ur Friend Didn't Play Her Card Well Dat's Why It Ended Badly Dis Way. She Made D Relationship With Him Boring. One Thing Is To Enter A Relationship Another Thing Is To Maintain It. She Killed D Moral Of D Guy Who Seriously Had Interest In Her. D Guy Had To Lose His Interest, Perhap He Felt Her Love Or Feelings 4 Him Is Not Real.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Freelane33(m): 10:49pm On Oct 17, 2020

Reported SPEECH cool

Biglittlelois:

Well she said, after they met, it was going smoothly as usual, with him always insisting on her not leaving when she told him she'll let him be because of his attitude, and, she is beautiful, really curvy, intelligent and beautiful, her smart mind made us tight friends.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:51pm On Oct 17, 2020

lefulefu:
then its probably the guy loves fat shapeless and ugly girls then.u know some guys nau ..u know some guys nau..when they see an attractive girl they will say dat one is too much for them.But then if the girl is as u described her then whats she doing with internet dating nau.she could easily get a guy

Hmmm lefu, her life story na long one, when we say the rich also cry, we suppose nor forget say the beautiful ones dey cry too, this life no balance at all.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 10:51pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

You will be fine dear.

Lol. You’re the one who needs the advice .

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:53pm On Oct 17, 2020

Ginaz:

Lol. You’re the one who needs the advice .

Okay, thank you ma'am.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Freelane33(m): 10:56pm On Oct 17, 2020

REPORTED SPEECH cool

Biglittlelois:

Well according to her, they never had sex because he didn't want a sexual relationship, in fact he insisted on it.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by WrittyWritter(f): 10:57pm On Oct 17, 2020

Let her move on..it will be hard at first but she will..
Dis is one of d didavantages of online dating from ur story looks like d guy was disappointed wen he met her..she was not wat he expected

U big d girl abi d couzin

Just a curious question if she finds d boy number wat is she going to d

Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by WrittyWritter(f): 10:57pm On Oct 17, 2020

Just a curious question if she finds d boy number wat is she going to do

Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 10:58pm On Oct 17, 2020

Biglittlelois:

Hmmm lefu, her life story na long one, when we say the rich also cry, we suppose nor forget say the beautiful ones dey cry too, this life no balance at all.

no it aint suppose to be so cheesy

.also remember that its rare for a serious guy to be looking for a girl online.most guys u see online who say they want an online date mosty want to chop d babe knowing that a girl who is online would mostly be desperate.A guy who is looking for a serious date would prefer going out and meeting ladies.anyway she should forget about the guy

Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by KidDarkness(m): 11:01pm On Oct 17, 2020

Ginaz:

Lol. You’re the one who needs the advice .

Aunty, free this issue na

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