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No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 8:34pm On Oct 17, 2020
I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?


P.s. They never had sex because he didn't want a sexual relationship, in fact he instisted on it.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 8:43pm On Oct 17, 2020
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,reason I hate anything online dating or connection whatever.She should just end things and never look back,thats what the guy wants but scared to tell her in order not to hurt her feelings

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Kimcutie: 8:43pm On Oct 17, 2020
Source?
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Prognose: 8:48pm On Oct 17, 2020
Biglittlelois:
I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?

All this long story.

The man wanted the p"""**

And he got it.

So now he has lost interest.

End of story.

Mend your broken heart and move on.

Next time don't give your p**** out like that. That's all men think about.no matter how romantic they sound.

Look for someone that will love u without asking for p#***

Those are the real husband materials.

But una go hear?

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by MMXX: 8:52pm On Oct 17, 2020
I think your friend abi it's you cheesy anyways

I think she ooze of desperation and the guy has sensed it..He probably wants to take his time,take it slowly but your desperate friend is nagging him with attention.. I think she has taken the right step.if he doesn't reach out to her


She should move on

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 8:52pm On Oct 17, 2020
Prognose:


All this long story.

The man wanted the p"""**

And he got it.

So now he has lost interest.

End of story.

Mend your broken heart and move on.

Next time don't give your p**** out like that. That's all men think about.no matter how romantic they sound.

Look for someone that will love u without asking for p#***

Those are the real husband materials.

But una go hear?


Well according to her, they never had sex because he didn't want a sexual relationship, in fact he insisted on it.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 8:57pm On Oct 17, 2020
Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,reason I hate anything online dating or connection whatever.She should just end things and never look back,thats what the guy wants but scared to tell her in order not to hurt her feelings


Well she said, after they met, it was going smoothly as usual, with him always insisting on her not leaving when she told him she'll let him be because of his attitude, and, she is beautiful, really curvy, intelligent and beautiful, her smart mind made us tight friends.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:18pm On Oct 17, 2020
He wanted the cookie
He got it
It's over
He's done
Deal with it
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by baralatie(m): 9:25pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:
He wanted the cookie He got it It's over He's done Deal with it
they did not have sex

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:29pm On Oct 17, 2020
baralatie:

they did not have sex

Speak for urself
Were u part of the relationship cheesy
U seem so sure

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by gfon(m): 9:31pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:
He wanted the cookie
He got it
It's over
He's done
Deal with it
it's not always about sex!!! If i ain't attracted to a lady,nothing about her catches my fancy. Even if she gets stark naked,my 'john thomas' would lay flaccid in perpetual slumber.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by baralatie(m): 9:32pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:


Speak for urself
Were u part of the relationship cheesy
U seem so sure
do you know that there are people who just enjoy the other person suffering for nothing and sex is not involved

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 9:36pm On Oct 17, 2020
Kimcutie:
Source?


Not every story is make-believe.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:40pm On Oct 17, 2020
baralatie:

do you know that there are people who just enjoy the other person suffering for nothing and sex is not involved


U can't just be causing pain and sorrow for no reason, there must be a reason if not then obviously the person has mental issue
How so sure sex isn't involved
I didn't read anything near sexuality
She didn't write whether they did or didn't have sex
So sex maybe involved

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Kimcutie: 9:41pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:
He wanted the cookie
He got it
It's over
He's done
Deal with it
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 9:42pm On Oct 17, 2020
MMXX:
I think your friend abi it's you cheesy anyways

I think she ooze of desperation and the guy has sensed it..He probably wants to take his time,take it slowly but your desperate friend is nagging him with attention.. I think she has taken the right step.if he doesn't reach out to her


She should move on


@emboldened, I truly wish it is me, guys like that will be fun to play with cheesy

Thank you for your opinion.

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by baralatie(m): 9:44pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:



U can't just be causing pain and sorrow for no reason, there must be a reason if not then obviously the person has mental issue
How so sure sex isn't involved
I didn't read anything near sexuality
She didn't write whether they did or didn't have sex
So sex maybe involved

e go shock you!

pata she no see
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Kimcutie: 9:45pm On Oct 17, 2020
Biglittlelois:



Not every story is make-believe.
After reading it, here's what I think;

* The girl is in love
* The boy just had a crush on her
* The girl should move on

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Biglittlelois(f): 9:45pm On Oct 17, 2020
Stacyomolola:


Speak for urself
Were u part of the relationship cheesy
U seem so sure


So we should believe your opinion and not the Op, why? Because you typed/said so?

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 17, 2020
he sounds like eat ur share and waka type of guy cheesy
u know a guy who wants a casual relationship
nothing too serious
just for sex and fun
probably the guy has eaten his share and wants to move on
Its not a crime to want a casual relationship but u should let a girl knows its a casual one u want instead of trying to decieve her cos u want to chop her kpomo at all cost

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:46pm On Oct 17, 2020
gfon:
it's not always about sex!!! If i ain't attracted to a lady,nothing about her catches my fancy. Even if she gets stark naked,my 'john thomas' would lay flaccid in perpetual slumber.

In this case how are u so sure it isn't about sex
Talking about attraction
The guy wouldn't start the relationship if he wasn't attracted to her
Men are mostly magneted by what they see

It's was lust not love for him

Nobody should tell me it isn't all about sex
Tho in some cases but for this case, we aren't yet sure.
Were u there
Was u the guy
Was the guy u

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:48pm On Oct 17, 2020
Biglittlelois:



So we should believe your opinion and not the Op, why? Because you typed/said so?

We are all free to air our respective views
I said what I got to say
Believe who so ever u wanna believe

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Oct 17, 2020
Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,
probably another reason too..one of the disadvantages of doing online datin

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Stacyomolola(f): 9:51pm On Oct 17, 2020
Kimcutie:
After reading it, here's what I think;

* The girl is in love
* The boy just had a crush on her
* The girl should move on

Seconded
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Kimcutie: 9:51pm On Oct 17, 2020
lefulefu:
he sounds like eat ur share and waka type of guy cheesy
u know a guy who wants a casual relationship
nothing too serious
just for sex and fun
probably the guy has eaten his share and wants to move on
Its not a crime to want a casual relationship but u should let a girl knows its a casual one u want instead of trying to decieve her cos u want to chop her kpomo at all cost
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Mryacks(m): 9:54pm On Oct 17, 2020
He is not ready for a committed relationship after meeting and interacting so is indirectly wanting your friend to move on....

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by MMXX: 9:55pm On Oct 17, 2020
Biglittlelois:



@emboldened, I truly wish it is me, guys like that will be fun to play with cheesy

Thank you for your opinion.
You wlc

@emboldened, it usually starts with same thought until the attraction builds stronger and gbam you can't help the way you feel n act anymore

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 9:56pm On Oct 17, 2020
Tell her to move on. Why do girls like to be where they are not wanted ? Gosh!

If he’s giving you attitude, give an attitude back!

What are the tears for? Did he promise you forever?

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by larrixauto2017(m): 9:56pm On Oct 17, 2020
#Endsars.

#Endswat.

#Endpolicebrutality.

#Endbuharism

#Endbadgovernance.

#Soro Soke... Emi Dey To Soro Soke.... Eyin na Eh Soro Soke.... Let Fight This Together... Ko ni da fun Awon Olori Wa Awo Oloribu Alaye baje...
Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 9:58pm On Oct 17, 2020
I’m having a feeling that you’re the so called cousin though . Cos you’re crying more than the bereaved and has been posting the story on threads.

Girl abeg move on. Dem tie the boy to your intestines?

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by MrCork: 10:00pm On Oct 17, 2020
Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,reason I hate anything online dating or connection whatever.She should just end things and never look back,thats what the guy wants but scared to tell her in order not to hurt her feelings


Bro I honestly apologice for exposing u as a male pretending to be female.. ..its just aint right using female pictures to lure men sir. Bro I trully apologise
Luckily for u, not everyone know u r a male pretending to be female sir, smiley

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Re: No Idea On The Topic To Use, But Pls Read And Advice. by Ginaz(f): 10:00pm On Oct 17, 2020
She’s the so called cousin !!!

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