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! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op):
My Uncle always fingered me when I was 11 years old.

A girl narrated to a close friend that her uncle always fingered her when she was 11 years old, although he didn't have sex with her. She said she used to enjoy it that always made her go to him for more fingering.


Now she is confused because she wants to make it known to the public but she doesn't know if it's rape or not.

Please did her uncle rape her? Should she keep quiet or reveal it to the public? Who is to be blamed ; she or her uncle?
Advice & opinions needed please

SOURCE : https://flashynaija.com.ng/lady-mourns-tearfully-and-refused-to-fly-the-nigerian-flag-after-losing-three-brothers-to-sars/

Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by MajesticKris: 10:38pm On Oct 17, 2020
#ENDSARS
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 17, 2020
[color=#000000] Tell us the truth, are you this girl? sad [/color]
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Oct 17, 2020
God
Wetin we no go see for NL
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:44pm On Oct 17, 2020
This may be a case of rape.

The vagina is still penetrated even with fingering - he doesn't need to slide his genitals.

Legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18. This means an 11 year old isn't mature enough to approve any form of sex.

If she enjoyed it, she did out of ignorance and did not know she was being abused.

More specifically, this is also a case of paedophilia - as the uncle is involved with an underaged

Another thing, this is also incest - what is a little girl doing receiving finger penetration from her uncle

Flashynaija:
My Uncle always fingered me when I was 11 years old.

A girl narrated to a close friend that her uncle always fingered her when she was 11 years old, although he didn't have sex with her. She said she used to enjoy it that always made her go to him for more fingering.


Now she is confused because she wants to make it known to the public but she doesn't know if it's rape or not.

Please did her uncle rape her? Should she keep quiet or reveal it to the public? Who is to be blamed ; she or her uncle?
Advice & opinions needed please
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:49pm On Oct 17, 2020
Try reporting to a Sexual Assaults Referral Centre

They handle things like this better than the police.

I will modify this post and add social media handles to the ones i know of.

If you want, you can visit these IG handles and from the profile you will know how to reach them.

Women At Risk International Foundation

https://instagram.com/warif_ng?igshid=xzml09ze2bo6


Mirabel Centre Nigeria

https://instagram.com/mirabelcentreng?igshid=1ovz87lpnfqcy
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by ImpregnaTor(m): 10:52pm On Oct 17, 2020
according the law...this falls under defilement and child molestation

But wait if in it's in the case that she kept going back despite turning adult(18) she should better keep quiet before something strike her
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:54pm On Oct 17, 2020
No!

Even if she goes back for fingering at the age of 18, it doesn't change the fact that she was abused when she was underaged.

Such an uncle still needs to be held accountable

ImpregnaTor:
according the law...this falls under defilement and child molestation

But wait if in it's in the case that she kept going back despite turning adult(18) she should better keep quiet before something strike her
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Nobody: 4:31am On Oct 18, 2020
Wow, nice thread.
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op): 7:42am On Oct 18, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
No!

Even if she goes back for fingering at the age of 18, it doesn't change the fact that she was abused when she was underaged.

Such an uncle still needs to be held accountable
Should she keep quiet?
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:31am On Oct 18, 2020
She shouldn't, in my opinion.

If her uncle could finger her at that age, who knows what else he may be doing!

Flashynaija:
Should she keep quiet?
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op): 3:34pm On Oct 18, 2020
Flashynaija:
Should she keep quiet?
I agree
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op): 11:24pm On Oct 18, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
This may be a case of rape.

The vagina is still penetrated even with fingering - he doesn't need to slide his genitals.

Legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18. This means an 11 year old isn't mature enough to approve any form of sex.

If she enjoyed it, she did out of ignorance and did not know she was being abused.

More specifically, this is also a case of paedophilia - as the uncle is involved with an underaged

Another thing, this is also incest - what is a little girl doing receiving finger penetration from her uncle
good one
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op): 4:34pm On Oct 19, 2020
Xoly:
[color=#000000] Tell us the truth, are you this girl? sad [/color]
wetin
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:40pm On Oct 19, 2020
Thanks

Flashynaija:
good one
Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by escapellee(m): 5:16pm On Oct 19, 2020
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Re: ! My UNCLE Always FINGER Me. by Flashynaija(op): 9:35pm On Oct 19, 2020
Xoly:
[color=#000000] Tell us the truth, are you this girl? sad [/color]
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