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Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

nams77:
You must be igbo

Shortyy:
Yeah

nams77:
Let me shot u a mail

Dsimple:
Waiting for God and relaxing is a good option but I'm really tired of seeing myself as irresponsible father but I see two sides to it, one, if the boy became successful in life, he'll have been brainwashed with negativity about me and if on the other hand turned something else, he may never forgive me. I'm just confused

Dsimple:
I went to a police station in my area, they were telling me nonsense, telling me to sponsor at least two police officers to Lagos from Abuja inorder to look for her and like you know there's a high chance we might not find her. I advised they call her even if it means me footing the bill but they said ''you want dey teach us our job abi"?

Dsimple:
Absolutely NO, no matter how careful you are, you can fall for their traps, the only way to be free is for God to guide and protect you.

DenreleDave:
Make we chat for whatsapp... Share me her contact...

Lemme whine her till she give me her house address or office address then I will leak it to you...


Do you accept my offer??

Dsimple:
Accepted
Please add me on 080246

Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

sisisioge:
For your peace of mind, leave her and your "son" alone. Let her take care of him by herself since she says you're not the father. A day will come when the boy will ask for his father biko. Just ex her and anything relating to her for now.

As for your expenditure on her...count your loss and move on. Good luck.

DenreleDave:
Make we chat for whatsapp... Share me her contact...

Lemme whine her till she give me her house address or office address then I will leak it to you...


Do you accept my offer??

DenreleDave:
Good morning sir.. Been awhile u came online..


Thanks for the other time sir

Dsimple:
Accepted
Please add me on ........

Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

Dsimple:
Accepted
Please add me on ....

Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.