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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by nams77: 4:15pm On Oct 25, 2020
Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.
You must be igbo
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by nams77: 4:15pm On Oct 25, 2020
Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.
I guess you are igbo
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Shortyy(f): 4:16pm On Oct 25, 2020
nams77:

You must be igbo
Yeah
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by nams77: 4:20pm On Oct 25, 2020
Shortyy:

Yeah
Let me shot u a mail
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Shortyy(f): 4:27pm On Oct 25, 2020
nams77:

Let me shot u a mail
OK
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Teerach: 6:01pm On Oct 25, 2020
Dsimple:

Waiting for God and relaxing is a good option but I'm really tired of seeing myself as irresponsible father but I see two sides to it, one, if the boy became successful in life, he'll have been brainwashed with negativity about me and if on the other hand turned something else, he may never forgive me. I'm just confused
Get a DNA test done first. If he's yours, do your part as a father. Children tend to see reality for themselves when they grow up. No amount of brainwashing can change the truth. He'll come back to you for the truth.
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Advision: 8:43pm On Oct 25, 2020
Dsimple:

I went to a police station in my area, they were telling me nonsense, telling me to sponsor at least two police officers to Lagos from Abuja inorder to look for her and like you know there's a high chance we might not find her. I advised they call her even if it means me footing the bill but they said ''you want dey teach us our job abi"?

I think the police men are right, going there physically is probably the best way to locate them, by the time you ask around, someone will give you an important lead on their present location
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by DenreleDave(m): 10:39pm On Oct 25, 2020
Dsimple:
Absolutely NO, no matter how careful you are, you can fall for their traps, the only way to be free is for God to guide and protect you.


Make we chat for whatsapp... Share me her contact...

Lemme whine her till she give me her house address or office address then I will leak it to you...


Do you accept my offer??

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Dsimple: 5:57am On Oct 26, 2020
DenreleDave:



Make we chat for whatsapp... Share me her contact...

Lemme whine her till she give me her house address or office address then I will leak it to you...


Do you accept my offer??
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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by DenreleDave(m): 6:02am On Oct 26, 2020
Dsimple:

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by hresso: 9:04am On Oct 26, 2020
Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

Okay now we see the consequences. Halleluyah!
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by johhbekeboh09: 9:28am On Oct 26, 2020
Shortyy:
In my tribe, you don't marry a woman without knowing everything about her. From the last generation to her current generation. How they behave in their house, how they relate with members if their community. Every thing about her, you must know before going further for introduction.

But some woke people think this is a waste of time, they go and marry anyone they meet without knowing the kind of family they came from or how genuine their intentions are.

Now look at the consequences.

I believe that with all the above precautions a marriage can still turn bad
Whrr i blame this guy is that prior to eventual broke up of his marriage there were many ominous signs he waived aside

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Stevenbright(m): 9:33am On Oct 26, 2020
Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

Move on man and rebuild your life. Forget everything about her and the child.

Stop chatting with her and as for the child, he will come looking for you if he is yours at the right time.
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by hresso: 9:46am On Oct 26, 2020
sisisioge:
For your peace of mind, leave her and your "son" alone. Let her take care of him by herself since she says you're not the father. A day will come when the boy will ask for his father biko. Just ex her and anything relating to her for now.

As for your expenditure on her...count your loss and move on. Good luck.

Hmmmm
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by hresso: 9:49am On Oct 26, 2020
DenreleDave:



Make we chat for whatsapp... Share me her contact...

Lemme whine her till she give me her house address or office address then I will leak it to you...


Do you accept my offer??

Chai Denrele the private investigator grin
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by DenreleDave(m): 9:53am On Oct 26, 2020
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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by hresso: 9:58am On Oct 26, 2020
DenreleDave:


Good morning sir.. Been awhile u came online..


Thanks for the other time sir

My brother in the Lord.
God bless you.
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Dsimple: 7:34pm On Oct 27, 2020
Dsimple:

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by frozen70(f): 2:40am On Oct 29, 2020
Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

You are not getting any compensation from anyone, stop asking for the impossible

Try and locate her, start a good conversation with her and one thing will lead both of you to the hospital where a DNA test will be done get your research on where DNA tests are done and lure then there

Once the test is positive keep Sending up keep to her for your son

If the test is negative, then withdraw all connections with her, send a copy to her mother and her fathers family head for they own information that you are done with her

That's simply what you need, this has no business with a lawyer

You can't drag what you are not really sure of the owner
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by Dsimple: 9:11am On Oct 30, 2020
Dsimple:

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by DenreleDave(m): 9:42am On Oct 30, 2020
Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by danny34(m): 10:29am On Oct 30, 2020
Oga, I have a different perspective to this issue!

Kindly file for divorce, get married and move on.

Even if you found out that the boy is yours, what next? Do you still want to live with her?

I thought you said you were happy the day she left your house?

You need peace of mind and That lady won't give you that!

Let her go... Focus on your life, get married and move on.

Life is too short for dramas.

My own opinion!


Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

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Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by naija4life247: 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2020
Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

If I were you, I will assume she never existed and that the child never existed. I will move on and ignore her forever. However, if doctors say that the sperms in your body have finished and you cannot father a child again, then you may start looking for her. You can check her and her mother at the psychiatric hospital or better still at the prisons because she and her mother will end up behind the bars. How soon? I can't say.

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