So I met this guy during a lecture. He collected my number and we became friends. I wasn't looking forward to dating him,it never crossed my mind. But we chatted regularly and well,I started to like him. And he said he loved me too and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn't because I felt it was too early and deep inside I never planned to have a boyfriend and it didn't feel like love. I had my doubt

After the decline,things were a lil bit shaky, awkward conversations unlike before. I just liked him and was confused if we should or not go into relationship. Relationship means alot to me and I felt he was trying to play around and didn't really want something serious. After awhile I left him,I was confused,I wasn't sure I could offer him what he wanted too-a romantic relationship. All this happened last year

During the very beginning of covid-19,he sent a text and I did same but not with the intention of getting back. But he suggested we spoke on WhatsApp and gbam!we were friends again. Telling me how much he missed me,how he felt about me and those stuffs they tell you. Well we were friends again and this time I wanted a defined relationship,if we have nothing then it's nothing. He wanted me to be his girlfriend but I didn't feel that he wanted something serious. He never calls. If I don't greet he won't. And when he does he'd take time to reply this was like few weeks after we reconnected o. He started saying he was busy. Like mannn,I'm busy too but will still tàje time to text you. It got so so so bad. Man whatsup?why you like this?

Nothing,I don't just feel like talking to you or anyone else. Which was a big lie

I just stopped texting him,took him off my WhatsApp. I was really pained. Had to start working to get my mind of it. I was really hurt.

All this still happening during this lockdown.
Then one day he called my phone, remember I took his number off my phone,so I didn't know he was the one.

Well,we got talking again. I made sure I let him know why I took him off and he apologized. I accepted and we were back again. I know, I'm such an idiot. But are we not supposed to give people benefits of doubt -atleast he apologized.

Well,we became friends again. Told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. At this point I was scared and I hardly trust him. Why you always leaving? I have this guess that he's still stucked to someone else maybe his ex. But they only guesses.

I told him I didn't want a romantic relationship. Well,we didn't come to a conclusion but we were still friends. Until recently,he said he was going through shi and normally, I'd do what I can. But I knew it was about another girl he's after. He post romantic shi on his status and I just feel pain really. Why? I always leave because you are not ready but then you come back forming whatever,I always do the mistake of letting you in back because I feel I could give you another chance.

Just recently he posted something on his status telling a girl he loved her blahhh(he wanted me to be his GF when he was actually chasing someone else.Yes,I'm pained. I know he's gone but ahhhh.


I've been off WhatsApp for like Two weeks and baba hasn't called or texted. Something I'd never do if he were in my shoes.

A part of me was waiting for closure but I know it's not necessary. This is not the first the second time

Sincerely, I'm pained. I know I should move on but that hurt is just too much. I really loved him

At this point I don't even know what to do with him.

I'm stupid? I dunno

huh?
you should know one of beyonce's song!it goes like this............
(adjust my voice)

to the left(2ce)

to the left {2ce)
all your things in the box on the left.........


then there is this one by rihanna

you wanna stand there and watch me burn
it's all right becoz I love the way you lie!

then there is this one by dolly parton
goodbye

then there is another one by p square
as you they go left I go dey go right

if you dey go front me I go dress back

and so on and so forth

baralatie:
huh?

huh

Flolovtri:
huh

huh!

So what do you want us to do now?

Move on, small girl... and face your studies cos that's why your father sent you to school.
Don't go and carry unwanted pregnancy o! This one that you typed a whole epistle because of a boy... Belle is around the corner.

CoderX:
So what do you want us to do now?

Move on, small girl... and face your studies cos that's why your father sent you to school.
Don't go and carry unwanted pregnancy oo! This one that you typed a whole epistle because of a boy... Belle is around the corner

I'm not a small girl and I won't get pregnant

Thanks

No advise for you,,,,

We don't know what you've done,,,,,

You came to drop the sweet sidesnd uncomplete story,,,,,,,

fati2001:
huh!

she should do binding and casting

Flolovtri:
I'm not a small girl and I won't get pregnant

Thanks

Yan yan yan... Are u above 20 yrs?

You are a small girl my dear. They sent you to school to learn, not to follow a boy. After all the lovey lovey, what next, isn't it premarital sex?

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even if he climbs the iroko tree.

Please who can summarize this?



All this long speech just because of one guy

Amazingboy1:



No advise for you,,,,

We don't know what you've done,,,,,

You came to drop the sweet sidesnd uncomplete story,,,,,,,

Maybe I'm indecisive

If he had told me I did something wrong and I'd write it here too

Anytime I ask he'd say nothing,I didn't do anything

We barely saw too, mostly communicate through WhatsApp

I'm not looking for sympathy bro

Thanks

CoderX:


Yan yan yan... Are u above 20 yrs?

You are a small girl my dear. They sent you to school to learn, not to follow a boy. After all the lovey lovey, what next, isn't it premarital sex?

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even if he climbs the iroko tree.

You saw where I wrote I didn't want a romantic relationship

Anoth:
Please who can summarize this?



All this long speech just because of one guy

Yes

Keep moving if you can't read

Flolovtri:
huh

literarily there is nothing wrong!
you already have your doubts about even going into the relationship in the first place and all you want is a simple friendship with no strings attached.
this he doesn't want and definitely be wants to play the I love you (yes) and the I don't want (no) game at the same time.
if you have someone who is playing a yes and no at the same time.just drop the person abeg

CoderX:


Yan yan yan... Are u above 20 yrs?

You are a small girl my dear. They sent you to school to learn, not to follow a boy. After all the lovey lovey, what next, isn't it premarital sex?

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even if he climbs the iroko tree.

True talk my brother,, ❤️

Lemme add,,,


What a wise man see 100 meter away,,,,, a fool can't see it 1metre away,,,,, ,,,,


She really put boys matter for head without knowing dat some boys are brutal and don't give a fvck about what we don't want,,,,,,

Flolovtri:
You saw where I wrote I didn't want a romantic relationship

Well, maybe I can help you since you have written like a good girl.

I will counsel you free of charge, just DM me.

Flolovtri:
Yes

Keep moving if you can't read

Hey kid, don't you dare be rude to me

You were sent to school to study, which you are not serious about, instead of using your school fees to start-up something else, rather you went ahead to subject yourself into the passenger's seat of an emotional rollercoaster.

Mind your studies, you go dey alright las las

Flolovtri:
Maybe I'm indecisive
If he had told me I did something wrong and I'd write it here too
Anytime I ask he'd say nothing,I didn't do anything
We barely saw too, mostly communicate through WhatsApp
I'm not looking for sympathy bro
Thanks

aha!
WhatsApp love!
stick to career development and making money biko

Amazingboy1:



True talk my brother,, ❤️

Lemme add,,,


What a wise man see 100 meter away,,,,, a fool can't see it 1metre away,,,,, ,,,,


She really put boys matter for head without knowing dat some boys are brutal and don't give a fvck about what we don't want,,,,,,

I think she needs proper counselling...

baralatie:

literarily there is nothing wrong!
you already have your doubts about even going into the relationship in the first place and all you want is a simple friendship with no strings attached.
this he doesn't want and definitely be wants to play the I love you (yes) and the I don't want (no) game at the same time.
if you have someone who is playing a yes and no at the same time.just drop the person abeg

Thank You v.much

Amazingboy1:



True talk my brother,, ❤️

Lemme add,,,


What a wise man see 100 meter away,,,,, a fool can't see it 1metre away,,,,, ,,,,


She really put boys matter for head without knowing dat some boys are brutal and don't give a fvck about what we don't want,,,,,,

You are so blunt. True talk though but why he keeps coming back. I know you don't want me so why you back?

Anoth:

Hey kid, don't you dare be rude to me

You were sent to school to study, which you are not serious about, instead of using your school fees to start-up something else, rather you went ahead to subject yourself into the passenger's seat of an emotional rollercoaster.

Mind your studies, you go dey alright las las

thank you

That's what you should have said at first

baralatie:

aha!

WhatsApp love!

stick to career development and making money biko

Thank you

Flolovtri:

Maybe I'm indecisive

If he had told me I did something wrong and I'd write it here too

Anytime I ask he'd say nothing,I didn't do anything

We barely saw too, mostly communicate through WhatsApp

I'm not looking for sympathy bro

Thanks

I'm not saying you're looking for sympathy,,,,,,

What i said is the truth,,,,

Listen to yaaself you don't see each other always but you're down for him,,, you haven't know him yet,,,,,,


Haa ,, gad,,,, I don't have strength to school somebody today,,,,,, but note that if a boy didn't like a girl he won't give a fvck about what you're going through,,,,,,,,,,,

If he's into you he will be checking on you,,,, this yaa action is dangerous for your soul,,, girl loving a boy is more dangerous dan boy loving a girl,,,,, your heart break is going to be brutal,,,,,,,

Face yaa study,,, work harder and make money,,, aswear nah boys gp dey chase you up and down,,,,,,,

Flolovtri:
You saw where I wrote I didn't want a romantic relationship

Maybe that's d genesis of d problem here.

CoderX:


I think she needs proper counselling...

Yeah,,

You love him more than he does..

He no send you sef..

Block that guy and mouve on!!

Flolovtri:
You are so blunt. True talk though but why he keeps coming back. I know you don't want me so why you back?

Though I don't really get what you wrote,,,,,

But if i wanna answer you according to what I understand,,,,


Leave him,, if he come back he just wanna temper with yaa emo,,,

Forget him and redirect your focus. If his life is this complicated to you without entering relationship with him yet, I wonder how you will be so pained if you eventually agree for him. It will end in premium tears.

And in case you need a cool friend to chat with. You can enter my DM.

Lmaoooooooooooooo

I don't know why it's hard for women to realize that most times men use them to catch cruise.

The nigga dey find puna to kpesh

Amazingboy1:


I'm not saying you're looking for sympathy,,,,,,

What i said is the truth,,,,

Listen to yaaself you don't see each other always but you're down for him,,, you haven't know him yet,,,,,,


Haa ,, gad,,,, I don't have strength to school somebody today,,,,,, but note that if a boy didn't like a girl he won't give a fvck about what you're going through,,,,,,,,,,,

If he's into you he will be checking on you,,,, this yaa action is dangerous for your soul,,, girl loving a boy is more dangerous dan boy loving a girl,,,,, your heart break is going to be brutal,,,,,,,

Face yaa study,,, work harder and make money,,, aswear nah boys gp dey chase you up and down,,,,,,,

Thank you Amazingboy

I'd be my best