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Uzomacharles:
The nigga dey find puna to kpesh

him no go see am o

Shortyy:
Lmaoooooooooooooo

I don't know why it's hard for women to realize that most times men use them to catch cruise.

isn't that sad

Rapsodee:
Forget him and redirect your focus. If his life is this complicated to you without entering relationship with him yet, I wonder how you will be so pained if you eventually agree for him. It will end in premium tears.

And in case you need a cool friend to chat with. You can enter my DM.

Thank you

I'd redirect

Amazingboy1:
Though I don't really get what you wrote,,,,,

But if i wanna answer you according to what I understand,,,,


Leave him,, if he come back he just wanna temper with yaa emo,,,

I won't let him in

Me sef don tire emotionally

Thank you

Anoth:
You love him more than he does..

He no send you sef..

Block that guy and mouve on!!

the truth is just too sad

Thank you very much

Flolovtri:
him no go see am o

if him play him role well...
He's acting like a Peacock on the heat..
The guy just wan 4ck...
Make the girl better forget about am unless she wan enjoy too

Uzomacharles:
if him play him role well...

He's acting like a Peacock on the heat..

The guy just wan 4ck...

Make the girl better forget about am unless she wan enjoy too

no

We'd rather leave

Flolovtri:
isn't that sad

It is dear.

Just dey your day. That's what I do.

Think about my life and future and how to be wealthy.

Live in my own little world.

Shortyy:
It is dear.

Just dey your day. That's what I do.

Think about my life and future and how to be wealthy.

Live in my own little world.

I'd girl

Thank you

Flolovtri:
the truth is just too sad

Thank you very much

This happened to me in school then
This guy collected my number.
I have always liked him from afar because he is my coursemate. So we clicked when he wooed me.
We were doing lovey dovey(no sex).
Until suddenly, he doesnt pick my calls and will not return the calls.
I was confused and annoyed at the same time.
The following week we had lectures, we bumped into each other
He just snubbed me(i was dazed)
Instantly i deleted and blocked him!!!
Good riddance to bad nonsense!!!
Our situationship was just (3wks)


I know its hard but just TRY and move on.
Go out more, Your own guy will surely locate you.
Gracias!

Anoth:
This happened to me in school then
This guy collected my number.
I have always liked him from afar because he is my coursemate. So we clicked when he wooed me.
We were doing lovey dovey(no sex).
Until suddenly, he doesnt pick my calls and will not return the calls.
I was confused and annoyed at the same time.
The following week we had lectures, we bumped into each other
He just snubbed me(i was dazed)
Instantly i deleted and blocked him!!!
Good riddance to bad nonsense!!!
Our situationship was just (3wks)


I know its hard but just TRY and move on.
Go out more, Your own guy will surely locate you.
Gracias!

why do they come when they have no plans of staying

Well,you savage though

Thanksssss

Flolovtri:
Thank you Amazingboy

I'd be my best

Yeah,,,,,

Flolovtri:
I won't let him in

Me sef don tire emotionally

Thank you

Move on my sister,,, nobody deserve to be treated badly,,,,,,,

Flolovtri:
why do they come when they have no plans of staying

Well,you savage though

Thanksssss

You all met the wrong guys

Flolovtri:
So I met this guy during a lecture. He collected my number and we became friends. I wasn't looking forward to dating him,it never crossed my mind. But we chatted regularly and well,I started to like him. And he said he loved me too and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn't because I felt it was too early and deep inside I never planned to have a boyfriend and it didn't feel like love. I had my doubt...

You've obviously gotten emotionally attached to him but are still indecisive. He's wooed you thrice and you turned him down, what then do you expect he sticks around doing? Oh you want friendship? He made it clear from the get-go he wasn't in for "just friends". The kind of relationship he's proposed you've consistently turned down, so you shouldn't feel sad that he is backtracking.

Next time you are with someone, ensure to know what you really want to avoid unnecessary emotional entanglement. Now tell me, why has he met you "single" every time he breezes in? No option?

CoderX:
Yan yan yan... Are u above 20 yrs?

You are a small girl my dear. They sent you to school to learn, not to follow a boy. After all the lovey lovey, what next, isn't it premarital sex?

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even if he climbs the iroko tree.

I’ll like to correct this senseless adage.
What an elder sees sitting down, a child will use drone to run it.

Foolish and blind people also grow old. So please it’s high time we killed the foolish narrative that all elders are wise. Because that’s not true

There are foolish and stupid elders too.
Capish!

Pancakeey:
I’ll like to correct this senseless adage.
What an elder sees sitting down, a child will use drone to run it.

Foolish and blind people also grow old. So please it’s high time we killed the foolish narrative that all elders are wise. Because that’s not true

There are foolish and stupid elders too.
Capish!

I need to say this very politely; you are very foolish.

Hey flolovtri I hope I spelt the moniker right.

Well, what can I say? I’ve not really been in this position but I’ve been with someone who didn’t care or do too much to reciprocate my feelings.
No calls, slow replies, he’ll ghost and all. Then after a while he’ll come back saying something happened and that he’s sorry. Lol, NEVER AGAIN will I let that rubbish happen to me.

Just move on. It’s even foolish telling you to move on when you guys never started anything together.
And you said you don’t want a romantic relationship then what do you want?
A platonic relationship?? You want a platonic relationship and you’re already having feelings and writing an epistle over this guy who doesn’t care about you.
Believe me, if a guy is really into you, you’ll see it.

I’m sure you’re feeling this way about the guy maybe because he was the first person to make you feel wanted or something Idk.

Lemme not talk too much. Take your mind off him and breathe fresh air
Also go back to WhatsApp abeg. You didn’t download WhatsApp to be staying offline and waiting for someone to notice your absence.

CsRockefeller:
I need to say this very politely; you are very foolish.

And I need to say this very politely too, your family members are very foolish. Foolishness flows in your blood line.
Now get out of my sight.

Pancakeey:
And I need to say this very politely too, your family members are foolish.
Now get out of my sight.

Olodo girl, who d hell are you?!!

Inconsequential brat!!

CsRockefeller:
Olodo girl, who d hell are you?!!

Inconsequential brat!!

I’m your worst nightmare.
I’m here to tell you what others can’t tell you.

You’re a mad man! Now run along, I don’t have time for senile idiots.

Pancakeey:
I’ll like to correct this senseless adage.
What an elder sees sitting down, a child will use drone to run it.

Foolish and blind people also grow old. So please it’s high time we killed the foolish narrative that all elders are wise. Because that’s not true

There are foolish and stupid elders too.
Capish!

The main foolishness here is thinking that sight is the object, rather, it's the experience of an elderly person being referred to... Or maybe you can use your drone to view experience.

Either ways, all na cruise, my subsequent posts say it all, so don't attach too much seriousness... If you need counselling too, just say so.

CoderX:
The main foolishness here is thinking that sight is the issue here, rather, it's the experience of an elderly person being referred to... Or maybe you can use your drone to view experience.


Whatever you think you know at your age now, will become child's play to you in the next 10 years... Take it or leave it.

If you’re wise, then you would have understood that I used blind figuratively in the context.
Looks like all the so called elders in NL are quick to insult anyone who tackles them.
And by drone I meant times have evolved. Spare me the experience thing sir. That’s if you’re worth calling sir. But moving on, was it not our elders so called experience and incompetence that led us to where we are today?
Now, I’ll like to mention the adage that says experience is the best teacher and truly it is. So let everyone learn by their personal experiences then.

And yet they say elders are wise
Wise indeed

CoderX:
The main foolishness here is thinking that sight is the object, rather, it's the experience of an elderly person being referred to... Or maybe you can use your drone to view experience.

Either ways, all na cruise, my subsequent posts say it all, so don't attach too much seriousness... If you need counselling too, just say so.

If I need counseling NL elders are the last people I’ll run to
Thanks for the offer though.

Pancakeey:
If you’re wise, then you would have understood that I used blind figuratively in the context.
Looks like all the so called elders in NL are quick to insult anyone who tackles them.
And by drone I meant times have evolved. Spare me the experience thing sir. That’s if you’re worth calling sir. But moving on, was it not our elders so called experience and incompetence that led us to where we are today?
Now, I’ll like to mention the adage that says experience is the best teacher and truly it is. So let everyone learn by their personal experiences then.

And yet they say elders are wise
Wise indeed

Whatever...

You'd be surprised if you found out my real age, all these ones wey I dey talk na cruise ooo... I fit young pass you sef.

Razor mouth, sha come for counselling.

Pancakeey:
If I need counseling NL elders are the last people I’ll run to
Thanks for the offer though.

I must counsel you...

CoderX:
I must counsel you...

I no want

Flovglovtri:
I'm not a small girl and I won't get pregnant

Thanks

You will get pregnant maybe not now, don't curse yourselve o ! the best way to move on is to look for a long term distraction & don't isolate yourself.
i think meeting new people is the best form of distraction ever.

Flolovtri:
So I met this guy during a lecture. He collected my number and we became friends. I wasn't looking forward to dating him,it never crossed my mind. But we chatted regularly and well,I started to like him. And he said he loved me too and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn't because I felt it was too early and deep inside I never planned to have a boyfriend and it didn't feel like love. I had my doubt

After the decline,things were a lil bit shaky, awkward conversations unlike before. I just liked him and was confused if we should or not go into relationship. Relationship means alot to me and I felt he was trying to play around and didn't really want something serious. After awhile I left him,I was confused,I wasn't sure I could offer him what he wanted too-a romantic relationship. All this happened last year

During the very beginning of covid-19,he sent a text and I did same but not with the intention of getting back. But he suggested we spoke on WhatsApp and gbam!we were friends again. Telling me how much he missed me,how he felt about me and those stuffs they tell you. Well we were friends again and this time I wanted a defined relationship,if we have nothing then it's nothing. He wanted me to be his girlfriend but I didn't feel that he wanted something serious. He never calls. If I don't greet he won't. And when he does he'd take time to reply this was like few weeks after we reconnected o. He started saying he was busy. Like mannn,I'm busy too but will still tàje time to text you. It got so so so bad. Man whatsup?why you like this?

Nothing,I don't just feel like talking to you or anyone else. Which was a big lie

I just stopped texting him,took him off my WhatsApp. I was really pained. Had to start working to get my mind of it. I was really hurt.

All this still happening during this lockdown.
Then one day he called my phone, remember I took his number off my phone,so I didn't know he was the one.

Well,we got talking again. I made sure I let him know why I took him off and he apologized. I accepted and we were back again. I know, I'm such an idiot. But are we not supposed to give people benefits of doubt -atleast he apologized.

Well,we became friends again. Told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. At this point I was scared and I hardly trust him. Why you always leaving? I have this guess that he's still stucked to someone else maybe his ex. But they only guesses.

I told him I didn't want a romantic relationship. Well,we didn't come to a conclusion but we were still friends. Until recently,he said he was going through shi and normally, I'd do what I can. But I knew it was about another girl he's after. He post romantic shi on his status and I just feel pain really. Why? I always leave because you are not ready but then you come back forming whatever,I always do the mistake of letting you in back because I feel I could give you another chance.

Just recently he posted something on his status telling a girl he loved her blahhh(he wanted me to be his GF when he was actually chasing someone else.Yes,I'm pained. I know he's gone but ahhhh.


I've been off WhatsApp for like Two weeks and baba hasn't called or texted. Something I'd never do if he were in my shoes.

A part of me was waiting for closure but I know it's not necessary. This is not the first the second time

Sincerely, I'm pained. I know I should move on but that hurt is just too much. I really loved him

At this point I don't even know what to do with him.

I'm stupid? I dunno

Are you still available for a new beginning huh?

Pancakeey:
I no want

Come now... it's free of charge o...

Shortyy:
Lmaoooooooooooooo

I don't know why it's hard for women to realize that most times men use them to catch cruise.

same way men find it hard to realize most times gurls are just using them to sort bills.
what she needs is how to move on not how to avoid men shorty

:I must counsel you... I no want