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Settling with a non virgin is a big risk, a gamble, it will cost you. A sister who is a non virgin, will constantly compare you with her previous sexual mates when it comes to the bedroom. She will constantly dispute your authority based on the knowledge she received from her exs. She will resist to be fully submissive, either because her relationship history is traumatic or there was this one ex of her that was very knowledgeable and she was fond of, and you're just below him (Women don't submit to ignorant men, they most of the time control them, because they lack leadership skills). The womb of a non virgin, may contain DNA of the men she slept with raw which means, the children she would bore for you, they would consist traits that are foreign to your bloodline, and hers. Traits of her sexual encounters. So a settlement with a non virgin is not ideal at all. Ancient African men standard was about settling with virgins only, because they knew the consequences of dealing with a non virgin. Modern African men they abandoned their standard, and as a result, they are struggling perpetually to sustain their marriages. A non virgin is like a adult ofwhich you can't teach anything, because he/she believes he/she has figured life. You can only teach/lead a virgin (toddler) not a corrupted old individual. Revert to your standard black men...

The worst is marrying a non virgin Nigerian evening newspaper! That's suicide!

Factfinder1:
Settling with a non virgin is a big risk, a gamble, it will cost you. A sister who is a non virgin, will constantly compare you with her previous sexual mates when it comes to the bedroom. She will constantly dispute your authority based on the knowledge she received from her exs. She will resist to be fully submissive, either because her relationship history is traumatic or there was this one ex of her that was very knowledgeable and she was fond of, and you're just below him (Women don't submit to ignorant men, they most of the time control them, because they lack leadership skills). The womb of a non virgin, may contain DNA of the men she slept with raw which means, the children she would bore for you, they would consist traits that are foreign to your bloodline, and hers. Traits of her sexual encounters. So a settlement with a non virgin is not ideal at all. Ancient African men standard was about settling with virgins only, because they knew the consequences of dealing with a non virgin. Modern African men they abandoned their standard, and as a result, they are struggling perpetually to sustain their marriages. A non virgin is like a adult ofwhich you can't teach anything, because he/she believes he/she has figured life. You can only teach/lead a virgin (toddler) not a corrupted old individual. Revert to your standard black men...

Honest question.
Is the emboldened scientifically proven?

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Honest question. Is the emboldened scientifically proven?

to some certain extent, yes

fuckaholic25:
to some certain extent, yes

Would you mind sharing your sources?

Bullshit....so u now use virgin as a criteria of marrying a lady? Dat will be ur biggest mistake ever..... I don't care if u ar a virgin or not,all dat matters is smart,loving,caring and beautiful lady.... nonsense post

How about settling with a virgin then she chooses to explore others, curious of how having sex with others feels like.

I agree,its the same thing marrying a non virgin man,let us all try to keep our virginity for our spouses

teejaymoremoney:
Bullshit....so u now use virgin as a criteria of marrying a lady? Dat will be ur biggest mistake ever..... I don't care if u ar a virgin or not,all dat matters is smart,loving,caring and beautiful lady.... nonsense post

Your post reeks of low self esteem.

Hmm

Ferrocene:
How about settling with a virgin then she chooses to explore others, curious of how having sex with others feels like.

his brain did not explore that area before posting this


He does not know some virgins are time bomb waiting to explode. They are mostly the ones that have sex with gateman or houseboy and oga apprentice

haslaw:
Your post reeks of low self esteem.

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Low self esteem?...so a non virgin should not marry again?...there are some circumstances that makes a lady to loss her virgin,it doesn't mean that lady is sleeping around with guys.... common think smart

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Would you mind sharing your sources?

It’s a theoretical thing but with very compelling possibility....foreign male DNA has actually been found in women and can only be possible thru past sex, past abortion( which is technically the same with pat sex), a previous twin that seized to exist. https://www.deccanchronicle.com/amp/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/270617/find-out-how-women-keep-dna-from-men-she-has-had-sex-with.html

it has also been proven in animal model research https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/10/141001090238.htm

...but I don’t think it can be totally proven in humans becos humans can naturally behave weird....


The one that’s possible is cases of women who had twins fathered by two different men as a result of having sex with different men a couple of days/weeks apart......

Shoutout to all the Vs around the world

Ferrocene:
How about settling with a virgin then she chooses to explore others, curious of how having sex with others feels like.

U have a strange imagination.... how do u paint a scenario of a disciplined women who suddenly suddenly wakes up and starts to look for other pen!s...??

teejaymoremoney:
Bullshit....so u now use virgin as a criteria of marrying a lady? Dat will be ur biggest mistake ever..... I don't care if u ar a virgin or not,all dat matters is smart,loving,caring and beautiful lady.... nonsense post

How can u say his choice is the biggest mistake while ur choice is all that matters..?? Everybody has choice..let him make his own...people don’t marry for the same reasons... some for babies, other for sex, other for companionship..

nothing is certain in life..all na risk.. people also pretend, so how do u know they are truly loving or caring..?? We have seen marriage where people later show their true colour

For many guys that shout that they want a Virgin by force,of course they know it’s not a guarantee to a happy home..but marrying a woman who doesn’t have a history of abortion, past sexual experience to compare, is taking a calculated risk.....

Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Would you mind sharing your sources?

I'd love to but kinda busy but it's called telegony, you can read about it!!

virgin should marry em"selves !!!!!
nonevirgin should marry em"selves !!!!!!!

SIMPLE.

Ok sir, i hv heard u. thanks for ur advice.
So now the non virgin shldnt get married again base on the fact that they were disvirgin, only the virgin shld marry
thank u sir for ur advice

Shortyy:
Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

@emboldened

Is that the perfect justification for not being chaste?.

Com'on it's no secret people use relationship as a charade to explore their sexuality.

A virtuous strong willed lady should be able to say "No" when such proposal is brought before them..Women to an extent are always at the losing end of relationships this days.Even after giving out your body with the intention to secure him or marriage,there's no guarantee the final outcome of the relationship, if it's alter or otherwise..

So why not strengthen your resolve and see it to the final end..If they were made monsters,then they surely never repudiated such

Shortyy:
Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

Wait...correct me if I’m wrong...what u are trying to do is blame men for you women’s decision to spread your legs.....??

Shortyy:
Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

God will bless you !!!!

fati2001:
virgin should marry em"selves !!!!!

nonevirgin should marry em"selves !!!!!!!


SIMPLE.

No..ur school of thought is flawed....becos I’ve used a car 5-10 other people have used doesn’t mean I don’t deserve a new one..... .

In fact the being with a woman several other men has slept with should make desire the real thing.....

if u check well u’ll realize its virgin men that ends up with retired prostitutess since they don’t know how a better package feels...

Where will you see such to marry sef. It is not written on the head.

coolsegun2002:
No..ur school of thought is flawed....becos I’ve used a car 5-10 other people have used doesn’t mean I don’t deserve a new one..... .

In fact the being with a woman several other men has slept with should make desire the real thing.....

if u check well u’ll realize its virgin men that ends up with retired prostitutess since they don’t know how a better package feels...

sorry NIGGA, I CAN'T READ YOUR NOVEL.


AS I SAID EARLIER!


VIRGIN ( MAN /WOMAN) SHOULD /MUST MARRY EM"SELVES!!!

WHILE

NONE VIRGIN (MAN /WOMAN) SHOULD /MUST MARRY EM"SELVES!!!!

SIMPLE.

fati2001:
sorry NIGGA, I CAN'T READ YOUR NOVEL.


AS I SAID EARLIER!


VIRGIN ( MAN /WOMAN) SHOULD /MUST MARRY EM"SELVES!!!

WHILE

NONE VIRGIN (MAN /WOMAN) SHOULD /MUST MARRY EM"SELVES!!!!

SIMPLE.

OH I get u nigga.....

Uncle93:
God will bless you !!!!

And bless you too.

MMXX:
@emboldened

Is that the perfect justification for not being chaste?.

Com'on it's no secret people use relationship as a charade to explore their sexuality.

A virtuous strong willed lady should be able to say "No" when such proposal is brought before them..Women to an extent are always at the losing end of relationships this days.Even after giving out your body with the intention to secure him or marriage,there's no guarantee the final outcome of the relationship, if it's alter or otherwise..

So why not strengthen your resolve and see it to the final end..If they are monsters,then they surely never repudiated such

And assuming you love this man and doesn't want to lose him?

All those non-virgin men that are looking for virgin women, may God never grant you your request, a non-virgin man deserves a non-virgin lady and vice versa.

Shortyy:
And assuming you love this man and doesn't want to lose him?

Do you go for "pre degree" without aspiring university admission

Still not a valid reason

MMXX:
Do you go for "pre degree" without aspiring university admission

Still not a valid reason

You don't understand. As a lady, it's not easy to lose someone you love.

This is why, I'll advice any virgin to make God their friend, and forget men. When the time comes, your own husband will come.