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People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Wittyglam(f): 8:09pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Why do people keep saying mother's always poison the great of their children against the father? I want your honest opinion before sharing mine. I have a video on this topic, will be sharing it soon.
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Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Klass99(f): 8:45pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
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Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by longetivity(m): 9:14pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
kids spend more times with their mother and share little or no connection with their father. 8 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Wittyglam(f): 9:17pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
This is another angle and I appreciate you sharing this. Klass99: 4 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Wittyglam(f): 9:18pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Because they are rarely around. longetivity: |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
This happens mostly in families where fathers hardly have time for the kids. Where fathers place their jobs above their families. Klass99: This is my story too but I don let mama know say, it’s my dad first because na him try pass, taking care of the family’s finances solely. 6 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Klass99(f): 9:58pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
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Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Auladimeji(m): 10:22pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
The boys will later love their father when they grow up and start seeing what it takes to be a man 6 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by yomi007k(m): 10:32pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Auladimeji: Absolutely. 2 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by tobechi74: 6:23am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Because men act like dictators and disciplinarian and mother's arevhis first love |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by SAMBARRY: 6:42am On Nov 11, 2020 |
True Setting up your kids against each other as a father or mother is the worst mistake you can ever make as a parent Because when these kids grow and mature to know their left from Their right and to know your strength and weaknesses, they'll be able to tell who is lying or painting the other in a bad light among you 2 and if they find out you're the liar they'll never trust you again and anything you say about their father or mother will look like a lie to them and the day you're not lying they'll conclude you're lying because according to them "Na your way" If you do too much or over complain about either the mother or father the kids will say leave our mother or father like that we like her like that and you will be seen as the bad person You too put yourself in the child's shoes,how do you feel when someone is always badmouthing your father or mother e.g your father is a wicked man, your mother is a thief as opposed to your father I hardworking, your mother is kind.of course it's natural tendency to always love the person that says sweet things about your parents vis-a-vis the one who has something negative to say about your father or mother 3 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by pozehnani(f): 8:05am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Well I don't know whether to agree to this summise or not because it true in a way but not totally true in the sense which you're trying to put it. What do I mean?... Now, it's not as if mothers outrightly Poison the children's mind agains their fathers but you know women tend to confide in their children (when they have come off age) and complain about what their father does sometimes to the children just so the children can console her. And some children might take such treatments from their dad ( against their mother) to heart and want to use it against their dad. So that sort of make it look like the mother has poisoned their minds. Which was why I partly agreed and disagreed a bit with the Ops' summation. Mothers do that a lot but in the light which I just pointed out. And it's no fault of theirs as the children are the next person to turn to for soccuour when Dad starts being grumpy. The good thing is that we still try to love them both at the end of the day. |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Auladimeji: True..... At first you won't really see it cos the society tends to praise a woman when she breathes but for a man he isn't regarded as much..... Later in life we begin to see how much our fathers tried and worked for us 1 Like |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by ImaIma1(f): 9:28am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Klass99: There's a lot of truth in this. Boys tend to take their mother's words hook line and sinker while the girls see through her, probably because they are also females and understand their mother's manipulations. It even affects the boys when it comes to picking a wife. Their mothers can influence their decisions while the girls will most times stand their ground against her mother. 5 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Hathor5(f): 9:49am On Nov 11, 2020 |
See men acting like victims instead of taking responsibility for not taking responsibility when they should have. Mothers do not poison their children's hearts, children come to an understanding that you didn't live up to your expectations and responsibilities. No child resents a responsible loving father. 4 Likes |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Klass99(f): 3:11pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
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Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by Wittyglam(f): 5:45am On Nov 12, 2020 |
I love all the beautiful contributions in here and I'm learning a lot. Thank you guys for taking out your time to explain or share your story. 1 Like |
Re: People Keep Saying This And I Don't Understand Why? by ImaIma1(f): 8:19am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Klass99: No. I will train them to be independent. They way my mum did for us. She used to tell us that whoever we pick to marry is our decision because we are the ones that will live in the house with them. 1 Like |
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