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Please are they right about me? all my friends all call me fool, they laugh at me because of inability to have a girlfriend. I feel worthless right now

It's not about what they it's about who you are..

So op tell us why are you still a vee and never had a gf

You are not worthless trust me, many of us who delved unto sexual immorality early in life, wish right now that we had known better. Just keep your mind off it and focus your energy on positive stuffs to improve yourself. Kudos.

Lordjiggs09:
You are not worthless trust me, many of us who delved unto sexual immorality early in life, wish right now that we had known better. Just keep your mind off it and focus your energy on positive stuffs to improve yourself. Kudos.

@Op; he is right

Mscheeew


Guy focus on yourself and what you want, not what they want for you...

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Wahala be like lekki toll gate

Not what they say you are! but 'who do you say you are'? and who does God say you are? "man know thyself" says a great phylosopher. "no one can make you inferior except you first make yourself inferior". discover yourself and your purpose and live your dreams.. all that matters in the life is God.not ephemeral vanities like sex or pleasure.

Ferrocene:
It's not about what they it's about who you are..

So op tell us why are you still a vee and never had a gf

I just feel like if I disvirgin I'm going to be punish by God. One thing about me is that if I sin today I may see the repercussion very soon.

my guy ya doing well dont listen to them

Englishisamust:
Please are they right about me? all my friends all call me fool, they laugh at me because of inability to have a girlfriend. I feel worthless right now

How old are you?

What is the problem ?
Inability to have a girlfriend
Or you just don’t like being a virgin anymore?

Funkyswagzz:
How old are you?

20

vickydankal:
What is the problem ?
Inability to have a girlfriend
Or you just don’t like being a virgin anymore?

Bae, come disVirgin me, I cannot have a girlfriend. I am very bashful when I am in the presence of a girl. My mum button is on cruise control when I am with her.

Englishisamust:
20

Boy, consider yourself lucky. Use that energy and learn a skill precisely on digital marketing. Give yourself wholly to books and materials that would edify you into greatness. Been in a relationship comes with lots of responsibility and if you put her in the family way (though condoms and birth control measures would make that impossible) you would understand that being a single guy is blessing.

Englishisamust:
Please are they right about me?


all my friends all call me fool, they laugh at me because of inability to have a girlfriend.


I feel worthless right now

too many things are going on around you which you have to check before you end up in quagmire of trouble.

you asked if people are right about you( meaning you do not know yourself to definr who you are......you left this job for people with their own issues)

the second is when you said you have inability to have a girlfriend?(meaning you want to have a girlfriend)

which leads us to the third comment.you are just feeling regret because all your friends are telling you they had gf and have sex and you do not.

so where are you in all of these bruhaha!


because I can't even see you taking a stand in anything right Now

Go and fuckkk jor, you are a guy.


incase you don't know na me talk

Englishisamust:
20

At that age I was having best time of my life and I remember my mum telling me I shud stay away from buh I didn't listen to her. When i look back now I realized it cost me alot of things. Don't give in to any peer pressure buh go with ur instincts. The moment u desist from those bad friends and face the reality ur life will be alot beta. U are more than 18 and u can archive alot if u put ur mind to it. Do not engage in something u will regret in life. Trade careful cos those guys bringin u down are not worth being ur friend. Few yrs from now u might not be them be with them. U can have conversation with any girl u wish to they don't bite. Don't not rush into anything patience is a virtue

Funkyswagzz:
At that age I was having best time of my life and I remember my mum telling me I shud stay away from buh I didn't listen to her. When i look back now I realized it cost me alot of things. Don't give in to any peer pressure buh go with ur instincts. The moment u desist from those bad friends and face the reality ur life will be alot beta. U are more than 18 and u can archive alot if u put ur mind to it. Do not engage in something u will regret in life. Trade careful cos those guys bringin u down are not worth being ur friend. Few yrs from now u might not be them be with them. U can have conversation with any girl u wish to they don't bite. Don't not rush into anything patience is a virtue

Thanks

Don't listen to anyone. Do you know everybody is right base on thier perspective, the moment you start being yourself. You go dey okay. I will advise you to leave those ur friend. They are very toxic, they can ruin your life. They want you to be like them because you are different.

Godada:
Bae, come disVirgin me, I cannot have a girlfriend. I am very bashful when I am in the presence of a girl. My mum button is on cruise control when I am with her.

At this age you should center your attention on working on yourself and finding purpose. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. I married my husband a virgin just as I was. With the benefits it’s giving me, I’d train my boys to maintain sexual purity as the girls. It’s a blessing.

Your friends feels inferior before you , they want you to be same with them. You see sex there’s nothing in it, it’s a temporary feeling that wears away sooner than later, before you know it will come up again. Channel that energy into something useful

I am guy of 28 years and still a virgin. I don't blame you because you are still experiencing puberty age. Don't allow your bad friends to influence your life, there is an adage that say if you can't beat them , you leave them. Even at my age ,some of my friends still laugh at me because of that. Peace of mind and good relationship with your God is the best . Don't give a Bleep about whatever they say , focus your energy on something positive. Makes friends that can encourage mover higher in life , you should focus on your education now. Sex is overrated!

vickydankal:
At this age you should center your attention on working on yourself and finding purpose. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. I married my husband a virgin just as I was. With the benefits it’s giving me, I’d train my boys to maintain sexual purity as the girls. It’s a blessing.

Your friends feels inferior before you , they want you to be same with them. You see sex there’s nothing in it, it’s a temporary feeling that wears away sooner than later, before you know it will come up again. Channel that energy into something useful

That's something really rare these days. I was being mischievous, madam. Good luck with Motherhood.