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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by tetralogyfallot(m): 5:00pm On Nov 17, 2020
sighting:
Yes I have had wet dreams it usually happens when I don't have sex for a long time plus I do masturbate once or twice in a month
hope u have overcome it bro
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting(op): 3:52am On Dec 12, 2021
tetralogyfallot:
hope u have overcome it bro
No
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting(op): 3:55am On Dec 12, 2021
MXD5050:
0806 472 9707 WhatsApp for relationship issues. talk to a qualified counselor a sex therapist and a relationship expert Mr. T
I need to talk to you please.Your line isn't reachable.
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by tetralogyfallot(m): 7:32am On Dec 12, 2021
sighting:
No
nothing is wrong with you. What's happening is acute anxiety as a result of adrenaline rush into your system. When adrenaline is released it causes constriction of blood vessels which causes your heart to beat faster and before you know it blood will not be able to flow down your penile area. The penile muscles needs to be dilated to allow blood flows into it to achieve hardness necessary for penetration. Your WhatsApp contact is not there I would have chatted u. The solution is very very simple.
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by kizzoh(m): 8:07am On Dec 12, 2021
I used to have this problem back in the days.
Usually happens when I am with a new girl . don't worryy guy , I have the solution to your problem . chat me up on WhatsApp 08033853625. E no be watin we go talk for public.
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting(op):
[quote author=tetralogyfallot post=108422469]nothing is wrong with you. What's happening is acute anxiety as a result of adrenaline rush into your system. When adrenaline is released it causes constriction of blood vessels which causes your heart to beat faster and before you know it blood will not be able to flow down your penile area. The penile muscles needs to be dilated to allow blood flows into it to achieve hardness necessary for penetration. Your WhatsApp contact is not there I would have chatted u. The solution is very very simple
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Tboymessiah(m): 10:44am On Aug 20, 2022
klenton:
Bros your completely normal
i remember when i use to date this very pretty and beautiful gal around my area, her father was a former commissioner and highly respected, i loved her and wanted to keep her forever, then anxiety set in and after the first time of sex with her, i couldnt maintain an erection with her anymore, i will be very hard and Hot but once she comes my dee will just go flaccid, the more we try to get it up, the more flat it becomes, but once she leaves the dee will immediately Jack up, it became bad that anytime she calls me and i hear" are you at home" my mind will just skip, anxiety sets in and the previous episodes of me not getting up will start playing in my mind.

TBH it did my affect my relationship with her, but after meeting a therapist, i learnt to relax and see my gal as any other gal, i stopped trying too hard to sexually impress her, i focused more on our friendship and less on sex.

the biggest mistake you can ever do is having it at the back of your mind like your doing now, with that you will never get erection with her cus the fear of not getting up will make it not to get up.

if it's possible tell her no sex for now, when she comes do not initiate sex, tell yourself you don't owe her and watch the anxiety disappear.
I wonder why guys are always at the receiving end of everything, while a woman just needs to open leg whether she likes you or not, whether she is anxious or not, the thing go enter.... I swear a man's world is not easy, see my man naw, see Toto em no fit chop.
I want to make am enquiry,

1, was it after the first round, u won't be able to sustained erection for the second round..

That is, there was first round sex but no erection for second round.

In this case, what professional therapist can someone meet....

And can it be due to back pain.

Hope to hear from you
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by dnawah(m): 10:45am On Aug 20, 2022
sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?
e fit no be anxiety o! Maybe your penis is trying to save u from the unknown.tell me your location and I'll tell wat to do?
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Tboymessiah(m): 10:46am On Aug 20, 2022
Skmoda:
dude, take your mind off sex and see everything fall in place.....you just need to stop taking drugs. Do you have any underlying ailment or you do take drugs to fvck women before? If yes, stop and stay off sex for a while....and change your diet...go protein and eat lotta fruits and more water.....
Sometime ago I do use some herbs before sex, I discovered I couldn't go for second round sex, I tried almost everything but to no avail, just one round is it because of the herbs?
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Tboymessiah(m): 10:52am On Aug 20, 2022
Skmoda:
You need to see a psychologist or sex therapist lipsrsealed. sad....or better still you suffering from pussy phobia...... Or maybe it's anxiety disorder.... grin my take though.
Can one find a sex therapist in teaching hospital, or suggest a professional name to ask for at the hospital
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Tboymessiah(m): 11:05am On Aug 20, 2022
MXD5050:
0806 472 9707 WhatsApp for relationship issues. talk to a qualified counselor a sex therapist and a relationship expert Mr. T
Ur number is off, and it's not on watsaap
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Freelane33(m): 11:31am On Aug 20, 2022
sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?
You go spend money grin grin
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Kingsdave(m): 5:39am On Jan 11, 2023
fetrillion:
I had the same problem some weeks back.This was d problem:Each time i tried to penetrate after i might have got erection,my prick just goes flat.
The solution:I told my doctor n he said I sud get sidafi tablet,I got to the nearest pharmacist,I explained n he recommended a pill "embagral forte"...
After I finished using the tablet,my system got back to normal.
Note:calm ur nerves down before u penetrate n do a lot of romance
How long did you use it please...
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