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I am in a family of six inwhich i am the senior among them.But i had this issue with my parents that made me angry always,the issue is that they always take side on my sibling lead them to irregular insult from them.
So please i u guys advise

mikebrain5:
I am in a family of six inwhich i am the senior among them.But i had this issue with my parents that made me angry always,the issue is that they always take side on my sibling lead them to irregular insult from them.
So please i u guys advise

Before I comment, how old are you?

JidennaJason:
Same way God ordered Abraham to leave his father's house is the same way I want to order you out of that place.

Kai!

What if the guy is not of age yet? What if he's 18?

18

mikebrain5:
18

Young man, God is building you up in life. Pray and ask God for strength in adversity. If you cannot survive in your parents house, you cannot survive anywhere else.

Love your siblings unconditionally.

boldx:
Young man, God is building you up in life. Pray and ask God for strength in adversity. If you cannot survive in your parents house, you cannot survive anywhere else.

Love your siblings unconditionally.

OK SIR

Maybe you are old enough to move out. It's one thing that happens between parents and children

mikebrain5:
I am in a family of six inwhich i am the senior among them.But i had this issue with my parents that made me angry always,the issue is that they always take side on my sibling lead them to irregular insult from them.
So please i u guys advise

How is your attitude towards your parents?
What brought about the whole issue?
Could it be that you disrespected your parents, which your younger siblings couldn't tolerate, then stood up to you?
Not everyone that brings their complaint to nairaland is innocent.

mariahAngel:
How is your attitude towards your parents?
What brought about the whole issue?
Could it be that you disrespected your parents, which your younger siblings couldn't tolerate, then stood up to you?
Not everyone that brings their complaint to nairaland is innocent.

Is that so

Have you tried talking to your parents alone about how you if? If yes, and the still didn't change it's time to leave.

mikebrain5:
18

Oboy leave your parents' house and never return again.

NairalandSARS:
Oboy leave your parents' house and never return again.

See advise
Inside life.

So it’s actually shocking and funny when people act like you commit heresy by saying African parents are toxic and/or abusive. This is not me pointing an accusing finger at your family (although if you feel attacked, check your family) and it is by no means a generalization. I think it’s interesting how people I’ve interacted with that have abusive parents never agree that their parents are abusive but are sometimes the same ones that say the minute they move out of their parents’ house, they’re done with their parents.

I believe and always say that the first step to progress is acceptance, you’ve got to accept your reality as it is, no painting and colouring. How do you explain parents cutting their children with broken plates because they broke a plate? Or how do you explain a parent constantly using whips and belt heads to flog their children? Or you think that’s too extreme? What about the parents whose teaching/correction/love language is cane? Or slaps? Are you raising goats?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/20/most-african-parents-are-toxic/