Love should start from the family. Was my family even together? All i saw was my mum keeping conflict with all her siblings and telling us not to communicate with any of them.
My mum and dad always fighting and we the kids rushing out to separate.
My dad cheating on my mum severally, doesn't even bring money for anything in the house. My mum always complain to us how she regrets marrying him . She was the bread winner in our family. She is strong and independent.
Wish they paid more attention to their kids especially me.
Then we go to school? All the bullying i faced from other kids there, i was strong too like my mum so i never let their bullying win over me.
Though you may ignore bullies but they can really damage someone's mental health.
My childhood was no fun, all i did was study just to pass grades.
There comes my elder brother who also bullies me at home too.
Hanging out with family and friends? No
Partying? No
Dating/having sex? No
I lived like a nun, was in so much isolation. This was when i learnt to start isolating myself.
Then i found out am intersex, another big problem in my life. I had to drop out of school due to the bullying i faced for being different.
My mum had to tell me to leave, she couldn't bear to keep on seeing me like this. At least my mum and younger bro were the best people that ever happened to me.
I left home long time ago, started surviving in this cruel world alone looking so androgynous. Everyone would stare at me wondering ''is that a girl or a boy"
Difficult for me finding a job or making good social relationship. Everyone was confused about my gender.
So then i had to stick to the female gender i identified with the most then most of the bullying and society stigmatization became less.
I still need to do lot of surgeries on myself but so far am still thriving.
It been hell so far and loneliness.

JidennaJason:
What do you really need now?

Consolation from Nairalanders or crowdfunding?

My dear, keep on living your life and enjoy doing so.

just venting.

Finding a rich man is my priority now

Oya come hug me, all ur pains go vanish.

Ok

IntersexSherry:
just venting.

Not a bad thing though, but you could have put this venting epistle in the diary section.

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

Poor woman, poor sense...

Instead of you to embrace happiness first...

JidennaJason:
Not a bad thing though, but you could have put this venting epistle in the diary section.

is there a diary section

JidennaJason:
Poor woman, poor sense...

Instead of you to embrace happiness first...

and how will you get the happiness?

Yeah good luck with that

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

IntersexSherry:
and how will you get the happiness?

Find your own happiness...

Thats why i hate posting in this section. No viewers . smh

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

Why not make your self rich by working hard??


You don't have to be this dependent on people's money....

yanabasee:



Why not make your self rich by working hard??


You don't have to be this dependent on people's money....

i said i can't find a good job

IntersexSherry:
i said i can't find a good job

Because you're not doing enough to get your desired job.


Take sometimes off social media and reminisce on your deficiency and what you should do.


Either to buy two expensive wears for appearance sake...Then good hair cut and work on your conversation approach and facial composure....


Or then, look for a skill to augment your standard.


People want to employ people that will ADD VALUE TO THEIR COMPANY. Not people that wants to come there and be gossiping their entire family problems!

yanabasee:




Because you're not doing enough to get your desired job.


Take sometimes off social media and reminisce on your deficiency and what you should do.


Either to buy two expensive wears for appearance sake...Then good hair cut and work on your conversation approach and facial composure....


Or then, look for a skill to augment your standard.


People want to employ people that will ADD VALUE TO THEIR COMPANY. Not people that wants to come there and be gossiping their entire family problems!

the thing i havent done my service

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

Don't make it your priority... you will scare them away...

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

GOLD DIGGER

I've been following your story for quite some time now, made me start researching more about intersex. I bet nobody can understand what you've been through but believe me when i say i know somethings about being different. Only thing i just want to tell you is that continue being strong in heart and mind, i know it ain't easy but trust me you'll be okay. Afterall there's always light at the end of the tunnel!

It really crazy here on NL, so many people owns their lives to seun because if they cough they coming to NL to rant without NL there would've been high rise in suicide and depression would've killed millions youths and adults, Op is an example of clout chaser.

IntersexSherry:
Finding a rich man is my priority now

I just pray you don't end up finding untimely death instead of you to work hard you busy looking free meals, you won't only find gold to dig but they will find your ugly ass hole to dig you know what I mean, lmao

olamide0147:

I just pray you don't end up finding untimely death instead of you to work hard you busy looking free meals, you won't only find gold to dig but they will find your ugly ass hole to dig you know what I mean, lmao

Y'all need to let her dig her gold in peace. I believe y'all only speak out of ignorance, do you know how much her surgery is gonna cost? Am yet to see where she's begging anyone for money btw, only thing is see is her trying to find a quick and easy way to her problem so if you can't be the gold source, oga just move on!

Even those who were shown love from childhood will still end up being miserable due to the economic situation of NIgeria. so what ya saying

okoIYAyin:


Y'all need to let her dig her gold in peace. I believe y'all only speak out of ignorance, do you know how much her surgery is gonna cost? Am yet to see where she's begging anyone for money btw, only thing is see is her trying to find a quick and easy way to her problem so if you can't be the gold source, oga just move on!

Hey boy I'm not speaking out of ignorance I've known about tranny for years yeah you heard me right tranny that's what they called you western world but must she brings her issues here everytime, is she/he trying to promote gay if you had any personal issues you come here to seek advice or solution but not become a clout chaser and stupid attention seeker.

You chooses to be miserable, yeah shits happened while growing up and I can't dispute the fact that it really tough on you because of you being a tranny but once you reached the maturity age hey mate you responsible for your life and whatsoever that comes your way, you have no one else to be blamed rather than yourself because you can only chose whom you want to be, no one else can.

olamide0147:

Hey boy I'm not speaking out of ignorance I've known about tranny for years yeah you heard me right tranny that's what they called you western world but must she brings her issues here everytime, is she/he trying to promote gay if you had any personal issues you come here to seek advice or solution but not become a clout chaser and stupid attention seeker.

Lol intersex and tranny are slightly different, one is intentional/choice while the other isn't, get more enlightened boy!

olamide0147:
You chooses to be miserable, yeah shits happened while growing up and I can't dispute the fact that it really tough on you because of you being a tranny but once you reached the maturity age hey mate you responsible for your life and whatsoever that comes your way, you have no one else to be blamed rather than yourself because you can only chose whom you want to be, no one else can.

you are an idiot. No doubt

okoIYAyin:


Lol intersex and tranny are slightly different, one is intentional/choice while the other isn't, get more enlightened boy!

dont mind the idiot. They are the Reason why people like myself suffer. Because of their ignorance and hate

While I agree with you to an extent, I know that one is not doomed to fail because of his upbringing. While we can not change the past, we can change the future, we can overcome a loveless upbringing by showing love to others!

Hezekiah in the Bible was a good example. I will share my research on him on how he overcome his loveless upbringing and became one of the best kings of Judah!

IntersexSherry:
Love should start from the family. Was my family even together? All i saw was my mum keeping conflict with all her siblings and telling us not to communicate with any of them.
My mum and dad always fighting and we the kids rushing out to separate.
My dad cheating on my mum severally, doesn't even bring money for anything in the house. My mum always complain to us how she regrets marrying him . She was the bread winner in our family. She is strong and independent.
Wish they paid more attention to their kids especially me.
Then we go to school? All the bullying i faced from other kids there, i was strong too like my mum so i never let their bullying win over me.
Though you may ignore bullies but they can really damage someone's mental health.
My childhood was no fun, all i did was study just to pass grades.
There comes my elder brother who also bullies me at home too.
Hanging out with family and friends? No
Partying? No
Dating/having sex? No
I lived like a nun, was in so much isolation. This was when i learnt to start isolating myself.
Then i found out am intersex, another big problem in my life. I had to drop out of school due to the bullying i faced for being different.
My mum had to tell me to leave, she couldn't bear to keep on seeing me like this. At least my mum and younger bro were the best people that ever happened to me.
I left home long time ago, started surviving in this cruel world alone looking so androgynous. Everyone would stare at me wondering ''is that a girl or a boy"
Difficult for me finding a job or making good social relationship. Everyone was confused about my gender.
So then i had to stick to the female gender i identified with the most then most of the bullying and society stigmatization became less.
I still need to do lot of surgeries on myself but so far am still thriving.
It been hell so far and loneliness.

Do you realise you can be rich too and then chose what gives you happiness and stick with it? You see all those people you see walking with confidence? Most are just faking it, we all have insecurities. Brain wash yourself that you are the next best thing after sliced bread and the internet. Stop letting people determine how you feel. All these your threads about being intersex don plenty. Embrace yourself. Even Miss world has insecurities.