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Yes!! Have you ever been ditched emotionally? A breakup text message,a breakup call? Physical confrontation or avoidance? As far back as I can remember,I have always done the ditching or we mutually just fall apart. I've never had to deal with such emotions.
I mean how do people lose themselves in depression because some stranger walked out of their life? My friend! Get another lover and keep moving! What does a man mean by "Adaora stole my heart".....a lady ,"Mike shattered my world". Rubbish! Better fight to get a better partner than lose yourself.

Being used and dumped used to be a big deal to me then when I was still a white knight and a Simp.
But thank God for the miseducations and TRP.
I don't give a flying fvck whom she's going to be fvcking next these days as long as av had my own share.
Inortherwords I don't care who has been swimming there
Who is swimming with me
Who will be swimming afterwards
I just swim my own and move ON

Wahala for who wan ditch me
I will Bleep you emotionally

Relationship should not be exclusive ownership. Have open relationship.give your partner freedom to sleep with another. There will be less break up

Break up occur because we force people to stick with only one person.
What is so special in monogamous relationship? If monogamy is natural, why do we struggle at it? No one teaches fish how to swim? Why do we have books on how to avoid cheating? To answer this question,we look at what researchers revealed

Evolutionary scientist David Barish compared monogamy among various animals.

Only 9 percent of mammals practice monogamy

29 percent of primates are monogamous

Before westernisation, 86 percent of indigenous society are no monogamous

Overfamiliarisation with a partner kills a woman libido

30 percent of women have extra-marital affair despite being happy with their marriage.

The numbers are against monogamy. One advantage of monogamy over polygamy is the assurance of a mate for every male. No group of wealthy powerful men can marry off all the women leaving the non powerful men single.. AThe spread of Christianity could be be a dominant factor. Monogamy offers an exclusive sence of ownership each woman on the man rather than having to share him with other women.

Monogamy restricts each party from love and sex with another. Are these two not one of the sweetest feelings? Limited my experience of them should be seen as punnishnent and not something to jubilate to.

In casual friendship, my friend could have other friends beside me and I am cool with that. But in monogamy, It is me and me alone. Any attempt to share love and sex with another is considered cheating. A woman should only love one guy but she can share her love among her children equally. Why can’t she love six men equally? Is this not hypocrisy? It means the heart is capable of loving many but man Jealously choose to limit it to one. In some cases, we argue over what constitutes exclusive acts? Holding hands, seeing one another naked,sharing a bed, kissing etc.

Before we say monogamy is natural, think again.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/

tobechi74:
Relationship should not be exclusive ownership. Have open relationship.give your partner freedom to sleep with another. There will be less break up

Break up occur because we force people to stick with only one person.
What is so special in monogamous relationship? If monogamy is natural, why do we struggle at it? No one teaches fish how to swim? Why do we have books on how to avoid cheating? To answer this question,we look at what researchers revealed

Evolutionary scientist David Barish compared monogamy among various animals.

Only 9 percent of mammals practice monogamy

29 percent of primates are monogamous

Before westernisation, 86 percent of indigenous society are no monogamous

Overfamiliarisation with a partner kills a woman libido

30 percent of women have extra-marital affair despite being happy with their marriage.

The numbers are against monogamy. One advantage of monogamy over polygamy is the assurance of a mate for every male. No group of wealthy powerful men can marry off all the women leaving the non powerful men single.. AThe spread of Christianity could be be a dominant factor. Monogamy offers an exclusive sence of ownership each woman on the man rather than having to share him with other women.

Monogamy restricts each party from love and sex with another. Are these two not one of the sweetest feelings? Limited my experience of them should be seen as punnishnent and not something to jubilate to.

In casual friendship, my friend could have other friends beside me and I am cool with that. But in monogamy, It is me and me alone. Any attempt to share love and sex with another is considered cheating. A woman should only love one guy but she can share her love among her children equally. Why can’t she love six men equally? Is this not hypocrisy? It means the heart is capable of loving many but man Jealously choose to limit it to one. In some cases, we argue over what constitutes exclusive acts? Holding hands, seeing one another naked,sharing a bed, kissing etc.

Before we say monogamy is natural, think again.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/

Great information.

peppermint7:
Wahala for who wan ditch me
I will Bleep you emotionally

After or before the ditching?

LordVaiki:
After or before the ditching?

Both

Aswear it can never happen, me dat always do like robot



You leave you loose

Yamiriflathead:
Being used and dumped used to be a big deal to me then when I was still a white knight and a Simp.
But thank God for the miseducations and TRP.
I don't give a flying fvck whom she's going to be fvcking next these days as long as av had my own share.
Inortherwords I don't care who has been swimming there
Who is swimming with me
Who will be swimming afterwards
I just swim my own and move ON

Lol...just becareful so that one day you do not end up swimming in a pool, that takes you away.

peppermint7:
Both

Ghost mode.

narit:
Lol...just becareful so that one day you do not end up swimming in a pool, that takes you away.

biggest fear ever when a man is about to swim even with condom...." Hope this ain't ma Waterloo?