Mike7302:
Let hear your story, also how do you make the relationship intresting, because we introverts keep to ourself a lot. I just want to learn from u guys.

She toasted me.


Just work on yourself and your confidence, build your career, Investments and business.

You can be shy and introverted, but you are confident and you take no nonsense, don't look for people's validation, be yourself and be knowledgeable and intelligent. Learn how to personally make yourself happy and independent.

With these you will end up being a very smooth operator and then make your choice at your own terms and conditions.

People won't understand what makes you thick, in short you will become the definition of that mysterious gentleman

I don't have to talk about it now!

Na toast dem toast am for me

We met on whatsapp. We are both members of thesame organization in school, so she chated me up one evening about needing a Cv urgently for an award, i helped her out and from there we clicked. The love was mutual.

Reading post on nairaland is getting boring these days. The number of juvenile who are keyboard happy to post is getting crazy. In particular, the number of unhappy kids who either grew up in dysfunctioned homes or are just trying to trend by posting unreasonable comments is annoying.

COdeGenesis:
Okay. I have had my fair share of tales with babes. Being an introvert can be frustrating especially when loneliness sets in. I evaluated my life and discovered I was living in isolatíon so I decided to be more social. I stroll out after I am back from work, I go to mid-week and Sunday church service, I hang out in some popular places bi-weekly n I also engage people in a short chat. With time I got to meet some babes. Facebook is also a nice place to get babes. I have never met a nairaland babe. Lolz. Stressful. But I have noticed that I get tired of them with time and crawl back to my lonely nest

You are not alone in this department

Mike7302:
Let hear your story, also how do you make the relationship intresting, because we introverts keep to ourself a lot. I just want to learn from u guys.

I was too introverted to love. I don't love any lady no feeling.
Im starting to learn how to love. I'm not shy asking girls out. I'm senior man iny hood , I'm not shy from anyone or anything. I talk to ladies with boldness and authority.
But when I'm supposed to be in my quiet time I will joyfully miss your calls.
My introversion is on extreme level once my mind is closed I've forgotten you sincerely.

I will be very nice to my future wife, I've start tolerating a lot of things for my future sake.

Social media nah wetin I dey use.

anochuko01:
My first gf had been my class mate since primary two .

I met the last one online, broken up though.

I've got about 10 different girls I'm talking to now, met all of them online but not dating anyone of them. Just gist


My online game is MAD
lol

We gather dey for this table! ��
Honestly, it isn't so easy for introverts. The best way out is to be BLUNT about your feelings even if it's from day1 on your first date.

Based on my experience, introverts tends to get attached and then used by cheats/hoes whom can easily play us around

cynthia500:
“Focus on being productive instead of been lazy and always resting.”
You don’t need to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.
When someone says you can’t do it, do it twice and take pictures.
“I didn’t get there by wishing for it, but by working for it.”
She remembered who she was and the game changed.
If you’re too comfortable, it’s time to move on. Terrified of what’s next? You’re on the right track.
Be happy with what you have while working for what you want.”
Sunshine all the time makes a desert.”
The big lesson in life is never be scared of anyone or anything

Nice
Proactivity Leads To Productivity!

© Seniorwriter

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SmellySperm:
My charger got blown at where i was charging so she offered me hers,na so we take start

But nothing come out, relationship na scam,farm toolz everywhere, can't trust these pusssy people

you’re not introverted at all. You are just looking for an opportunity to bash females. Your type is what any self respecting lady should stay away from.

Please let actual introverts answer.

when u are introverted nd handsome you are on a different level na girls go dey rush u

Chii59:
Yawns. Day don break

Wetin u dey yawn for? Day done break how? Abi u think say na every guy get d power n time to chase una up n down?

Pierocash:
If you are handsome,meeting them won't be a hard nut to crack.

I am an introvert,but believe me ,I don't struggle to get one whenever I need. Friendship, politeness,and hospitality has been my strongest technique. Believe me,it doesn't fail

100% correct, it works like magic

emonis88:

Wetin u dey yawn for? Day done break how? Abi u think say na every guy get d power n time to chase una up n down?

Why are you crying all over my comment? Did you see me in your dream?

fati2001:



I hail oooh. coming from a hoe. you too you are very useless

As I see the Korean pics I just remember this person. Mrs Korean why lie that your married ?
Your comment and pics shows you're very young.

Preshieben:
your mom too huh?

Am Disappointed.

kalufelix:
Was-introduced-to-her-by-a-cousin-brother...beautifully-dressed-in-a-white-silk-gown...she-really-loves-me-and-understand-my-personality...she-is-like-the-supplement-that-has-been-lacking-in-my-diet...oh!-my-sweet-MaryJane...you-are-the-best-thing-that-happened-to-my-existence...what-could-i-have-done-without-you...

Your writing pattern is childish and silly, grow up.

My own typa introvert is the funny and interesting typa introvert.....if I see a lady I like, I'll just crack my normal jokes, make her happy and prolly keep awa conversation lively....after that, the rest is history

Seriously if you are good looking, ladies will tire u. u will even see d ones that will spend on u once u are loyal, polite, friendly, hospitable and above all SEXUALLY MAD. ladies and
married women dnt allow to me rest in where I work and church.....
if I lie thunder fire me.....

I had been admiring mine since 2017, just managed to approach her Dad, yes i did,i met her dad earlier this year, retired civil servant. He's a very popular man our street, he buys newspaper everyday, buys two each. So me i do just pretend like i went to read the papers early in the morning, and i will be using style to look inside the compound, just to get a glimpse of her. I planned , i became close to her dad, discussed polictics and history. Me wey be werey, i so impressed the guy with my little knowledge and my use of diction, na so the man introduce my babe to me. He told me she was in YCT, and she needed intelligent people like me lol, well after all said and done, the rest is history. We are still together and I also argue with her dad every Saturday, the man too like me.

They said i don't have a trait or they are confused. Until psychologist researched about my type i will sit here.

i was in the house eating indomie,wen she came knocking that she wanted to run a routine inspection on my apartment then she was working with an estate angency

GboyegaD:
Reading post on nairaland is getting boring these days. The number of juvenile who are keyboard happy to post is getting crazy. In particular, the number of unhappy kids who either grew up in dysfunctioned homes or are just trying to trend by posting unreasonable comments is annoying.

nobody is happy or majority are not happy in this country. We suffer from schizophrenia google it

Pierocash:
If you are handsome,meeting them won't be a hard nut to crack.

I am an introvert,but believe me ,I don't struggle to get one whenever I need. Friendship, politeness,and hospitality has been my strongest technique. Believe me,it doesn't fail

Then u aren't introverted if you know how to make new friends upon meeting total strangers

themaestro08:


I am currently in a forex wats app group with endless lectures and trainings. I'm tired as Af . How does yours work?

Ours ain't Fx...Do well to message us so we don't spam

The problem with introvert is the talking part, I have my moment, I can't talk all the time, honestly we are the most productive people, we do our work, we think, but relationships is hard, I don't know about any other person, but for me, very difficult, being a perfectionist is another problem, once I set my rules, the moment it is broken, there is no fixing it, I can't shout, I don't need therapy to know you are lying about anything.

Getting a lady is very easy, keeping them, that is what I just don't know how to do, the call, the check thingy, the constant out with strange people, I like my relationship private and only divulge what I want to, friends must go through a process of validation and verification, I don't meet someone and then we are friends, huh! Not possible!

Overall, ladies like to talk too much, and they don't like honest individuals, they like to unravel things, if you are honest and straightforward it means nothing to unravel, in which case you are uninteresting.

yunglegend99:
wow I love your write up, seems like you are motivationally inclined just like me. Let's get to know ourselves so we can exchange ideas

Hmmm!!

Through intellectual chats and some come to learn from me while others na through friends.