soulstalker:
A matured man(45-49 yrs) was seen crying bitterly this morning in a bank at surulere, when we tried to console and asked why he was crying, he said the girl he has been spending alot on dumped him for another person. Infact i almost slapped him, so i was wasting my sorry because a girl broke ur heart.

Guys come in here, let's share our emotional sides in break up or failed relationship.

Let's hear yours also

This kind topic.

YEA, MY FIRST AND ONLY LOVE. SADLY I STILL CRY WHEN I REMEMBER HER

cried once.. when I no get sense

l never cried because l am super woman l do the breakups send their annoying selves packing.amma Savage..

Real G's don't catch feelings,we catch cruise. We might stumble but don't fall down.
A joint(Arizona) will settle the scores in 2Sec.

me cry over a relationship I rather drink pap with toothpick

No I haven't cry and I pray make I know cry
But wetin go make me cry hiah anywhere you see just put me asylum cause abeg I take God beg you
Cause I go invest emotionally , financially and the rest without results expect
But I pray make eee no happen
Na just macro heartbreak wey I go use three weeks to 6months forget say you exit
Just drink ,play my music , smoke my Arizona,play football,write songs and sing ee dun finish

Yeah last year.. was depressed for months even .. 5years of my life wasted just like that .

No I haven't cry and I pray make I know cry
But wetin go make me cry hiah anywhere you see just put me for asylum cause abeg I take God beg you

seanwilliam:
Yes during my simping days.. I refused to eat...even though the idiot was giving me gonorrhea back to back I still cry when she left.. odunayo God go purnish u wereva you are

this your comment make me laugh remember something, God go really punish Odunayo and .....

Sure, I couldn't place what I did wrong. She told me she loved me and I loved her more deeply. I would wake up and cry every night for months and to think the same person broke up with me twice. But now, I dey find way to cry say I no fit love that deeply anymore. The level we dey na ''see baby, if you want to leave o biko leave''

Yeah

Fountainofyouth:
Cry ke, I always make sure I'm in control of whatever happens in my relationship cos I don't like being vulnerable.

Here's the lady shouting toxic masculinity in the other thread.
At lest you can see for yourself the lies you tell. Men do cry and they don't get any backlash for it. Ever.



Miss. Strong and Independent.
Feminist Apa

The only time i cried over a failed something ..... was when i cried over a failed bank transaction.
Na money fit make me cry and not "Kpekus'

pocohantas:


You people don’t understand his position. It is not just about the money spent on the girl, but the effort to build another relationship; go through all the stages and get to the peak. That is why when guys get to a certain age, they just look into their old friends list, pick one there and marry.

It isn’t easy to start meeting new people. Asking all the plenty questions; where are you from? What is your favourite colour? Your favourite football player? What club do you support? What is your favourite food? Favourite sex position? Etc...

When you think of all the effort you put into the previous and how to start again, it is enough to break a 49yrs old man down. Not easy mehn!

The thought of a grown man esp 49 just crying over woman esp gf just feels somehow funny to me.

soulstalker:
A matured man(45-49 yrs) was seen crying bitterly this morning in a bank at surulere, when we tried to console and asked why he was crying, he said the girl he has been spending alot on dumped him for another person. Infact i almost slapped him, so i was wasting my sorry because a girl broke ur heart.

Guys come in here, let's share our emotional sides in break up or failed relationship.

Let's hear yours also

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

More tears for them...
Next time they would learn to be Stingy with their finance and spend only on their legally married wife..
Investing on a girlfriend is an exercise in futility without benefits or return of investment..
The fool should cry a river and drink Sniper..

sapphiere:
Yes. He was my first love. My pastor separated us. I was 16 then. He joined choir because of me. One day we were caught. My pastor reported us to our parents. Disgraced us in church on a Sunday service and banned us from singing in the church.

caught doing what, and where

YES. But na me f***up. I repeatedly ignored the obvious signs patiently waiting for a proof. When the proof hit me in the face...the rest is history. I'm grateful for the invaluable lessons that episode taught me.

Them no dey see superman for relationship matter oooo me myself I almost take poisonous powder but thankGod I was able to come of it that was in 2010 but that broken relationship pave way for me to see my God given wife but that same girl that broke my heart then called me just last week to come and take her heart for her birthday after given birth to one,,

Lovelyn451:
u think he's crying for just the relationship? age is not on his side, his mates have grown children instead of encouraging him u want to slap him...na ur type dey make person commit suicide. please allow him, let him cry and relieve himself of all that stress, crying is good for the health

True sha

Erojepromise:
l never cried because l am super woman l do the breakups send their annoying selves packing.amma Savage..

Calm down. Every superman/woman has a kryptonite.

Because of woman cry..... Taaar

I like this. Great point. More wisdom to ur skull

humilitypays:
99% of men don't cry after a breakup....the few that cry cry if they invested so much and couldn't see the lady's pant So they are not crying because of anything called love, they are crying because they made loss. No man who have seen a girl's pant repeatedly cries when the relationship ends


Ladies cry most times, and they don't usually cry because of any romantic love, they cry when they remember how much they gain from the guy in terms of money, gifts, take away, academic support, fantasy of having a future husband that will be spending stupidly on them, etc......




The truth is, romantic love is a fallacy, it does not exist!


What we call love is all infatuation borne out of selfish desires met.....when our selfish expectations are met, we unknowingly develop serious likeness for the person mostly because of the things we benefit from them! Take away the benefits, we start to search for a replacement, which is were lovers claim they have fallen out of love, all na scam.

I have cried and still crying.....
Na me cheat, na me confess, na me dey cry...


I really don't know if it's a sign of weakness but believe me, I cry basically everyday begging her not to leave me but everyday is always worse than the previous. I no even know when I go stop to dey cry self....

So yes, I cry for a girl I love. Because I cheated on her. But wait, how can you cheat on a girl you say you love?

etibaba:
Super story.

Rather than dismissing this as Super Story, why don't you pray for a similar super story and see how it feels first hand?

Yes I have . she happened to be my first love and she did what I didn't even expect . That was the end of the relationship tho we're still friends.

Beverlyjean:
Sure ...I have

let's assume it's the guy you left your bf for that was 30 yrs while your bf was still 23 and out of the country, you then opened your kpekus for the 30 yr old guy who has great job, spends on you. I think that's where you cried after taking your virginity and dumped you after.

In The Light Of Wind.

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Some men cry internally which is the worst type of cry. Below is worth sharing anyway. May God help every man.

True but not all

If I should cry lasan, haha, something bigly terrible must have happened

desgiezd:


Rather than dismissing this as Super Story, why don't you pray for a similar super story and see how it feels first hand?

Pray on my behalf then.

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Some men cry internally which is the worst type of cry. Below is worth sharing anyway. May God help every man.

True, but not all

When they were young, they were jumping around sowing seeds. Like I'll always say, e go clear them for eye one day.