nwaezeemmanuel:
This doesn't cancel the silly conspiracy theory you dropped there

You don't even know the guy!

The fact that I might be right shouldn't be ruled out also

[quote author=internationalman post=96613270]I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Her responsibility is to born babies while yours is to train them. Don't allow what you can't bear. At last, she will call you irresponsible MAN. Be wise!!

Never do things that don't give you peace of mind.

gift2xl:
Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.

shey erection na seasonal something ni

internationalman:


Like your father Buhari destroyed Nigeria.

bros your calling no bi marriage cancelling o, no just venture that line o, you go done too arrange marriage.

That’s women for you
We’re always wanting babies
Discuss with madam she go understand naija is not easy as it is right now.

Me as a woman I don’t mind having 12
Buh this country economy won’t permit me..

Me and future hubby we’re good with 3.. maybe 4

TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

Brother no go try am at all. It's better to take lime secretly before performing so that the sperm won't be strong enough or ask all these abokis, or these agbo pple, if you meet the sincere ones, you'll get it but for now be taking enough lime like 30-60-65mins before performing o. No go joke one kind mini joke cos ath can happen in future and you no go fit call GOD name on top your problem o.

you just sounded like my husband.....me and my womb again ? forgerrit women rule on conception issues

TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

Don't do that, you may need your preeq later on.

When you read from miscreants you'll know that they were the one. See them above

You have to be brave enough because if both of you don't agree on one word she might get it outside and yet allow you to copulate with her.

For now don't have sex with her, because if you decide to used condoms she won't accept.

Read and monitor her wisely

internationalman:


All our female associates were once not the bitching type until they bitched on us

Like I said I'm just saying

Smh

TheRealProphet:
No na...we are both running our home, but the problem is she wanting another baby

Was there a discussion around the number of children wike dating? If yes, stay from there and drive it home to current day reality and the fact that Nigeria might never get better.

TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

Don't do it, if at all you want to do this, your wife should know about it. I understand how she's feeling because I'm also a wife and a mother. Sometimes we just want a balance believing we'll be fine but you can talk to your wife, tell her about the financial stress and also promise her to be patient that if things get better you'll give her another child. Just make her believe you and you'll be fine

Pearly255:
That’s women for you
We’re always wanting babies
Discuss with madam she go understand naija is not easy as it is right now.

Me as a woman I don’t mind having 12
Buh this country economy won’t permit me..

Me and future hubby we’re good with 3.. maybe 4

12?
12
12 disciples

Chai!

Be wise man.

She's pregnant for another man, and she wants to pin it on you.

Years ago, my wife did same, I found out and called a quit to the marriage. Happily living with my two daughters.

DexterousOne:

12?
12
12 disciples

Chai!

I dey tell you

Alaye she is trying to use you like someone rightly said, she might be pregnant for another man and want you to cum in her so she can cover up with that. Lol she said she wants it to be 2 boys and 2 girls and you believed her. Like how did she know that it would be a girl? So if she gives birth to a boy, she will have to get pregnant twice to make it 3 boys and 3 girls?? oga use your head jare.
She played away match jare and dem score am but she wan used you do reflection

women sha.

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

ah, internationalman

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

I will suggest you sell a family vision to her. How do I mean? I plan to have a great business that delivers great products to my customers, after doing this I plan to move my family to Eko Atlantic in the next 10 years, I take my wife to Eko Atlantic to see where we are going to live in 10 years and I give the details of the sacrifices we need to make to ensure that the dream becomes a reality. Sell a vision to your wife, and convince her on the effects of another child to that vision. most importantly follow through with that vision.

TheRealProphet:
multiply with your senses....don't breed almajiri's

What work does she do?

This come mostly from full time house wife.

You need to engage her more broda

SEGLIZ:

bros your calling no bi marriage cancelling o, no just venture that line o, you go done too arrange marriage.

Me that is not sure of even marrying

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Is She Working? Or Does She Av A Job?

Meaning of vasectomy

Oga abeg give your wife belle 4 is not too much if you can take care of 3 additional 1 won't be a problem at least if you are not rich financially be rich children wise.

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

Your thought process is skewed. I pity your future wife & daughter (s)..

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Are you sure that your wife has not played "AWAY-MATCH"?

TheRealProphet:
Condom sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

Is the withdrawal effective?
And why do pple complain that it is not safe, in terms of pregnancy?

Please shed more light, thanks

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

If she insists on having another baby, tell her the nature of your finances, if she still insists, then tell her that she would foot the bill of the incoming baby!

BarrElChapo:


Your thought process is skewed. I pity your future wife & daughter (s)..

My future wife might be your sister or daughter

faithugo64:
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.

If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor).
May peace reign in your home.

Oh, what a beautiful piece of advice, ending with such an equally beautiful prayer/wish for the OP! Your kind heart has touched mine in an easy way. May you find help really easily whenever you need it.