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Today makes its 2 years i lost my mother , Not to mention i lost dad many years before that , 4th of Dec 2018 is a day i hope to ever recover from.

fykes:
Lost my fiancee on my wedding day.
Set me back so many years..

Jesus!!! Am so sorry sir.. . Chai.. . My condolence to her

phelonrays:



Masturbation , this demon was a witch that held me bound for years...!

Not physical neither was it spiritual, but my subconscious mind wouldn't let me rest when ever this demon got a field day in me.....

But I'm clearly a testimony now....

I regret ever starting in the first place, I thank God I've stopped it now, although the temptation do arise especially when I'm alone and idle.

Goods worth almost 500k developed issues depriving me of sales. Now I may not meet up my end of year target but it is well.

bouncin04:
Mine was losing a huge amount of money ... to an investment gone wrong ...at a time I was supposed to be planning my wedding .... Lets share and learn

I lost life savings to Famzhi investment Abuja.

Trusting Trash not 100% though... thinking they got my back....

Life... its self.... hmmm.

Moving on.... that is what matters.. Best things are here... Biggest Amen and Amen!!!

trevorhorace:
gained admission
dad had stroke
dad lost job
family became bankrupt treating dad
dad died.
lost admission
starting from the bottom

are you serious?: o

Dad had stroke
Dad business crumbled
Kid sis died
Kid bro had accident with a broken leg
Landlord gave us quit notice
Mom and dad relocated to the village
(All in one year)
I stayed back in lag to sleep on the streets
I hustled hard
I didn’t join bad gang
I stayed focused
God turned things around
Now we are better than before
All glory to God.

After working for 7good years in d bank, I was implicated and sacked overnight, it was like a dream. Till date I still feels like waking up from my slumber.

phelonrays:



Masturbation , this demon was a witch that held me bound for years...!

Not physical neither was it spiritual, but my subconscious mind wouldn't let me rest when ever this demon got a field day in me.....

But I'm clearly a testimony now....

Yea u now Realized how lazy with ur life u have been na...and then maybe u hated ur environs.dats why u fall on DAT trash.It had to take time for u to actually realize sha

codeSavant:
December 2017 just a few weeks to Christmas I lost all of my birds (200 layers and 100 broilers). It was an extremely sad event.

lost to what?

Came back to Naija after my Masters degree in uk to stay 4 good years without job. I was miserable.

Eventually things changed for good. But those years were terrible.

illicit:
Finished secondary school in 2006, gained admission in 2013 that's after 7 years at home....





I could have learnt a trade but I didn't.... Those who did are not regretting it now....


I am underemployed presently....

my own worse oh, If I share you mine you'll be so sad

Juliusmomoh:
Jesus!!!
Am so sorry sir..
.
Chai..
.
My condolence to her

Its well my brother....so many people go thru so many things in life... I believe God gives the greatest battles to his strongest warriors

trevorhorace:
gained admission

dad had stroke

dad lost job

family became bankrupt treating dad

dad died.

lost admission

starting from the bottom

So sad. Sorry about that man, the Lord is ur strength

Thunder strike my laptop that I was using to learn online business

November 11th 2001...


A day I will never forget, a day my life took a nose dive, a day I would have been dead and gone but the scars of that fateful day remains with me till date.

But I thank GOD for life and I am eternally grateful to GOD for making me triumph against all odds.

I won't bother you all with the details.

EmekaBlue:
Stayed and hustled 6years in China. Paid a company at Shanghai 10k usd to set up a WOFE company, I was declined that with no refund....Had to come back to this shit hole and start all over again

do you understand there might be rejection and your funds won't be refunded before you apply ?why not challenge those bastard in court or something at least to get 50% of your money back

Setbacks only give you opportunity to be a better person. May we have bearable setbacks must we have setbacks at all.

fykes:
Lost my fiancee on my wedding day.

Set me back so many years..

Haaaaaa!

So sorry bro. Very hard to get over but the Lord is your strength

seyicodes:
Getting angry.. it almost ruined my relationship. I don't know if this is spiritual problem .. but the thing is anytime I think of settling down.. one thing will happen that will make me say something that will ruin the relationship. And what I will say will be unforgivable. I am still begging my fiancee since 4 days ago for the statement I uttered.

Bro na the same boat I dey with you

onadana:
Losing my darling wife in July 2019.I was a broken man.

I remember your story bro.
have you recovered? and how is your son?

StPete:
This your story was almost similar to mine but God had a hand and turned my fortunes around...

I gained admission

Dad had stroke

Dad lost his job

I got scholarships

I finished from school

Family went bankrupt treating dad up to the point he had to sell one of his houses

I eventually got a good job

Dad died

Life goes on

May his soul rest in peace

googlepikins:
Battling depression since I was 13 years cos of family issues

my brother please try to talk to someone always, also register on this platform https://cimhs.com, it will help you by God's grace. May depression not allow us lose focus and not achieve our aim in life.

tecnolad:
Lost almost all my savings to an investment-gone-wrong;

Processed UAE Visa to maybe work and recover but agent eloped;

Tried again, got to UAE and didn't get a job;

Came back to Nigeria to try again and burglars came in to cart all my properties away

it is well

When I lost my money in forex trading....!!!

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tecnolad:
Lost almost all my savings to an investment-gone-wrong;

Processed UAE Visa to maybe work and recover but agent eloped;

Tried again, got to UAE and didn't get a job;

Came back to Nigeria to try again and burglars came in to cart all my properties away

Ah this is so sad bro, hope you've recovered now

tecnolad:
Lost almost all my savings to an investment-gone-wrong;

Processed UAE Visa to maybe work and recover but agent eloped;

Tried again, got to UAE and didn't get a job;

Came back to Nigeria to try again and burglars came in to cart all my properties away

It is well bro

omoeast:
Everyone has got a story to tell...If all nairalanders comment on this thread,then it will take you a year to read through comments...I had setbacks too but at this stage of my life,no regrets na God dey do tinz

bro I believe my own worse pass because if I drop my own story I won't be able to finish reading the countless mentions I'd receive

Bornsinner7:
In the Nigerian context

Everybody get story to tell.. Being a Nigerian is a setback on its own

Men dey face trial everyday.. just thank God for life and move on

Been a Nigerian is never a set back, the set back is for those who believe that they can never have growth in Nigeria