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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by kereman1: 4:16pm On Dec 04, 2020
millionboi2:
hmmmm
Thy are something else
U should have bounce on him

the useless inexperienced barr, went behind me negotiating with efcc legal, they added an extra charge that I didn't do, so I can pay more fine, the barr was telling me to plea guity, that was my biggest undoing.
I had to use him cos my case was transferred from lagos to a northern state.
lesson learnt,
-never trust any resident lawyer of any zone or station.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by tppzzy01(m): 4:18pm On Dec 04, 2020
chibjohn:

Are you sure your father is actually fighting you as you think? Hope one useless person that calls himself man of God or woman of God didn't tell you so? Your father may just be giving you a safe distance having heard you accuse him. I haven't seen a father that will fight for the downfall of his child. Most of the purported issues are engineered by these fraudster fake pastors.
That was how my uncle was deceived by such a pastor that his wife that gave him 4 beautiful children and resigned a bank managers role to look after the family was trying to kill him. It disorganized his family. The man wasted many years with another evil woman who left him when he lost his job and there was no money again. Today he can barely see and has gone back to his real wife who accepted him despite how he treated her. May God continue to bless her.

Funny! My father is an Ogboni. He wanted to use me to replace him. Though, he is not the only one o. My wife even reveal 4 of them to me after she died few months ago... And God has special interest in me. sic
I shouldn't be even revealing much in this forum

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by akezn: 4:22pm On Dec 04, 2020
Left the one that truly loved me for another that later left me. Still have not found someone like her. Always wishing I didn't leave her. I still love you Favour.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nnecky(f): 4:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
Mine is having to deal with disappointments in my relationships down to my current relationship.
Guy is not being useful to himself, stays at home all day doing nothing, left his job all because of govt appointment he was promised in obaseki's govt
Refusing to look for another job despite pleading with him to, instead he stays at home getting an erection and will be looking for me as if am as jobless as him

Las las Lost my two precious dogs this year.... still can't get over their absence

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by peropoliet(m): 4:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
Ajiswaggs:
4 years ago, I was into online business(Ponzi,MLM and so on). I was making gains from it not until greed set in that i decided to use all my savings both in Naira and bitcoin to invest in MMM which is close to 4Million. Two days to get help from MMM na so them Crash. I nearly commit sucide. I got depressed and was feeling ashamed to relate with people again. I had to use the last 150k in my account to process admission in one northern school for my HND program.

Finally, i later enter North to continue my program but the sufferness for there na part two inside very hot sun. Na trek i dey trek from my logde to school inside very hot sun everyday. I drink garri sotey my eyeball don deep inside. Everyone was complaining if i get sickness or something but them no know wetin i dey pass through. After 1year in my lodge, i was not able to renew the money after my rent expired, i beg my landlord to give me little time for me to travel back south and hustle, then i will travel the money to him (30k) but he refused. He locked my room with all my documents one week close to my first semester exam (Final year). I beg and beg before he reopen the room and he said he gave me 4days to provide payment even though na steal i go steal. He utter one statement which made have had Hatred for NUPE tribe till today, he said even if God come down from heaven he no go reopen that room if he no get the money within 4 days. To cut the long story short, i sneaked out from that compound with all my properties in the midnight to scot with a friend close to school area.

I really appreciate my friend for accepting and saving me for that moment. But my guy later Bleep up sha. Though i told him i will only scot with him for the remaining 2½ Weeks to complete our exam. So by next session i will get my own apartment again. Within 3days of staying with him, my guy don dey give me attitude, complaining of this and that, telling me his gf wan come spend days with him and all that. Funniest thing is he won't discuss this to me if we are in the room together, after he went out, he will dropping whatsapp messages to me complaining this and that. I suffer sotey i work in pure water factory for a whole night just to get paid of 200 naira.

During the vacation period, i came back to south to hustle. I went back to my online hustle then started hustling day and night, luckily for me my hustle started paying off gradually, I was able to raise 150k+ plus before resuming next session, i rented a self contain apartment and full electronics inside cuz the last user is get to pack his properties, throughout my second semester i no trek or eat useless food, i was enjoying my online biz, my class attendance was not frequent cuz all the lecture sef na scam...i dey use that time to hustle online in my room. My best Music then is Uyo Meyo by Teni. I just they play am every minute. The music was just giving me Motivation to strive harder.

Glory be to God for lifting me back to feet again, Made over 5million within the space of 1year, bought lands for myself and my elder bro, Clear my mom debts, Gave my dad, mom, bro and sis some cash to invest in there business, and i also continue saving any little thing i earn online. Thank God for making me a millionaire at my young age. And i pray for all of you struggling out there, you will all be favoured in Jesus name.

Last 4years i was depressed, sad, mocked by friends behind me cuz i no get cloths, but today God has provided everything for me in excess. Most of them begging me to help them. Glory be God, can't thank you enough.
bros you fit put me through any online earning site

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by ayandee: 4:26pm On Dec 04, 2020
Omobada:
My one and major setback even up till today is my inability to attend NLS Nigerian Law School since 2012 due to financial issue.
painful! But during my time at the lawschool Abuja, some indigent collèagues came to the lecture hall with proof of their admission and people contributed. Try to reach out for help. You just never can tell

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Whitelookq: 4:28pm On Dec 04, 2020
Stricklybidness:

You will stop betting once ur dead broke.

I am on my lowest now self.
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by vickydevoka(m): 4:30pm On Dec 04, 2020
illicit:
Finished secondary school in 2006, gained admission in 2013 that's after 7 years at home....




I could have learnt a trade but I didn't.... Those who did are not regretting it now....


I am underemployed presently....

Sometimes I think it wasn't worth the wait....

It is not your fault. Ur parents didn't guide you
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Olatheo(m): 4:32pm On Dec 04, 2020
Never say never

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by vickydevoka(m): 4:38pm On Dec 04, 2020
roqrules04:
I lost 1m to my step brother.
Please don't trust all these family members.
Losing your money to him doesn't mean is not trustworthy. Business only went wrong
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by bouncin04(m): 4:40pm On Dec 04, 2020
guy222:
I was about winning 7.2 million naira last season, it was just liverpool and watford remaining and i gave liverpool straight win, i was having a cashout of 6.9 million naira but i refuse to cashout because liverpool was unbeaten and watford was at the bottom of the table, i was having about 75000 naira in my account, i withdraw the money and started sharing money like father christmas while waiting for liverpool match, befor you know it my account was empty and everybody started hailing and calling me senior man, but i was shock beyond shock when watford flog liverpool 3:0, till this moment i have not recover from the shock, whenever i think of that match my head will be like thousands of carpenter are doing construction work in my head, right now i have develop chest pain as a result of that incident, and to those people that participated in the eating of my last money in my account, thunder would surely locate and relocate you all again and again.
I'm sorry about this , but I can't stop laughing though..
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
Ajiswaggs:
4 years ago, I was into online business(Ponzi,MLM and so on). I was making gains from it not until greed set in that i decided to use all my savings both in Naira and bitcoin to invest in MMM which is close to 4Million. Two days to get help from MMM na so them Crash. I nearly commit sucide. I got depressed and was feeling ashamed to relate with people again. I had to use the last 150k in my account to process admission in one northern school for my HND program.

Finally, i later enter North to continue my program but the sufferness for there na part two inside very hot sun. Na trek i dey trek from my logde to school inside very hot sun everyday. I drink garri sotey my eyeball don deep inside. Everyone was complaining if i get sickness or something but them no know wetin i dey pass through. After 1year in my lodge, i was not able to renew the money after my rent expired, i beg my landlord to give me little time for me to travel back south and hustle, then i will travel the money to him (30k) but he refused. He locked my room with all my documents one week close to my first semester exam (Final year). I beg and beg before he reopen the room and he said he gave me 4days to provide payment even though na steal i go steal. He utter one statement which made have had Hatred for NUPE tribe till today, he said even if God come down from heaven he no go reopen that room if he no get the money within 4 days. To cut the long story short, i sneaked out from that compound with all my properties in the midnight to scot with a friend close to school area.

I really appreciate my friend for accepting and saving me for that moment. But my guy later Bleep up sha. Though i told him i will only scot with him for the remaining 2½ Weeks to complete our exam. So by next session i will get my own apartment again. Within 3days of staying with him, my guy don dey give me attitude, complaining of this and that, telling me his gf wan come spend days with him and all that. Funniest thing is he won't discuss this to me if we are in the room together, after he went out, he will dropping whatsapp messages to me complaining this and that. I suffer sotey i work in pure water factory for a whole night just to get paid of 200 naira.

During the vacation period, i came back to south to hustle. I went back to my online hustle then started hustling day and night, luckily for me my hustle started paying off gradually, I was able to raise 150k+ plus before resuming next session, i rented a self contain apartment and full electronics inside cuz the last user is get to pack his properties, throughout my second semester i no trek or eat useless food, i was enjoying my online biz, my class attendance was not frequent cuz all the lecture sef na scam...i dey use that time to hustle online in my room. My best Music then is Uyo Meyo by Teni. I just they play am every minute. The music was just giving me Motivation to strive harder.

Glory be to God for lifting me back to feet again, Made over 5million within the space of 1year, bought lands for myself and my elder bro, Clear my mom debts, Gave my dad, mom, bro and sis some cash to invest in there business, and i also continue saving any little thing i earn online. Thank God for making me a millionaire at my young age. And i pray for all of you struggling out there, you will all be favoured in Jesus name.

Last 4years i was depressed, sad, mocked by friends behind me cuz i no get cloths, but today God has provided everything for me in excess. Most of them begging me to help them. Glory be God, can't thank you enough.
Bros show me the way nau.. I just sent you a pm
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Samabu07(m): 4:42pm On Dec 04, 2020
kereman1:


the useless inexperienced barr, went behind me negotiating with efcc legal, they added an extra charge that I didn't do, so I can pay more fine, the barr was telling me to plea guity, that was my biggest undoing.
I had to use him cos my case was transferred from lagos to a northern state.
lesson learnt,
-never trust any resident lawyer of any zone or station.
My Dad trusted a lawyer and learnt his lessons the bitter way.
Please, they can't be trusted.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Obc1234(m): 4:44pm On Dec 04, 2020
trevorhorace:
gained admission

dad had stroke

dad lost job

family became bankrupt treating dad

dad died.

lost admission

starting from the bottom

touching

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by seyicodes(m): 4:44pm On Dec 04, 2020
Sarang:


You need to learn to control your tongue
Nothing spiritual about it
Change your mentality
ANY FORM of Abuse is BAD
Thank you very much sister.. the thing is I would not do this face to face. I do this rubbish via text message.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 04, 2020
seyicodes:
Getting angry.. it almost ruined my relationship. I don't know if this is spiritual problem .. but the thing is anytime I think of settling down.. one thing will happen that will make me say something that will ruin the relationship. And what I will say will be unforgivable. I am still begging my fiancee since 4 days ago for the statement I uttered.
Lol,,, badmouthing can be painful.

I called a lady to know why he broke up with a friend. She told me the guy calls her a single-mother chicken (adie olomo-kan grin) anytime they have disagreements. The lady has a baby out of wedlock. I couldn't help but laugh after dropping the call,,,, too harsh angry

We must learn to tame our tongues.
Good luck

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by vickydevoka(m): 4:45pm On Dec 04, 2020
Rolexjerry:

What caused the break up? I want to learn?
Let me help him.
Most ladies can't stay with a jobless man
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Diamondplus1805(m): 4:47pm On Dec 04, 2020
Exchange Rate push my Business into great loss because my partner gave goods on credit , naira to Dollar keep rising .i.e $10,000 for N3.1M now over N5M
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Sarang(f): 4:50pm On Dec 04, 2020
seyicodes:
Thank you very much sister.. the thing is I would not do this face to face. I do this rubbish via text message.

I swear I used to do it too over text
But I realized I may never really have a happy relationship if I continued so I stopped it because more than anything I WANT A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

Keep working on yourself mahn
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by verminnel(f): 4:51pm On Dec 04, 2020
Is it true that masturbation births poverty?
phelonrays:
shocked


Masturbation , this demon was a witch that held me bound for years...!

Not physical neither was it spiritual, but my subconscious mind wouldn't let me rest when ever this demon got a field day in me..... cry cry

But I'm clearly a testimony now.... kiss kiss kiss
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by vickydevoka(m): 4:52pm On Dec 04, 2020
guy222:
I was about winning 7.2 million naira last season, it was just liverpool and watford remaining and i gave liverpool straight win, i was having a cashout of 6.9 million naira but i refuse to cashout because liverpool was unbeaten and watford was at the bottom of the table, i was having about 75000 naira in my account, i withdraw the money and started sharing money like father christmas while waiting for liverpool match, befor you know it my account was empty and everybody started hailing and calling me senior man, but i was shock beyond shock when watford flog liverpool 3:0, till this moment i have not recover from the shock, whenever i think of that match my head will be like thousands of carpenter are doing construction work in my head, right now i have develop chest pain as a result of that incident, and to those people that participated in the eating of my last money in my account, thunder would surely locate and relocate you all again and again.
Fat lie. U can't have one game remaining I u will be having a cash out of 6.9 million

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Sarang(f): 4:57pm On Dec 04, 2020
ivumar:
My own setback is having a soft heart o...

Because if I have the mind that guys out here in the street have, I will not be broke and frustrated with my life right now.
Most of the guys I grew up with are into internet fraud(yahoo boys).
From what I see, they are happy. They can afford things they want.
They have been on my neck since April to come and join them in their hustle, as I am their Gee and they want me to have money(that's what they do say). They even offered to take care of my feeding, take care of me, that I should just go over and stay with them to learn their craft..... But meehhn, my mind no just carry the thing. I mean,,, I can't stand causing harm or sadness to another person because I want to make money. I don't know how they manage to do that but I wish I could too.
For this reason my guys are all unhappy with me, so I have been living in seclusion but anyway...

I just need to leave this environment fast. It's not an environment I can stay and be focused on my career. ASUU will soon call off strike though

Don’t be surprised when you do better than them later on
Is it not this life?! FOCUS brother. That’s all

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Sarang(f): 5:01pm On Dec 04, 2020
verminnel:
Is it true that masturbation births poverty?


Lol not true
Addiction is bad though

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by chibjohn(m): 5:02pm On Dec 04, 2020
tppzzy01:

Funny! My father is an Ogboni. He wanted to use me to replace him. Though, he is not the only one o. My wife even reveal 4 of them to me after she died few months ago... And God has special interest in me. sic
I shouldn't be even revealing much in this forum
Ok. Have you had a heart to heart talk with him?
I just want you to be sure that who you think of him is actually who he is. I don't know anything ogboni but him being an ogboni member doesn't mean he wants to use you to replace him or that he is fetish and wicked. Ogboni could just be another religion. Just be sure that you are not accusing him wrongly that may have led him to keeping a distance from you.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by meobizy(f): 5:09pm On Dec 04, 2020
None so far. I will never let regrets hold me back.
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by tppzzy01(m): 5:10pm On Dec 04, 2020
chibjohn:

Ok. Have you had a heart to heart talk with him?
I just want you to be sure that who you think of him is actually who he is. I don't know anything ogboni but him being an ogboni member doesn't mean he wants to use you to replace him or that he is fetish and wicked. Ogboni could just be another religion. Just be sure that you are not accusing him wrongly that may have led him to keeping a distance from you.
I don hear you. Mind you am the one avoiding him. He is looking for me like mad...
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by oyetpel(m): 5:11pm On Dec 04, 2020
trevorhorace:
gained admission
dad had stroke
dad lost job
family became bankrupt treating dad
dad died.
lost admission
starting from the bottom

So touching, keep moving.
So many are going through rough patches, i pray you overcome.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by roqrules04(m): 5:11pm On Dec 04, 2020
vickydevoka:

Losing your money to him doesn't mean is not trustworthy. Business only went wrong

He's not trustworthy. I know what I'm saying bro. I was so gullible to fall into his trap. But sha that one Dan go

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by seyicodes(m): 5:11pm On Dec 04, 2020
Sarang:


I swear I used to do it too over text
But I realized I may never really have a happy relationship if I continued so I stopped it because more than anything I WANT A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

Keep working on yourself mahn
how I wish I can turn back the hands of the clock. I hate myself with passion . I promise myself never to do that again .
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Gentlealibu: 5:13pm On Dec 04, 2020
seyicodes:
Getting angry.. it almost ruined my relationship. I don't know if this is spiritual problem .. but the thing is anytime I think of settling down.. one thing will happen that will make me say something that will ruin the relationship. And what I will say will be unforgivable. I am still begging my fiancee since 4 days ago for the statement I uttered.

VILLAGE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! smiley cheesy grin
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by roqrules04(m): 5:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
Stricklybidness:

What really happened?

The matter long bro.. But we moveee
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by phelonrays: 5:22pm On Dec 04, 2020
verminnel:
Is it true that masturbation births poverty?


Not on a position to ascertain that, as many experience theirs differently...

I wasn't down with poverty neither was my financial improvement tampered with.. I grew refreshing every day...

The only thing that keep disturbing my ass was my subconscious mind, damn the fvck wouldn't allow me any time I got off the routine grin, will be feeling irresponsibly guilty, like that of a rapist which the demon has vacated off...

Outrightly empty ....

But this are history now kiss

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