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Lawliet:
Wouldn't have any lessons learned cause I've never been in one

Same here. Can we try one?

poweredcom:
@womenareapes over to you about naija gals

Most definitely many guys here are regretting about their former relationships

Don't trust any naija gal ...this generation don cast ...70 percent na olosho

Catch cruise and bang Dem Taya and pregnate Dem before u can wife any unless you go end up being a mugu ..fathering someone child

My regret is keeping a girlfriend ...they will want to carry their problems put on your head

carry their problems put on your head #teamburdenbearer
Hate that shi about Nigerian ladies, like everyone dosent have a problem..
As for me anytime I see you come at me with that liability bullshit, I archive our chat and delete your chats if possible.
Rubbish.

JohnspeakU:
Hello Everyone!! I am here again with another discussion thread that we can all learn from.

Some people make the mistake of going into a relationship without knowing why they were there. The reason why people rain curses on their exes is simply because they felt they only wasted their time and never benefited anything from the relationship. But the truth is, there is always a lesson or two to learn from every relationship either positively or negatively So the question is, what life lessons did you learn from your past relationship?

Let me share mine.
Before now I used to believe that men are richer than females not until I dated one calabar girl in Abuja that opened my eyes. This girl works as a nurse in a private clinic and earns about 80k. The surprising thing is that she belongs to about 6 contributions that she puts almost all her salary in��‍♀️ After using her money to pay contributions, she will start demanding money from me for everything even down to recharge card to call her mom. So as a sharp Edo guy, I rallied among my colleagues and started paying contributions too��

She thought me how to save unknowingly.

Tell us about yours.

I have come to realize that almost all girls are bipolar (on a different level)
I got to understand that every girl de craze, you just have to find the one with the right amount of craze u can endure and wife her.

donMIG:
I REPEAT AGAIN!!

TRUST NO BITCH EVEN THE ONES U THRUST!!!

this can't be over emphasized!

Trust no bitch even the ones I thrust.
The rhyme is good. The rhythm is better. The message.... d best

Aileexa1:
My past relationships bleeped me up like.... The last one was even the worst.

What I learned from the first, never be with a guy you don't see yourself loving. Karma is a bitch. It bit me in my second relationship.

Never love with your heart but your head. Expect the worst from him or don't even expect anything at all. So it won't shock you.
Also, do not lose your sense of self to please him. Being stubborn is better than being weak willed.
Also don't invest what will hurt you when its over.
Lastly, never see a breakup as a bad thing. Some things need to happen for us to change our perspectives. The second one taught me this.

What happened that ended the second relationship?

Rexnegro:
are you married ? if no , las las u go marry yourself with this your mindset .

But she's right. In the western world, women don't play fool for men , yet they get married. So you have to be who you are. Somebody out there i is meant for you.

OVA200:
I've done that over a 100 times.
She's not a social media person, she enter Facebook like once in three months and na only me she dey chat with on WhatsApp.
I have her password self.

Bro I've brace myself for any possibility though but for now I don't have any reason to doubt her.

Congrats
My worst regrets was the day I tried checking my babe's own.. it was really heartbreaking

Nazgul:
My first relationship hmmm, I was still a simp. It happened a year after I finished secondary school.

I loved her from the bottom of my heart, I even took the phone my aunt bought for me and give her as a birthday present, spent so much on her, I just wanted her to be happy, I even brought her home to to meet my mum. in all the relationships I've been so far that was the one I invested the greatest.

She later left me for an apprentice learning electrical work under his oga, he impregnated her and ran away. Whereas the highest romance we shared were kisses and hugs, nothing more. I was a male virgin and she also claimed to be a virgin as well.

She came back to me with the pregnancy after some months telling me she still loves me, that I should accept it, it doesn't mean anything thing. Do you know I was still ready to accept her back. It was my mum that talked sense into my head. Poor naeiv me.

We're all good people till evil people teach us lessons we might never recover from.

What I gained? Never trust anyone until they give you a reason to trust them.

Assume everyone is bad

Assume everyone is cheating on you so that when they eventually do, you won't be disappointed cos you've already conditioned your mind for the worst

The part of wanting to accept her and pregnancy made me wish I came across then, cuz I for beat crap commit from your head.

Simps are everywhere but that action you wanted to take an mumu one

Thank God for your mother

jaytii:
One is never enough, the more the merrier.

The pics on ur profile gats me thinking deeper and harder. Inside life, Whatever u do be helpful to the the less privileged.

Lawliet:
Wouldn't have any lessons learned cause I've never been in one

bring your heart come let me break it

Real shit I can relate to
Robbery JW
X was poison unrealeased JW
Bitch you are done JW
All girls are the same JW
Lucid dream Jw
Hate me Ellie Goulding ft juice wrld
Life's a mess Halsey ft juice wrld
Smile JW
Girlfriend JW
Hide JW
The Light Jw
Only no me He Jw
Flaw's and sins Jw
ROSES JW
It's hit differently and can relate to it with my relationship

MISSCONGENIALITY:
1:Learned Never to carry any relationship on.my head like gala.
2: Never to take any man serious. They say one thing and do another.
3: learned do do only what I can do and never to go an extra mile trying to make a guy happy.
4: To always remind any man coming into my life my happiness is in my hands not his so that he doesn't go about feeling like I will die if he doesn't do this or that and so is his happiness. I owe him not happiness and he owes me none.
5: Learned that my happiness in Paramount and should not be traded for any kind of relationship.
6: learned never to try saving a stressfull relationship cos it sucks blood more than HIV.
7: most importantly, I learned never to place any man over my personal development, dreams and aspirations.
8: never to start what I can not finish in a relationship.

Hmm.. this is top notch
Sorry are you presently single

Truth is DAT,society keeps deceiving us men

OVA200:
The truth is I'm presently in my first serious relationship and sincerely I can confidently say that I'm blessed with the person I'm dating, we have our problem but she's everything I want in my woman; we are approaching 3 years now and anything can happen but she has proven to me that virtuous woman is still around.
Abi what can you call a woman who never ask you for anything in 3 years and so much grateful for anything you give her even as small as #100 airtime.
She trust me with very serious life decisions and heed to every advise I gave her.
She has never raised her voice on me no matter the issue we have she will rather keep mute.
I have her Facebook password and also have access to her WhatsApp. She enter Facebook like once in three months if you leave vital information for her on Facebook you are on your own.
I'm also trying to be the best boyfriend I can be because she didn't deserve someone bad so I can't afford to fvck up.
I'm bracing myself incase anything happen though I will just mourn for a week and move on.

Love you so much miss M.

Hummm that's how woman do when they're eyes never open.
But as far the eyes opened hummmm my brother as Jesus said it ( it's finish)

Olovictor:
Hummm that's how woman do when they're eyes never open. But as far the eyes opened hummmm my brother as Jesus said it ( it's finish)

If that's the case make that eyes never open forever in Jesus name.

Yungmil:
The pics on ur profile gats me thinking deeper and harder. Inside life, Whatever u do be helpful to the the less privileged.

Exactly

mj31:
Hmm.. this is top notch
Sorry are you presently single

My one single no get part 2. No time unner stress. Life eis too short to spend it bothered about things that won't make it longer, simpler and sweeter.

I learn that its bad to save money with your girl friend,very bad i said very bad,dont thing about it,they are very funny when it comes to money

virginprincess:
Hmmm, in this life i have learnt that you should never play the role of a fool for a man, men don't value such women, when you take a decision stand up your ground and also never allow a man make decisions for you.

pointless.. what are you saying?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
My one single no get part 2. No time unner stress. Life eis too short to spend it bothered about things that won't make it longer, simpler and sweeter.

Yez i understand
But we should never get tired of finding love

JohnspeakU:
Hello Everyone!! I am here again with another discussion thread that we can all learn from.

Some people make the mistake of going into a relationship without knowing why they were there. The reason why people rain curses on their exes is simply because they felt they only wasted their time and never benefited anything from the relationship. But the truth is, there is always a lesson or two to learn from every relationship either positively or negatively So the question is, what life lessons did you learn from your past relationship?

Let me share mine.
Before now I used to believe that men are richer than females not until I dated one calabar girl in Abuja that opened my eyes. This girl works as a nurse in a private clinic and earns about 80k. The surprising thing is that she belongs to about 6 contributions that she puts almost all her salary in��‍♀️ After using her money to pay contributions, she will start demanding money from me for everything even down to recharge card to call her mom. So as a sharp Edo guy, I rallied among my colleagues and started paying contributions too��

She thought me how to save unknowingly.

Tell us about yours.

You people still believe in love

Don’t be a slave to your emotions!

Gentle0wavez:
Lol.
I can't lie. I gained NOTHING from my last relationship.

mj31:
Yez i understand
But we should never get tired of finding love

I'm not expecting love even. The one I have for myself is enough. Don't know if I would even want to share and give anyone more than my blood relation.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not expecting love even. The one I have for myself is enough. Don't know if I would even want to share and give anyone more than my blood relation.

With this ur statement i believe you have really pass through alot in relationship.
I guess some people are not just lucky with relationship..
But all is well

mj31:
With this ur statement i believe you have really pass through alot in relationship.
I guess some people are not just lucky with relationship..
But all is well

This point in my life where I don't bother about anyt except what will make my life better is the sweetest part of my life.

[quote author=MISSCONGENIALITY post=96839186]This point in my life where I don't bother about anyt except what will make my life better is the sweetest part of my life. [/quot
I will love to know u better
Maybe we chat on WhatsApp

[quote author=mj31 post=96839212][/quote]I'm as congenial as my user name. Lol.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm as congenial as my user name. Lol.

Lol
Miscongenial

Life lesson learnt was NEVER MAKE HER A PART OF YOUR LIFE PLAN as she stand to disappointing you #HardTruth. $BitterPill

Pharaoh4rin:
But she's right. In the western world, women don't play fool for men , yet they get married. So you have to be who you are. Somebody out there i is meant for you.

yeah true but the prob is that's in the western world, here in africa society don't see it that way and it's pathetic bro. a man has a slight control over his woman traditionally culturally and even biblically. a little submissiveness won't kill her bro . my view tho

As someone that has just gotten through a break up today; few hours ago; the first lesson is to be really really careful in how much of your heart ur willing to risk. I give all of mine ; and i'm bearing the pain now.
Be meticulous on how much of your plan you divulge and be tactical with women. Most importantly, never go into relationship broke and love for women is all about utility!. If you cant give her d security, it will end bitterly; better end the thing while the respect is still there. I'm bleeped up now; but its the first shaaa. Life goes on

OVA200:
The truth is I'm presently in my first serious relationship and sincerely I can confidently say that I'm blessed with the person I'm dating, we have our problem but she's everything I want in my woman; we are approaching 3 years now and anything can happen but she has proven to me that virtuous woman is still around.
Abi what can you call a woman who never ask you for anything in 3 years and so much grateful for anything you give her even as small as #100 airtime.
She trust me with very serious life decisions and heed to every advise I gave her.
She have never raised her voice on me no matter the issue we have she will rather keep mute.
I have her Facebook password and also have access to her WhatsApp. She enter Facebook like once in three months if you leave vital information for her on Facebook you are on your own.
I'm also trying to be the best boyfriend I can be because she didn't deserve someone bad so I can't afford to fvck up.
I'm bracing myself incase anything happen though I will just mourn for a week and move on.

Love you so much miss M.

Does she have access to your social media accounts too? Or is a woman's love and trust only tested when she's the only one compromising?