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Dvin:
Be fair, love with your brain. Never love a girl more than she loves you. The lady's love should be greater than your love for her by far.
This is if you are a nice guy.

Edusouls:
You ain’t submissive your future man would eventually leave you and run away, you cannot keep a man so work on staying lonely for life..

Aileexa1:
My past relationships bleeped me up like.... The last one was even the worst.

What I learned from the first, never be with a guy you don't see yourself loving. Karma is a bitch. It bit me in my second relationship.

Never love with your heart but your head. Expect the worst from him or don't even expect anything at all. So it won't shock you.
Also, do not lose your sense of self to please him. Being stubborn is better than being weak willed.
Also don't invest what will hurt you when its over.
Lastly, never see a breakup as a bad thing. Some things need to happen for us to change our perspectives. The second one taught me this.

OVA200:
The truth is I'm presently in my first serious relationship and sincerely I can confidently say that I'm blessed with the person I'm dating, we have our problem but she's everything I want in my woman; we are approaching 3 years now and anything can happen but she has proven to me that virtuous woman is still around.
Abi what can you call a woman who never ask you for anything in 3 years and so much grateful for anything you give her even as small as #100 airtime.
She trust me with very serious life decisions and heed to every advise I gave her.
She have never raised her voice on me no matter the issue we have she will rather keep mute.
I have her Facebook password and also have access to her WhatsApp. She enter Facebook like once in three months if you leave vital information for her on Facebook you are on your own.
I'm also trying to be the best boyfriend I can be because she didn't deserve someone bad so I can't afford to fvck up.
I'm bracing myself incase anything happen though I will just mourn for a week and move on.

Love you so much miss M.

Sixfeetbelle:
Does she have access to your social media accounts too? Or is a woman's love and trust only tested when she's the only one compromising?

OVA200:
She did.
I do leave my phone with her for hours.
I've never ask any other girl out since I've known her.

victons:
Till you find out she has another Facebook account

Muhylonaire007:
Omo... I would have said it all had it been I made front page.
I'm not saying shit on this 2nd page

Sixfeetbelle:
Did? So she doesn't anymore?

virginprincess:
Hmmm, in this life i have learnt that you should never play the role of a fool for a man, men don't value such women, when you take a decision stand up your ground and also never allow a man make decisions for you.

Franklydes:
My last relationship thought me to be a better person in all aspects of my life. I used to be unreasonable about a lot and caused the break up. I wasn't myself at first as usual you missed her now that she is gone but with the help of a counselor i got myself and fixed myself. Told myself no blame games, accepted my FAults and moved on but also helped fixed all aspects of my life. It owe it all to that break up.

Pharaoh4rin:
Trust no bitch even the ones I thrust. The rhyme is good. The rhythm is better. The message.... d best

OVA200:
She might be cheating bro but probably not on Facebook, I know what I'm talking about.

poweredcom:
@womenareapes over to you about naija gals

Most definitely many guys here are regretting about their former relationships

Don't trust any naija gal ...this generation don cast ...70 percent na olosho

Catch cruise and bang Dem Taya and pregnate Dem before u can wife any unless you go end up being a mugu ..fathering someone child

My regret is keeping a girlfriend ...they will want to carry their problems put on your head

emkz:
(1) Don't judge your new relationship with your past relationship.

(2) Never ignore red flags.

(3) Pay attention to the unspoken words.

(4) Pay attention to the things you fight about.

(5) Never compromise on values.

(6) Know the kind of friends she keeps.

virginprincess:
Hmmm, in this life i have learnt that you should never play the role of a fool for a man, men don't value such women, when you take a decision stand up your ground and also never allow a man make decisions for you.

OVA200:
She might be cheating bro but probably not on Facebook, I know what I'm talking about.

Gentle0wavez:
Make una free this guy and him babe na, why being soo negative.

Olovictor:
Hummm that's how woman do when they're eyes never open.
But as far the eyes opened hummmm my brother as Jesus said it ( it's finish)

victons:
Till you find out she has another Facebook account

iamloyalty:
Abeg ignore those nonsense and toxic people!. Just because is bad for them does not mean it will be bad for everyone. Hold on to your girl since you know her better than anyone here.

Sixfeetbelle:
Men who make it a habit of making important decisions for the woman end up being controlling and abusive.

Edusouls:
Very Good as you know that early please stay and enjoy and live ur life Abeg don’t go and make someone’s son miserable, I take God beg you..

Rexnegro:
yeah true but the prob is that's in the western world, here in africa society don't see it that way and it's pathetic bro. a man has a slight control over his woman traditionally culturally and even biblically. a little submissiveness won't kill her bro . my view tho