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blackpanthar:
Talk to him and see if he has a plan... or if he just wants to escape and come home to "rest"

For you, why not learn a skill and start your hustle so that when your brother comes home, you can teach him a skill too... SCHOOL IN NAIJA IS NO LONGER THE WAY O... hmmm... just let your brother drop school first and learn a skill then he can sponsor himself

You are right. The only thing is that you still have your own certificate

Your brother is suffering from youthful Exuberance Syndrome .

He wants to be free due to maybe the strict discipline he is getting from the priest, which is for his own good.

My Advice Is
if he still persist to return, allow him and ask him this question.

Is this your final decision , if he still persist, you can free him because he has made his choice.

Word For Thought!!!
Nothing Good In Life Comes Easy .

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can get job so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

Just imagine
Trying to find your bearing after school
What were you doing when you were a student
That's the problem I have with most Nigerians .
When una dae school you won't start setting your compass and look for your footing in life you'd wait to graduate first. Nawa!!!!

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can get job so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

sorry to say l just hope he is not been molested, it ain't easy but try to inquire.

GodWrites:
I would have suspected that maybe, he's been molested by the priest, but since this fellow has always been a failure all his life, then it's probably because he wants more freedom, perhaps to be more useless.

The fact is that your brother is dull; he probably needs an environment where he will have total freedom to do whatever he likes.

You can't live with a priest and behave as you like, as they are very strict with time and responsibility. I have stayed with two priests for a year without any odd experience

They are too kind, highly disciplined, and hardly make out time for fun.

As for those who are already sure that the priest is smashing his butt hole, I have nothing to say to you.

That you know a priest that did such doesn't mean all priests are gays or pedophiles. That someone rejected a pussy to become a priest doesn't mean he's gay. WTF!

It's a damn fallacy to judge an entire profession or group of people because of the action of a few. The same way foreigners see every Nigerian youth as a scammer, do you like it?

Now here you are, committing the same sin. It's time you guys pay priests more respect.

Peace!

... Don't mind them ooo
They forget if molesting him was the issue, he'd have said it to hasten his exit.
The lad will only make the op struggle x 2. Some human beings are the inconsiderate.

GeneralKoko:
Just imagine
Trying to find your bearing after school
What were you doing when you were a student
That's the problem I have with most Nigerians .
When una dae school you won't start setting your compass and look for your footing in life you'd wait to graduate first. Nawa!!!!

Shut up

Shortyy:
He wants to come home and start smoking Igbo and pursuing women around abi? Let him better stay there patiently and behave well too. That priest will sponsor him and make him a better person.

cover that títs now..

Bring him home, make una dey rough am together. There might be somethings happening there that he might not be able to fully voice out, something like sexual abuse or maybe he is being maltreated. Bring your younger brother home, you are the mother and guardian angel he has now. Bring him home fast fast before something terrible goes wrong.

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can getjob so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

he's been molested. sit him down and ask him.

ValCon888:
There's so much more to this than meets the eye. That priest may be trying to molest your brother if he's not already molesting him and your brother is trying to get the fúck out of there.
Use your head.

this is the most sensible point I have seen so far here can you ask him why he is leaving the priest

Dubetex96:
I have talked to him several, but he doesn't listen. yes I have delve into graphics designing so as to increase my income

Bro.... you are the one not listening. Your brother is crying for help. He called you at night?? Get your brother out of there ASAP before he is sodomized. Since when do priests have money?.... enough to personally sponsor someone thru university? When your brother gets home... he may be a completely different person.... all withdrawn....check his anus .... gather area boys and ehmmm........

Do you know that the priest maybe into boys and maybe disturbing your brother or already doing things with him ?
Your brother may not want to tell you the whole truth but if you have a heart to heart talk with your brother and that is not the case, then you must put your feet down and Insist that he stays there. That is why you are the big brother

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can get job so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

At this stage, let him come home to you before he looses hope in life living with them

Even if it's ordinary garri share with him

The priest can still help him wherever he may be

You don't loose the only blood related brother that you have for a reason that is not cogent enough

Stay with your brother. But tell him no going back, no future regrets talk if he misses out after d leaving d priest. He needs to be himself to succeed in this generation.

I hope the priest is not dicking your brother because most of them practice gay in the dark

Dubetex96:
I'm writing this with pains,
I lost my mother 3years ago since then life has become a shadow of itself to me and my younger brother. My mother died when he was in Ss3 and about to go for his one year apostolic work. he later proceeded to do his one year apostolic work as time flies they went for exam for another stage in priesthood and so unfortunate life can be he didn't make it so the priest he was serving during his apostolic work promised him that he will take care of him and he will also sponsor his education to university level so he stayed back owing to the fact that our parents are late. My broda wrote his first & second Jamb but his score is not sufficient enough to fetch him admission so i told him to prepare for next year 2021. But my headache is that he always complain to me that he is no longer comfortable living with the priest though he gave me some reasons that he doesn't have time for his personal life and also to read his books. He had already wanted to come back home but i have always objected due to the fact that here at home is not easy for me not to made mention of him coming back . I just graduated recently and still finding my bearing in life so i have always told him to give me time let me see if i can get job so he can come and stay with me because he's my only brother. As of yesterday night he messaged me on WhatsApp telling me the same thing which really got me thinking and tired.

Let him come home. He could actually get a job while he waits for jamb. There's no place like home.

blackpanthar:
Talk to him and see if he has a plan... or if he just wants to escape and come home to "rest"

For you, why not learn a skill and start your hustle so that when your brother comes home, you can teach him a skill too... SCHOOL IN NAIJA IS NO LONGER THE WAY O... hmmm... just let your brother drop school first and learn a skill then he can sponsor himself

I like this

VanillaIyce:
I like this

Thank you ma. I like you too

find out if he is not being molested or giving too much work to do
you never can tell.

blackpanthar:
Talk to him and see if he has a plan... or if he just wants to escape and come home to "rest"

For you, why not learn a skill and start your hustle so that when your brother comes home, you can teach him a skill too... SCHOOL IN NAIJA IS NO LONGER THE WAY O... hmmm... just let your brother drop school first and learn a skill then he can sponsor himself

I can say it boastfully to you that you are both streetwise n homewise...

Dem teach u for house.... U come go out learn join...

Weldone.... May ur source of wisdom neva run dry...

AuroraB:
Shut up

I don't blame you!

ValCon888:
There's so much more to this than meets the eye. That priest may be trying to molest your brother if he's not already molesting him and your brother is trying to get the fúck out of there.
Use your head.

My thoughts too.... I can't believe people were still saying his brother should still be staying with the priest....

ValCon888:
There's so much more to this than meets the eye. That priest may be trying to molest your brother if he's not already molesting him and your brother is trying to get the fúck out of there.
Use your head.

I swear i thought about this. It might be a call for help!!!!
Most times, the victims' people would never see through the awoof that they gain from the culprits until the chips are down.

God knows the unknown conditions the poor boy is facing over there, it's up to the older sibling to be proactive and see through the blindfold of sponsorship.