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Now this dangerous, but best thing is to tell your brother and also continue to put her off. lastly, go back to your work ASAP and if that doesn't exist again get a new one. BTW doesn't she go to work?






Pounded yam (Iyán) is considered as the king of all foods because of its many outstanding characteristics ranging from how it’s been prepared to the palatable & pleasurable feeling it gives when consumed hence the popular saying “Iyán ni ọba oúnjẹ”. Pounded yam being a common food among the Yorubas and popularly called Iyán in the Yoruba language is a whitish/creamy looking food gotten from pounding of yam, the delicacy is a gooey dough-like textured food which is conventionally prepared by pounding/beating the boiled yams in a mortal with a pestle. Pounded yam........ read more on https://alawiiyeyoruba.com/pounded-yam-more-than-a-food-to-the-yorubas/

Japa!
It will never end well

All I know is: don't trust ANY WOMAN.
Just turn her down stylishly o...if you're too harsh in doing it she will likely scheme against you and you will be seen as a rapist... women NEVER accept blame when they're wrong... they'll rather be hospitalized and make it seem like your "accusations" led to their illness.
OP thread carefully. Once you resume work...it will help you keep away from her.
I'm seriously wondering why these days women feel no qualms about trying to get laid! Even married ones!! I've 3 of them (married oh) almost destroying my phone with nudes!! It was like play like play o....and guess what? I'm not even 700km close by...and I'll never get any closer...

It has happened to me before and it was very successful.
Always collect money from her my friend but NEVER SLEEP WITH HER. There are better pretty girls around. What is happening to u has happened to many of us before. Let God use her to bless you.
SHE IS UR HELPER

Whatever decision you want to take , make sure you keep records of all your chats and be sure enough to always re-emphasis that you can't have anything to do with her as a married woman cuz we women can be dangerous and we sure have the gift to manipulate and turn the heads of those who wants to be turned .


She might even turn the whole thing against you and manipulate her husband to think otherwise but those chats would be your evidence and saving grace.

Tell her husband privately. Tell your brother then both of you go and meet her husband with evidence... Don't accept her food, block her on social media too

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

Op,I had same issue but my story is slightly different from yours,bottom line her husband sent her parking.

Mine was two young married women,i slept with one because I didn't know she was married with a child and she only told me after I've slept with her.
The second one I was fully aware that she was married and their was no way I could have given her what she wanted,she had little control when she sees me and it was becoming obvious that something might be going on between us,rumor has it that the young man accused me of sleeping with his wife.

It totally okay to be admired by even married women if you're good looking but never in this life get entangled with a married woman.

I won't join others to advice you to tell her husband,that's childish,that singular act can break and destroy her home please don't,it is better you put on a posture that portrays you uninterested people will see that.

make her appear uninteresting,don't make out a big deal from her advances...commonize everything she throws at you...if you keep pushing her away she will find you very interesting.

good luck op

My eye don see things.


Make them please call off strike make I comot for here.

Nigeriabiafra82:
Something are better left unsaid
The lady expectations is high on that guy
He new to play along ,and avoid having a lone time with her
I swear the lady will turn out to be a very good friend he ever had
Have been in that shoe
A relations wife,each time she told me
I tell her is not possible
She always like when I compliment her
But as times go on,she gradually dashes the expectations

It's a risky game. Some will look for a way to punish you for turning the offer down

Try and possible means to avoid her if possible tell your brother that you are okay that you want to go back to work.

Oboy what are you waiting for, smash that pussy

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from mycoming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

Bro no offense but can u pls do some screenshots of your chats with her?

Upforgreatness:
Bro no offense but can u pls do some screenshots of your chats with her?

You want me to post our chats here ??.. that can't be possible na.

nNEOo:
Op,I had same issue but my story is slightly different from yours,bottom line her husband sent her parking.

Mine was two young married women,i slept with one because I didn't know she was married with a child and she only told me after I've slept with her.
The second one I was fully aware that she was married and their was no way I could have given her what she wanted,she had little control when she sees me and it was becoming obvious that something might be going on between us,rumor has it that the young man accused me of sleeping with his wife.

It totally okay to be admired by even married women if you're good looking but never in this life get entangled with a married woman.

I won't join others to advice you to tell her husband,that's childish,that singular act can break and destroy her home please don't,it is better you put on a posture that portrays you uninterested people will see that.

make her appear uninteresting,don't make out a big deal from her advances...commonize everything she throws at you...if you keep pushing her away she will find you very interesting.

good luck op

My eye don see things.


Make them please call off strike make I comot for here.

Hmmm
I get you.
Thanks bro

alphaNomega:
You know what you're doing. How did you chat to the point of discussing an intimate relationship?

She normally chats me up and I do reply her. Then few days back she just brought up the relationship stuff.

Nigeriabiafra82:
I have been in you shoe


You have to act along,at the middle of everything tell her you are afraid
That you can’t stomach it
Always compliment her ,I think her husband don’t do that
But continue posting her
She will get tired
And will be like
U baaa anytime she sees u

Hmmm
I think complimenting her will make her think am ready to do it.

So lemme just be on my lane and see if she eventually backs down.

Learn from JOSEPH in the Bible.

Adopt Joseph method.

alawiiyeyoruba:
Now this dangerous, but best thing is to tell your brother and also continue to put her off. lastly, go back to your work ASAP and if that doesn't exist again get a new one. BTW doesn't she go to work?






Pounded yam (Iyán) is considered as the king of all foods because of its many outstanding characteristics ranging from how it’s been prepared to the palatable & pleasurable feeling it gives when consumed hence the popular saying “Iyán ni ọba oúnjẹ”. Pounded yam being a common food among the Yorubas and popularly called Iyán in the Yoruba language is a whitish/creamy looking food gotten from pounding of yam, the delicacy is a gooey dough-like textured food which is conventionally prepared by pounding/beating the boiled yams in a mortal with a pestle. Pounded yam........ read more on https://alawiiyeyoruba.com/pounded-yam-more-than-a-food-to-the-yorubas/

She has a beauty store, so she is very free.

Jeremiih:
Hmmm
I get you.
Thanks bro

you're welcome bro.

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

At 22 you want start fucking your aunt ahi?

Make her husband catch her giving you food not even kpekus you go hear Oba..



The Bible said there is no prayer that can stop such a thing.... RUN! RUN!! RUN!!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It's a risky game. Some will look for a way to punish you for turning the offer down

Then Being blunt with her will attract severe punishment

Jeremiih:
Hahaha
Like seriously ??

So I must pay

You think me acting as your fiancee will be free. Bros all na business ��. I will deal with her for u that she will pay out immediately

Pegi23:
You think me acting as your fiancee will be free. Bros all na business ��. I will deal with her for u that she will pay out immediately

So you can't even do this thing free for him, I hope you know you will be eating free food in his house

jaszplus12:
All I know is: don't trust ANY WOMAN.
Just turn her down stylishly o...if you're too harsh in doing it she will likely scheme against you and you will be seen as a rapist... women NEVER accept blame when they're wrong... they'll rather be hospitalized and make it seem like your "accusations" led to their illness.
OP thread carefully. Once you resume work...it will help you keep away from her.
I'm seriously wondering why these days women feel no qualms about trying to get laid! Even married ones!! I've 3 of them (married oh) almost destroying my phone with nudes!! It was like play like play o....and guess what? I'm not even 700km close by...and I'll never get any closer...

Married women sending nudes to you? Are you sure the pics they sent are not pics they downloaded from the internet?

Tell your elder brother so that this snake will be exposed!

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

tell her u will hook her up with someone

SavageResponse:
Married women sending nudes to you? Are you sure the pics they sent are not pics they downloaded from the internet?

My dear...I've their FACES on it o... I'm just worrying for their husbands... I'm just quietly and quickly putting up a wall between us... good a thing I'm not in Nigeria with any of them...

Jeremiih:
I have made it clear, but seems she's that flirting type. Telling my bro may cause problems. But I will strictly tell her to stop. Thanks

OP she fit turn the story on you o, you better fear women. Abi una no dey read Bible ni.

Tell her off sternly, then tell your bro so he can be a witness in future (incase she accuses you falsely due to your rejection)but he has to promise not to tell his friend.

Offend that bi1tch off her hoe phase.

Jeremiih:
Thanks sir.. She is somehow manipulative tho. But I won't tell my brother. I will follow some of the advices I have gotten here and maintain a long distance.

Someone who is manipulative is very dangerous, so what I will tell you is to block every access that she can use to communicate with you and also maintain a very long social distancing while at home so that she can get the clear message.

My candid advice is that you should never never go down with her. Choose between some minutes pleasure & your future which will be ruined if caught. Again what if the husband later find out & seek to hurt you, if not kill you. Turn her down politely & with time, she'll lose interest

musicproducer:
tell her u will hook her up with someone

Lool
Will you be that person ??

Pegi23:
You think me acting as your fiancee will be free. Bros all na business ��. I will deal with her for u that she will pay out immediately

Lool
Ok then... So hw much will it be ??
And is dat u @ dp ??