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My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Chinyerelove(op): 4:14pm On Dec 16, 2020

My 17 year old sister become pregnant after being raped, it was so difficult for her because our elder brother chased her out of the house.

She went to stay with my other brother in his one room. She gave birth November 27 and yesterday my brother called to informed me that my sister had left the house since Saturday telling him she is going to buy her baby diaper and she hasn’t returned since. She doesn’t have a phone and nowhere to contact her. My brother has reported her missing but the problem we are facing is the baby my brother alone cannot take care of the baby. He is also working he can’t deal with work and the baby at the same time.

Even myself, I can’t take care of him because of the nature of my job. I am a live in nanny. I want to know if anyone can please direct us to any motherless home where we can take my nephew until we find his mother.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Ahmed0336(m): 4:17pm On Dec 16, 2020

ha!!!

If you can get a Nanny fine.
if you have money to buy baby foods fine.

I pray she is safe wherever she is.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Mandela27: 4:29pm On Dec 16, 2020

I DONT BELIEVE THIS.HOW CAN U JUST POST A STORY LIKE THIS WITH NO PICTURES OF THE BABY,OR YOUR MISSING SISTER?ITS OBVIOUS URE YARNING OKPATA.U DEY FIND SYMPATHIZERS FOR WETIN NO HAPPEN.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Cerveau(f): 4:29pm On Dec 16, 2020

Chinyerelove:
My 17 years old sister become pregnant after being raped , it was so difficult for her because our elder brother chased her out of the house she went to stay with my other brother in his one room. She gave birth November 27 and yesterday my brother called to informed me that my sister had left the house since Saturday telling him she is going to buy her baby diaper and she hasn’t returned since. She doesn’t have a phone and nowhere to contact her , my brother has reported her missing but the problem we are facing is the baby my brother alone cannot take care of the baby he is also working he can’t deal with work and the baby at the same time , even myself I can’t take care of him because of the nature of my job I am a live in nanny. I want to know if anyone can please direct us to any motherless home where we can take my nephew until we find his mother.

How do we direct you when we don't even know the state you reside in!

Do a Google search of motherless/Orphanage homes in your state. You will get phone numbers and addresses of these centers in your state...

Aside this, don't you have families?

If you've got an aunt in the village or anywhere else who can appropriately take care of the child, why not take the child to them, and send money to them for monthly upkeep.....

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by VictoryAssured: 4:31pm On Dec 16, 2020

In all, you didn't disclose location nor important information

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Chinyerelove(op): 4:33pm On Dec 16, 2020

i am in Lagos thanks

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Oloki: 4:36pm On Dec 16, 2020

[quote author=Chinyerelove post=97130552]i am in Lagos thanks [/quot

if you are in Lagos the problem is half solved. like somebody said up there, you can google motherless homes and book an appointment with anyone of your choice

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Cerveau(f): 4:38pm On Dec 16, 2020

Chinyerelove:
i am in Lagos thanks

Lagose where there are dozens of motherless homes huh

?

Google is your friend, please take that child to where he will be safe!

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by longetivity(m): 4:39pm On Dec 16, 2020

God will punish the rapist

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Chinyerelove(op): 4:49pm On Dec 16, 2020

Cerveau:
Lagose where there are dozens of motherless homes?

Google is your friend, please take that child to where he will be safe!

I know there are dozens but not sure which ones are good because we want him to go to a safer place , not a place where he will be neglected. Thanks I will google it

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Chinyerelove(op): 4:50pm On Dec 16, 2020

longetivity:
God will punish the rapist

Amen ooo

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Chinyerelove(op): 4:54pm On Dec 16, 2020

Here are her pictures but I will not post the baby pictures . If anyone recognise and find her please email me . Thanks

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by budaatum: 4:57pm On Dec 16, 2020

Kriss216:
At 17, your sister don dey open legs

If the above is your definition of the following:

My 17 years old sister become pregnant after being raped

You need to be carefully watched!

www.nairaland.com/attachments/9764474_img20171031195618729_jpeg_jpeg06ce241846b7357d18a939481f3e9c6c

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by CHoccolaTE: 5:01pm On Dec 16, 2020

You people should have let her have an abortion when you discovered she was pregnant from rape, haba.
Sentimentality aside what quality of life do you expect that child to live now that she has brought him to this world?

And you, Op, you dont know what happened with her and you just concluded that she abandoned her baby, she left house and you didnt hear from her and your first conclusion was that she had run away? Have you ever heard of kidnap? (God forbid sha)
Anyway, hopefully nothing bad happened happened to her and she will return safely.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Karleb(m): 5:14pm On Dec 16, 2020

Kindly give the baby up for adoption.

Do your best to locate her. I'm sure she's confused wherever she is.

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by meobizy(m): 5:57pm On Dec 16, 2020

Those girls in the picture don’t look Nigerian. I hope this is not an attention seeker. There are too many bored children in this platform.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by JovialJune(f): 6:04pm On Dec 16, 2020

Kriss216:
At 17, your sister don dey open legs

Read, dolt.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Richy4(m): 6:12pm On Dec 16, 2020*

If she were to be my sister, I would have suggested an abortion... This is because she is young..it will be a case of a child bringing another child into the world... setting an eye on the child daily will be reminding her of what transpired on that ugly day... she does not have the emotional maturity to deal with it...

Even now that she gave birth, all she needed was matured minded people to surround her... not people with judgmental eyes... You know those type that when they look at you, their eyes says it all even when their lips were sealed.... I can't judge your elder brother for sending her away because I don't know what transpired between them but.....He should have applied wisdom.

Assuming you posted this 9months ago, your younger sister would have been healing gradually from the ordeal and would not have ran away...I pray she's in safe hands...

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Akunatakasi(m): 6:22pm On Dec 16, 2020

Kriss216:
At 17, your sister don dey open legs

be like your sense they your ear... you no see where she say them rape her...

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Nobody: 6:29pm On Dec 16, 2020

Your brother is a devil for sending her out of the house

For Christ sake, she was raped. RAPED!

HOW DO NIGERIAN PEOPLE THINK SOMETIMES?

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 16, 2020

Kriss216:
At 17, your sister don dey open legs

I would take it that you are optically impaired not to have read the first sentence.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by baby124: 7:18pm On Dec 16, 2020

Try to locate some social service agency in LASG and ask for approved motherless baby homes. How did you people even encourage her to keep that baby? She’s too young for a baby and the trauma of being raped! Yet your brother tries to blame her for the baby? I hope DNA database goes live in Nigeria soon so that all the rapists will be exposed.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by bomasek(m): 7:28pm On Dec 16, 2020

Pictures uploaded are different girls

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Richy4(m): 7:34pm On Dec 16, 2020

bomasek:
Pictures uploaded are different girls

Based on the pic, I was only looking at the teeth and it looks the same embarassed

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by bomasek(m): 7:38pm On Dec 16, 2020

Richy4:
Based on the pic, I was only looking at the teeth and it looks the same

Those girls look South Africa

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Richy4(m): 7:52pm On Dec 16, 2020

bomasek:
Those girls look South Africa

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Matheusmartin: 8:01pm On Dec 16, 2020

..
Upon discovery that she was raped, why didn't u guys go for emergency contraceptives or abort the fetus if fertilization has occurred?.

Or u guys didn't notice on time??..

And why did ur brother chased her out of the house huh

Or maybe there was no rape in the first place huh

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by Beremx(f): 8:06pm On Dec 16, 2020

There’s an orphanage at number 32, Adedayo Adedeji street Abaranje Ikotun. Stop at Wazobia Bus Stop. The name of the orphanage is Second Chance Orphanage and it’s government approved.

It’s well

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by babatunji91185: 8:29pm On Dec 16, 2020

Here are her pictures but I will not post the baby pictures . If anyone recognise and find her please email me . Thanks

Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by meobizy(m): 8:40pm On Dec 16, 2020

bomasek:
Those girls look South Africa

They obviously are. OP is a troll. God will punish these small boys typing rubbish in the forum. The funny part is 1,000,001 gullible Nairalanders reside here who’ll claim the contrary. I’m too smart for these dolts.

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Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by chingle5(m): 8:48pm On Dec 16, 2020

meobizy:
[s]Those girls in the picture don’t look Nigerian. I hope this is not an attention seeker. There are too many bored children in this platform.[/s]

Guy abeg dey try to dey use ur brain sometimes dey analyze things............ What is also the possibility of what u also said being true ode... angry

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