₦airaland Forum

CalliDora1:
A God-fearing woman will never do such.

Marry a born-again Christan.
Marry a virtuous woman.
Marry the will of God not oustside His will.

A virtous woman caps it all.

generationz:
This is stale na, try something better.

Hehehehe person not dey follow you play again

vivsravine:
ABROAD SISTERS, STOP SHAMING US

How do I start this write up without offending those involved?

Trust me I don't care, because enough is enough of the nonsence you ladies portray over there and forget so soon how you started.

It's no longer news what most of our sisters do to our brothers in the name of marriage overseas is quite alarming.

The news is so hard to bear and you start to wonder who actual birth these type of women, who forget humble beginning.

A man leaves all the ladies in the countries they reside and comes home to pick you as a wife, sometimes they even forget about those good girls they had a life with before they left the country.

He sponsors everyting about you, gets married to you and starts a life with you over there, in less than five years you become wiser than the devil and you begin to act like assistant devil.

Many will have the nerve to call the cops on their husband's in the slightest provacations some of these men go to jail because of martial issues while some of these women become as selfish as cain and they won't give a hoot and many of our brothers lose all their properties over there.

You easily become authoritative because you feel you have arrived and you can't be talked to, many go to the extent of sponsoring their exes to their country of abode, others would build houses here in the country without the consent of their husbands, some will even buy cars and other properties without letting their husbands be in the know.

The records of domestic violence has increased amongst ladies who were picked from here to such civilised countries, they go there and feel they are now wild and cling to have ample rights to discern what happens and nobody can dare them.

Many of our brothers has been deported, some have lost their chances of ever going back to that country and even other countries, many deny them access to their children and finally others go about killing their husbands because of inheritance.

Stop this show of shame and retrace your steps home, stop this abuse you know you can never do back home, in as much as I don't support injustice of any kind, lets stop this bad behaviour and guard your homes.

So many brothers no longer value Nigerian women because of this act that has eaten into them negatively, its a dent on all ladies because even the good ones are now affected badly.

It's another season for them to come back home and pick a wife, you will be with him soon and you will be excited of relocating but immediately you get there, you become as wild as a cat and hunt like a leopard.

So sad, because of this acidious acts, our brothers now come home, marry us and leave us here to take care of the kids while they go hustle and come back intermittently.

Remember karma is a bitch you can win but you won't always win, the repercussions are always closer, nemesis doesn't miss its address and certainly vengeance is of God .

Make ammends now and retrace your steps, don't forget humble beginnings your character is your voice even in your absence it would speak for you.

Ahudiya speaks ©

NNE I don't blame the useless ladies, I blame the foolish Nigerian guys who refused to learn.


As we speak, my childhood and close friend is importing his newly married wife from Nigeria to USA. 4 of my friends have done same, I kept telling them, marry ladies u meet there no matter how bad, their bad is better.



And to Nigerian ladies born and living abroad, you all are the reason Nigerian guys don't marry you guys but go home looking for these pretentious Jezebels to marry in Nigeria and bring abroad. You Nigerian ladies born and living abroad throwaway your Nigerian heritage for western culture. Indians and Filipinos don't do that, that's why Mark Zuckerberg didn't marry fellow white American, he married Asian woman.


Asian women don't throw away their Asian culture no matter where they live but Nigerian ladies will want to outdo Queen Elizabeth just because they live in UK or US.

Na una go tier last last

Hathor5:
Story.

I'm not surprised about this response because most of you are shortsighted.

Hathor5:
Interesting. Define loyalty.

In which situations do you give anything without expecting anything in return?

The protection we give to society.

Men sacrifice their lives daily to secure the lives and properties of everyone.

What do they get in return?

jornwhite:
There is no place in the world, where equality exist lets stop fooling ourselves, it is glaring foreign system favours the women more than the men ... same way naija system favours men over women, next time just make drop your comment without adding "equality".

I will add equality cos that is what they practise in the western countries, better don't deceive yourself otherwise.

luminouz:
Share experience jare....na wetin I wan read be that.

How many i wan begin narrate?

This is why guys don't want to risk bringing any lady over cos of stories that will definitely touch.

Many guys have killed their wives cos of this madness. See make we just leave the matter as e be.

I even have a childhood friend that we went to Uni together... He has cried tire.

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

Preach!!!

Hathor5:
They will be shouting that women take away their property abroad but majority of them do not even own houses there. They live in the poorest neighborhoods to be able to send some small change home. Yet they expect their wives to worship them for taking them abroad.

you wish. Any Nigerian guy living in the US legally for 8 years and don't own a house intentionally didn't want to, and he must have solid investments back in Naija. All.my friends below 40yrs own more than 2 houses in choice areas of Nigerian cities, you wish hun



Owning a house in the US is not a big deal if you are working with a first degree or as an RN.


Maybe you are talking about illegal migrants who cannot even file for their spouse anyway.


I wonder the guys living abroad you met. Maybe those living illegally in Europe and some Asian countries or UK

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

I saw a question asking a child who is head of a family? (a) father (b) mother (c) grandmother.

Sure, but they don't want the "partnership" until the man has spent his money on them in a one-sided manner to import them to the US.
Eating your cake and then wanting it.
Dumb men be spending hard earned cash on women and giving free green card after working 14 years to get it. Then the woman will find some "equality" that is actually more like trying to subjugate the man.
Only a fool will bring a Nigerian woman abroad

Cocao:
Men,

Taking your wives to a civil society means that you should begin to see them as worthy partners. Do not think you can be their master and God abroad, instead, work in a partnership, like marriage was intended to be.

Women, this abroad is for everyone. It is not gender specific. If you want to be in a society that values your contribution as a woman, you can make the move for yourself without waiting for any man that would continue to use that help as a chain on your neck. Do your thing biko.

Toks2008:
How many i wan begin narrate?

This is why guys don't want to risk bringing any lady over cos of stories that will definitely touch.

Many guys have killed their wives cos of this madness. See make we just leave the matter as e be.

I even have a childhood friend that we went to Uni together... He has cried tire.

Boss teach am Redpill



It's hi time Ken get to love women at the level the women love them. Meaning men should keep their loving and emotions and allow the women do the loving




Boss no more writings




When will your wedding pics reach here na elder

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

ladies like you die single and mostly wretched and living a regretful life when they reach 45 - 50yrs.

Repent now before it is too late. You sound too toxic and full of bile.


I pity all the guys that have fvcked your wicked pussy, they are in big trouble, what a toxic black woman

MrColdsweat:
The protection we give to society.

Men sacrifice their lives daily to secure the lives and properties of everyone.

What do they get in return?

Which men? The police, the soldiers, security personnel? Don't they get money to do their job or do they do it out of charity? And don't the same men intimidate, threaten and endanger the lives of others?

Hathor5:
Which men? The police, the soldiers, security personnel? Don't they get money to do their job or do they do it out of charity? And don't the same men intimidate, threaten and endanger the lives of others?

Make I twist ya mouth there. Your mouth bitter. Na mehn you dey wash like that.

Toks2008:
No be small thing be wettin ladies dey take their men eyes see o.

Hmmmmm! I don see enough no be the one wey dem tell me.

It is well.

Oga Toks

Please elucidate on the matter.

Why can’t the Nigerian men marry foreigners?
Problem solved: marry whom is domiciled where you are.

The messiah complex is the problem, you are looking for who to save and who will worship you.

Marry where you are, or the messiah complex is not endearing to women (all races) abroad?

The Nigerian woman who has nothing going for her becomes appealing. She becomes perceived as the most rewarding to ‘save’

humilitypays:
you wish. Any Nigerian guy living in the US legally for 8 years and don't own a house intentionally didn't want to.



Owning a house in the US is not a big deal if you are working with a first degree or as an RN.


Maybe you are talking about illegal migrants who cannot even file for their spouse anyway.


I wonder the guys living abroad you met. Maybe those living illegally in Europe and some Asian countries or UK

When you visit a Nigerian church abroad, you meet all kinds of people so there you go. US, Europe or Asia, your brothers who form big boy in Nigeria but live in impoverished areas abroad are everywhere.

RedPanthar:
Make I twist ya mouth there. Your mouth bitter. Na mehn you dey wash like that.

Now quote someone who says that all Nigerians ladies are gold-digging devils. You didn't see the bitterness there?

Naikkie:
Why can’t the Nigerian men marry foreigners?
Problem solved: marry whom is domiciled where you are.

The messiah complex is the problem, you are looking for who to save and who will worship you.

Marry where you are, or the messiah complex is not endearing to women (all races) abroad?

The Nigerian woman who has nothing going for her becomes appealing. She becomes the perceived as the most rewarding to ‘save’

What are you saying there. If I seize your phone there
When Jesus died, He expects loyalty. The same narrative applies.


Loyalty isn't slavery or loss of ones self

RedPanthar:
Loyalty is been there. It's a we thing and not an I thingy madam. Pure honest relationship is reciprocal and honest handling in mutual affairs in the best way possible.

I agree.

Hathor5:
When you visit a Nigerian church abroad, you meet all kinds of people so there you go. US, Europe or Asia, your brothers who form big boy in Nigeria but live in impoverished areas abroad are everywhere.

even in their so called poverty or miserable condition they are richer than your entire community women society na

Hathor5:
I agree.

But then when many see men that tret them well they begin to scheme to use emotions and all sorts to play manipulative mind games


Loyalty isn't slavery as goodness isn't weakness

humilitypays:
even in the poverty they are richer than your entire community women society na

Keep telling yourself lies if it makes you sleep better.

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

I shake my head for you.

Hathor5:
Keep telling yourself lies if it makes you sleep better.

NNE which state u in, make I flex you small so u can enjoy this life, no be only Buhari and Tinubu get money my dear, mhen are balling hard

humilitypays:
NNE which state u in, make I flex you small so u can enjoy this life, no be only Buhari and Tinubu get money my dear, mhen are balling hard

I am enjoying my life already. Thank you though.

OchoL:
A ridiculous rant again as I expected.

You are obviously still a young girl.

My prayer point for you is that you bear sons who will fall victim to the highlighted - let's see your online bravado and rants when that happens

Amen!
You are smart.

generationz:
You are very correct on being loyal to your benefactor even when your benefactor treats you like thrash, because you are lazy or didn't have a way out earlier, be loyal. If he spent his money to upgrade you, he deserves returns and loyalty.


My question is this as you know several women who work hard for their money, so they are increasing daily. Why don't these men go for them? Why do they have to take a cub, feed it, cloth it and expect it not to use it's teeth to tear them apart when it becomes a lion?

Who is deceiving who? What do these men want really? What are they really looking for?

They become shocked at how foolish they were and how marriage is really an investment but they were blinded because their ego was being massaged by their young sweet thing they controlled with money. Some of them even were benefactors of rich black/white older women and finessed them of thousands to train and upgrade one sweet young beauty to their level only to be shocked when these women show them they have a way out.

Many hardworking ladies who can find themselves are single and languishing. Both African and African American.

You know what hurts, how these shame those ladies for having standards and tell them they'd be single forever.

If you can't marry a lady on your financial level, stop complaining when your little cub becomes a lion and tears you apart.

Aptly put, but watch and see how they will vehemently argue against this, just watch.

JovialJune:
Funny thing about these men abroad is that, they can take any bullshit from other women abroad comfortably, even if she tells them to do weird irritating things, they'll gladly do it, but if it's our naija ladies, they will be fuming from their mouth to the head, with smoke visibly coming out, lmao, you guys will be fine o.

For the money remember, just for the money. How many naija gals can do that?!

Hathor5:
Which men? The police, the soldiers, security personnel? Don't they get money to do their job or do they do it out of charity? And don't the same men intimidate, threaten and endanger the lives of others?

This is why we say women are ungrateful. Men have been securing society long before the invention of money.

In the early societies, men would take turns in securing the perimeter of the villages from invaders and wild animals. And they get nothing in return.

If men didn't protect you women back then, baboons, gorillas and even dogs would have taken turns in defiling you women.

martinsad:
I shake my head for you.

Better don't let it fall, hold it still.