₦airaland Forum

Let me congratulate Op for her foolishness and the mumu that will follow her advice blindly. At least Op achieved one thing, generated traffic.

No matter what you do, any relationship can fall apart. There are young men that are so scared of marriage and may or not be ready to lose everything they gathered over the years.

If OP is that serious, what has she brought to the table?

Love creates a special bond that can be abused by either partner. What you need to ask and check yourself for, is infatuation.

Love creates a form of emotional dependency that you cannot wait to see each other and willing to do what you can in a give and take relationship to preserve it.

It is when one partner abuse it that you get hurt. I cannot do this or that is foolish. You got to do some things to flatter one another.

Nigerian youths have enough problems already, Op don't destroy what you cannot build. If you are in a good relationship, tell us what you do to keep him.

Shortyy:
You see that begging of a thing ehn! And cooking for him, someone you're not married to? Jeez. And moving in with him like some Desperado!

I always feel pity for women who do these.
They have no class, no esteem and they're emotionally weak.

wrong.i have seen couples that lived 2gether b4 marriage and they still doing great after marriage.

fati2001:
sometimes I wonder if they have sense..





girls with no ambition.

. Even those with ambition still have men that they worship. I tell you the truth, if a woman had ever loved you genuinely you will agree with me on this.

A lady can still observe the above mentioned points and end up in the wrong side of life.this thing called love boils down to individual character and commitment

Maobichek:
. Even those with ambition still have men that they worship. I tell you the truth, if a woman had ever loved you genuinely you will agree with me on this.

she is cheap.... decreasing her worth.... you better wait till we get married before all those things...

ZIINI:
If you see my face in real life
There’s no tribal mark there which means I’m not stupid

. So those with tribal mark are stupid? Please behave oh!

Jodha:
Yhure actually right op... especially staying with a man yhure not married to....he will never respect yhu or take yhu serious....

That cooking stuff sef I can't do that in the name of any foolish love.... washing yhur clothe and cooking for yhu when yhure not my husband... tufiakwa... I'll sit down and gist with yhu till yhu wash yhur clothe by yhurself and for yhurself...

you are irresponsible, be waiting for him to marry you now...you think they don't look at attitude.

Number 9 smh folishness

You forgot to add:

.
(10.) Making a SexTape
.
They don't understand till the relationship goes sour or a kiss and tell shares it with his friends and I get to see it shared everywhere on whatsapp and finally gets uploaded on Naijauncut

Jodha:
Yhure actually right op... especially staying with a man yhure not married to....he will never respect yhu or take yhu serious....

That cooking stuff sef I can't do that in the name of any foolish love.... washing yhur clothe and cooking for yhu when yhure not my husband... tufiakwa... I'll sit down and gist with yhu till yhu wash yhur clothe by yhurself and for yhurself...

God bless you my sister,especially washing of clothes, who does that, I once knew a girl that was already washing clothes 2 weeks into the relationship, shame catch me for her matter.

DONFRANSKID:
at least one of those girls are worth more than nairaland girls combined

You think because people are here to read news makes them as useless as the females surrounding you? If you had reasonable women around you, you would value any woman you see unless proven otherwise.
Stop being silly.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless....All Of Them

Including your sisters and cousins

There are ladies that didn't do any of the above and still are not happy with their marriages while some did some of the above and are happy. All of these things doesn't really matter. I think the best thing to look out for is happiness meanwhile we all should be ready to take the responsibilities to any of our decisions in life

You mean people with tribal marks are what__? Y.ou would:n't make heav..en this gu.y ����.
If you see my face in real life
There’s no tribal mark there which means I’m not stupid.

....

ZIINI:
11 . constant begging of 2k

�% fact!!!

mosdii:
Prepare very hard for your waec next year, SS2 student.

intelligent study .

Regina Daniels..

I don't hv much to say.

If we can check very well, the @op is guilty of some points here.
All these rules are giving online, but in real life, no sure way. What works for Mr A, may not work for Mr B.

Thiwalade:
Why buy the cow when the milk is free? �

you make sense die!

propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

Hmmm..Though you are correct .But if I see a lady that can do 2,3 and 7, I will love it

pocohantas:
It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day- but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.

Mehn..... you are the most objective lady on this forum.

Sarita01:
God bless you my sister,especially washing of clothes, who does that, I once knew a girl that was already washing clothes 2 weeks into the relationship, shame catch me for her matter.

To you it is bad but if I see a lady that will wash my clothes, cook and really romantic , I will propose to her before December 31st .Any lady who cannot clean a man's house should be ready to endure in that relationship till he decides to let her go.
So if you have a beautiful sister with good characters and can clean ,wash my clothes or be romantic please send her to me ...I want to marry her asap

OP is coming from a position of ignorance. Prolly still lives at home with mum and dad. After prayers they send you go and sweep ur room.

Living in the real world this entire list is shot. Offer OP 100k he will recant every thing here.

I'm a provider, and if ur my girl I won't even need to tell you to clean my place when you come by and because of levels she won't want to leave

Ekemeze:


Bashing men online but very submissive at home

Haha wickedness

ZIINI:
11 . constant begging of 2k

Lol

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless....All Of Them

Please o abeg make feminists no come for u

Different strokes for different folks ... I'm surprised op didn't mention sex ... all these shit up there don't matter to me ..whether u come once in a while or come often... if u don't have sense and can't contribute to helping me solve major issues ... u don't hv value to me ... in all things have sense... my gf cooks n, spends days with me , and I won't trade her for anything... taking her home to mama this year

If a guy doesn't value u after u do all this things ..he still won't value u if u don't

Darlingme:
If we can check very well, the @op is guilty of some points here.
All these rules are giving online, but in real life, no sure way. What works for Mr A, may not work for Mr B.

anointing oil dey ur head ...

kolade560:
ladies will come here to brag but behind the nairaland scene they do more than what they listed above. They can do anything to wear that white wedding gown.....if u follow their mouthing, u are on your own.

Sluacoast:
Well, you're right. but have you considered for once the reason towards such retarded behavior. some ladies do fight over a man because of how sweet and huge is penis.. talking from experience. That feeling of satisfaction no be here. haha

Hahah wickedness

anslem04:
[/b]



No wonder kitchen thread is more of a 6unit than a cruise, these one is looking for who to use food n trap , every woman with her own strategy God pass una ... shebi naa food men come chop for life. o tii rii olounje i'ya. je si ori bi tii edé men

Wickedness