Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
Yes that is my plan but as I speak now, I don't have any penny except some few change I came with and the time to pursue the court case is not there

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
Yes that is my plan but as I speak now, I don't have any penny except some few change I came with and the time to pursue the court case is not there

Nazgul:

You spent 2 years in prison and after your release, rather than build yourself financially, you started sending money to a girl in Nigeria whom you didn't contact for the 2 years you spent in prison...my dear you're not an intelligent person.

You arrived Nigeria Penneyless and you're talking of getting her arrested, involving the Police, EFCC, ICPC, DSS...etc. Let me just advice you do you don't waste the little money you don't have on a case you're obviously going to loose. Cos involve any of the mentioned agencies would cost you.

You don't have any case here. You dated her for 5 years and promised her marriage, wasted her time, then went mute. She'll claim she used the money as compensation for her time you wasted.

Next time use your head. No matter how long it takes you, find your feet before attempting to bring in someone into your life.

Nazgul:

You spent 2 years in prison and after your release, rather than build yourself financially, you started sending money to a girl in Nigeria whom you didn't contact for the 2 years you spent in prison...my dear you're not an intelligent person.

You arrived Nigeria Penneyless and you're talking of getting her arrested, involving the Police, EFCC, ICPC, DSS...etc. Let me just advice you do you don't waste the little money you don't have on a case you're obviously going to loose. Cos involving any of the mentioned agencies would cost you.

You don't have any case here. You dated her for 5 years and promised her marriage, wasted her time, then went mute. She'll claim she used the money as compensation for her time you wasted.

Next time use your head. No matter how long it takes you, find your feet before attempting to bring in someone into your life.

HugeElephant:
You are one of the reasons why Justice continues to fail in Nigeria.
Either the op promise to marry her or not,
If she was a reasonable law abiding citizen, she would have told the OP she has already married another person.

She was obtaining money under false pretense from the OP. That's a crime according to the Nigerian law.

Infact, if the lady respected her current husband, she would have nothing to do with the guy abroad after he was released from Prison.

It beats me how you people think, "what do you mean by he wasted her time". What stupid time? That's a manipulative statement devious females use to "tool" people. Don't be stupid

pocohantas:

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise

Odidigboigbo:
I was dating a girl for about 5 years before I travelled abroad, with a promised of coming back to marry her when I found my footings. After about 6 months of travelling, I had issue, which landed me in prison for two years, within this period, there was no communication with her and even with my relatives.
Fast forward, when I came out of prison, I reached to her and explained things to her, and then innocently continued from where we stopped, not knowing she has a hidden agenda.

I trusted her, and start making plans with her for our brighter future, sending all my hard earned money to her to help me buy property.

To my greatest surprised, coming down this Christmas to find out that she has been married with kids. I asked for my money, she claimed its for her compensation for what I put her through.
As I typed this, I'm so depressed, not knowing what do.

Please kindly advise